29 F | Ask Me Everything ;P

[SubBabyDoll]

Originally Posted by jjjks

When was the last time you were a Dom for someone

Have you ever had a dynamic with another switch

In what ways are you a switch

March of this year because I would switch off with my last partner.

Yes outside of the last relationship I had switched off before but it always seemed to be the male switch would want to be sub more than dom until my last relationship. That was just my personal experience I'm not overgeneralizing because it varies with each person.

I identify with both sides (submissive and Domme) and have acted both as a submissive to male doms (I don't have an interest in female Dommes), and as a Domme I have had both male subs, slaves, and female subs and slaves over the years. Both roles I've done for over 10 years both in casual short term relationships, contract based, and longterm ways with individual arrangements that have always been based on mutual consent and our likes and curiousities.

Personally, in terms of longterm or for what I feel the most fun from, I tend to sway more towards being sub with a male dom because I am more outwardly assertive and outspoken in my personality, what this means to me is that I don't on a regular basis feel unfulfilled or crave to be Domme like that side of me feels more lived out in my day-to-day life. Whereas the other side of me I do find craving more time for that at certain times. Also it can feel like I want to release being in control or need time without making so many decisions and it's not just pleasurable or a positive but also can be a stress reliever. So as a switch, for me it's about having a balance, deep reflection and relationships that I can explore this with. And I've had many exceptional experiences with this over the years!

[lotusdriver81]

How would you describe your breasts?

[SubBabyDoll]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

How would you describe your breasts?

Good cleavage with or without support and happily visible in clothing if I'm not up for wearing a bra. I'm a 36C

[lotusdriver81]

How would you describe your vagina?

[SubBabyDoll]

Shaved with a strong preference for edging

[lotusdriver81]

If you could change anything about yourself what would you change? Doesn't have to be physical, could be anything.

[SubBabyDoll]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

If you could change anything about yourself what would you change? Doesn't have to be physical, could be anything.

To be completely honest I wouldn't change anything!

[lotusdriver81]

Could you describe your best sexual experience?

[SubBabyDoll]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

Could you describe your best sexual experience?

Mid summer, wee hours in the morning, between 2-4 am......local beach near my home no one was around but..there was the risk because ppl come at all hours.

My dom at the time and I on the beach took our time and had sex 3 full times, with oral in between for both of us. It was a just little bit humid..