21f Looking for Public dares :)

[OhMyGosh]

Originally Posted by Bandana

I'm not the worrying kind, you should be worried about doing "anything they like" might include. A slave contract may be used as such an insurence, where you put down the rules in detail, it doesn't have to limit you that much really. And a safe word (and safe sign) is also a good idea before starting to play, trying to find out the limits in mid play. Things happen, especially when amateur BDSM play goes wrong, which they always do to a certain extent, I can name a 1000 things that are risky and can easily be avoided using a slave contract.

Another thing; if you don't like your face and personal info out there, you could use a nice party eye/nose mask or other stuff covering up parts of your face and hair, making sure pics and videos from a public game doesn't hurt your social life forever. Tattoos and other signs could be covered before playing as well.

Just trying to make you aware of the possibilities, we don't really need to take unnecessary deadly risks to play kinky games, at least I hope that's not what's triggering you to participating in those exciting games...

Take care and dare!

I think this is important. When I mentioned earlier, that the dares with Lea were a bit vanilla and not extreme enough for your taste, I did not mean that you should ignore all warning signs and submit yourself to someone who might end up dangerous for you. As far as you safety was concerned, you seem to have found a perfect dare partner with Lea, no doubt. And that already is extremely important.

All I was trying to say, I wondered if her insertion and being-shared kink was already enough for your dirty needs, as I expected you to be more extreme under different circumstances.

Whatever you do, take care.

[GivingWantingDares]

Originally Posted by Miss.Public

Ill search a guy on tinder now to repeat it and see what a guy will do different ♥ After the 7 days with her i feel very confident and my trust in the humans is really great at the moment ♥ She could have done so much more but no... she even regret sending me naked outside ♥ People arent that bad, if i choose the right ones i guess ♥ Ill search for a kinky but polite guy which seems like he would abuse his force too much and which still cares about my feelings just like Lea ♥

Absolutely loved this report. Might be the best one I've ever read up to now

[Miss.Public]

Originally Posted by Bandana

I'm not the worrying kind, you should be worried about doing "anything they like" might include. A slave contract may be used as such an insurence, where you put down the rules in detail, it doesn't have to limit you that much really. And a safe word (and safe sign) is also a good idea before starting to play, trying to find out the limits in mid play. Things happen, especially when amateur BDSM play goes wrong, which they always do to a certain extent, I can name a 1000 things that are risky and can easily be avoided using a slave contract.

Another thing; if you don't like your face and personal info out there, you could use a nice party eye/nose mask or other stuff covering up parts of your face and hair, making sure pics and videos from a public game doesn't hurt your social life forever. Tattoos and other signs could be covered before playing as well.

Just trying to make you aware of the possibilities, we don't really need to take unnecessary deadly risks to play kinky games, at least I hope that's not what's triggering you to participating in those exciting games...

Take care and dare!

Actually i made up something similar to a "contract" already with Lea ♥ I told her exactly how it should be done and that i would do anything she wants me to do, but if its way to extreme id alway could deny doing anything ♥ There was no Safeword, because i think the Safeword "Stop, its to much" or "i dont want that" should be enough ;P The contract was just via mouth instead of written down ♥ Also i told Lea that i got people which guard me and if anything would happen against my will which is extreme, they would become mad ♥ A little warning never makes it worse ;P And more...

Ill tell the same stuff the guy which ill choose for the next 7 days ♥ With Lea i wrote at least 2 days and even phoned before starting, so i really was quite sure i knew what type of character she was ♥

Long story short: Ill be careful dont worry ♥ And if somebody does bad things to me he / she will regret it ;P

About the mask: I really dont like masks *-* It kinda makes me unhorny (turns me down... how do i say that in english haha?) ♥ I love the risk, and i always talk to people which take pics (if possible) and/or cover my face with my hair or hands or so if possible ♥

Originally Posted by SirD

Wow! This has got to be one of the longest running threads on getdare. I haven't had a chance to catch up on everything but the little I have read looks great and I'm looking forward to reading more and potentially adding a task or two.

You can also add twenty or thirty tasks ;P Thank you for being a fan ♥

Originally Posted by OhMyGosh

I think this is important. When I mentioned earlier, that the dares with Lea were a bit vanilla and not extreme enough for your taste, I did not mean that you should ignore all warning signs and submit yourself to someone who might end up dangerous for you. As far as you safety was concerned, you seem to have found a perfect dare partner with Lea, no doubt. And that already is extremely important.

All I was trying to say, I wondered if her insertion and being-shared kink was already enough for your dirty needs, as I expected you to be more extreme under different circumstances.

Whatever you do, take care.

Really guys ♥ I love you caring so much but i am not dumb and i got many people caring here too ;P I WILL be careful and i dont see myself as a slave or slut... I only do what I want and now i want to be told what to do, but when i dont want something i decide whether ill do it or not ;P This makes me a Queen ;P They can be happy if i allow them to use me haha ;P

Ill be carefull dont worry haha ♥

Originally Posted by GivingWantingDares

Absolutely loved this report. Might be the best one I've ever read up to now

Thank youuu ♥♥♥

[Fishnetman]

Saw this in another thread.

Swapping creative public dares sounds fun.

Tit for tat, so to speak.

If anyone is interested, Kik: maninfishnets.

[Bandana]

Originally Posted by Miss.Public

Actually i made up something similar to a "contract" already with Lea ♥ I told her exactly how it should be done and that i would do anything she wants me to do, but if its way to extreme id alway could deny doing anything ♥ There was no Safeword, because i think the Safeword "Stop, its to much" or "i dont want that" should be enough ;P The contract was just via mouth instead of written down ♥ Also i told Lea that i got people which guard me and if anything would happen against my will which is extreme, they would become mad ♥ A little warning never makes it worse ;P And more...

Ill tell the same stuff the guy which ill choose for the next 7 days ♥ With Lea i wrote at least 2 days and even phoned before starting, so i really was quite sure i knew what type of character she was ♥

Long story short: Ill be careful dont worry ♥ And if somebody does bad things to me he / she will regret it ;P

About the mask: I really dont like masks *-* It kinda makes me unhorny (turns me down... how do i say that in english haha?) ♥ I love the risk, and i always talk to people which take pics (if possible) and/or cover my face with my hair or hands or so if possible ♥

Well, either you have a contract or you don't, if not you have some "agreement" about your play. What would happen if you played chess that way? You would make up your own rules and don't rely on the few rules that was in place, or "suggenstions" of rules. So that wouldn't work if you were been "forced" to do things, you just say "no, I don't feel like doing that today" and you get no play at all.

I you really want to play the game feeling lika a slave (for a certain predetermined time) you have to make up some rules that you both/all agree about, or you have something similar to a slave/master relation but not a real one. You are either in control over someone or not, you are either controlled by someone or not, you have to give up that control by some formal activity (signing a contract), giving up the right to your life and will to another person, something that is hard to do for a free person (I guess therefore there is a need for slave training where you learn to obey other people without critical thinking). But if you don't really like to feel like a real slave but more like a submissive who doesn't like to be forced but suggested into activities, then I guess you don't need a slave contract. A real Master/Mistress wouldn't play with a slave if the rules weren't set before playing of course.

For your future games, I would like to suggest some chastity play, with remote control, mixed with public tasks. I bet you haven't played that before?! Lots of dares in that category here on GD, just look them up!

[Miss.Public]

Originally Posted by Bandana

Well, either you have a contract or you don't, if not you have some "agreement" about your play. What would happen if you played chess that way? You would make up your own rules and don't rely on the few rules that was in place, or "suggenstions" of rules. So that wouldn't work if you were been "forced" to do things, you just say "no, I don't feel like doing that today" and you get no play at all.

I you really want to play the game feeling lika a slave (for a certain predetermined time) you have to make up some rules that you both/all agree about, or you have something similar to a slave/master relation but not a real one. You are either in control over someone or not, you are either controlled by someone or not, you have to give up that control by some formal activity (signing a contract), giving up the right to your life and will to another person, something that is hard to do for a free person (I guess therefore there is a need for slave training where you learn to obey other people without critical thinking). But if you don't really like to feel like a real slave but more like a submissive who doesn't like to be forced but suggested into activities, then I guess you don't need a slave contract. A real Master/Mistress wouldn't play with a slave if the rules weren't set before playing of course.

For your future games, I would like to suggest some chastity play, with remote control, mixed with public tasks. I bet you haven't played that before?! Lots of dares in that category here on GD, just look them up!

"you just say "no, I don't feel like doing that today" and you get no play at all"... If i use a safeword i also "could just say that and get no play at all" so safeword or just telling whats too much is kinda the same for me :/

As i said there are rules, that i do everything that person wants, but if it would traumatize me i can stop it, thats the only exception ♥ If i make a contract and telll him exactly what he can do with me and what he cant do, i wont see what he would do by himself, he wouldnt act the same :/ I dont really get why you all dont understand me there... its also a little social experiment and if its too extreme of course ill do everything to not get traumatized but thats not the point...

Chastity play wont be done ever, if i wanna cum i will cum ;P remote controle and public tasks are totally fine ♥
First time in all my GetDare experience in which i get the feeling of you guys dont want me to do something

Normally i could ask things like: "What do you think: should i go naked to Aylins parents and fuck my pussy with a dead fish in front of them?" (which would be social suicide i guess), and you guys would say "yeeees do it!" haha (id never do this btw) ♥

[Caya]

Originally Posted by Miss.Public

"you just say "no, I don't feel like doing that today" and you get no play at all"... If i use a safeword i also "could just say that and get no play at all" so safeword or just telling whats too much is kinda the same for me :/

As i said there are rules, that i do everything that person wants, but if it would traumatize me i can stop it, thats the only exception ♥ If i make a contract and telll him exactly what he can do with me and what he cant do, i wont see what he would do by himself, he wouldnt act the same :/ I dont really get why you all dont understand me there... its also a little social experiment and if its too extreme of course ill do everything to not get traumatized but thats not the point...

Chastity play wont be done ever, if i wanna cum i will cum ;P remote controle and public tasks are totally fine ♥
First time in all my GetDare experience in which i get the feeling of you guys dont want me to do something

Normally i could ask things like: "What do you think: should i go naked to Aylins parents and fuck my pussy with a dead fish in front of them?" (which would be social suicide i guess), and you guys would say "yeeees do it!" haha (id never do this btw) ♥

I think people r a bit scared becours pf the sterotypical abductions etc.

But to be honest girls can be much much meiner to girls than boys are to girls.
Why ? Becours girls know how girls Tick and what Buttons to push and what levels ro pull ...

[Miss.Public]

Originally Posted by Caya

I think people r a bit scared becours pf the sterotypical abductions etc.

But to be honest girls can be much much meiner to girls than boys are to girls.
Why ? Becours girls know how girls Tick and what Buttons to push and what levels ro pull ...

Yes thats what im thinking too, girls can be BITCHES so hard haha ♥

The point that I pick the guy for the next 7 days by myself decreases the risk so much in my eyes, because i definitely wont pick a "bad boy" or so... i will take a very nice polite guy which doesnt look creepy at all and i will chat with him days before asking out and digging deep to find out if he would be good for this ♥ That way i found Lea and she was super nice ♥ There are already like 20 guys which i just stopped texting because they didnt seem to be safe enough ♥

Oh and dont forget: If they try to do something really bad... I can be a real bitch myself ;P

[Caya]

Originally Posted by Miss.Public

Yes thats what im thinking too, girls can be BITCHES so hard haha ♥

The point that I pick the guy for the next 7 days by myself decreases the risk so much in my eyes, because i definitely wont pick a "bad boy" or so... i will take a very nice polite guy which doesnt look creepy at all and i will chat with him days before asking out and digging deep to find out if he would be good for this ♥ That way i found Lea and she was super nice ♥ There are already like 20 guys which i just stopped texting because they didnt seem to be safe enough ♥

Oh and dont forget: If they try to do something really bad... I can be a real bitch myself ;P

I bet you can be ...

To be honest im mostly worryed if its a couple. Especialy a couple without a ds dynamic...

Or a lesbian couple with a very harsch ds dynamic

[OhMyGosh]

There are asshole males, there are asshole females, there are asshole non-binary people and there are asshole couples or couples in which at least one part of it is an asshole.

Of course there is a big majority of people who aren't assholes as well. But I think offering yourself as a sex slave to a total stranger or at least submitting yourself to someone who you don't know and trust yet, bears a higher risk of attracting assholes who only agree to this scenario, because they don't give a f... about your emotions, your limits or your rights.

Re-thinking about your experience with Lea one more time makes me glad, that you found someone trustworthy instead.

All I'm saying is, have fun and do the extreme things you enjoy doing - but as you do, please don't forget that there are still assholes out there who could molest, abuse, harass, blackmail, abduct, mutilate, sell or even kill you, if they ever encounter you in such a helpless situation. And that without any further precautions, there are risks that not even Aylin or your or her bf could help you that easily.

I hate being the moraliser. Just take care, that's all I wanted to say.

[Bandana]

Originally Posted by Miss.Public

...Chastity play wont be done ever, if i wanna cum i will cum

Yes, I know; but chastity doesn't really make cumming impossible, only
harder! There are many roads to Rome!

So many games to play, so little time. Have you been introduced to electricity?

[Miss.Public]

Originally Posted by Bandana

Yes, I know; but chastity doesn't really make cumming impossible, only
harder! There are many roads to Rome!

So many games to play, so little time. Have you been introduced to electricity?

I wont do chastity, but what do you have in mind for electricity? ♥

[Bandana]

Originally Posted by Miss.Public

I wont do chastity, but what do you have in mind for electricity? ♥

Oh, there are so much you can do with e-stim. So many combinations of electrical stimulation and other stuff. It can even be controlled by remote...

Here, I picked out one for you:

https://www.amazon.com/Stimulator-Le...dp/B08D6D1YD5/

[Miss.Public]

I kinda think i found a fitting guy for the next 7 day dare ♥ Just a small update for you ♥

Hes very nice so far and seems to be slightly shy which will keep the tasks from him a bit easier i guess but also decreases the risk for bad things ♥ Ill inspect him more ♥ Hes actually living only 13 mins from my house *-* so my own city.... which is a biiiig nope, but maybe ill give him a try *-*

[Caya]

Originally Posted by Miss.Public

I kinda think i found a fitting guy for the next 7 day dare ♥ Just a small update for you ♥

Hes very nice so far and seems to be slightly shy which will keep the tasks from him a bit easier i guess but also decreases the risk for bad things ♥ Ill inspect him more ♥ Hes actually living only 13 mins from my house *-* so my own city.... which is a biiiig nope, but maybe ill give him a try *-*

Well only being 13 minutes away gives you the oportunetny ro rest him out and See how it goes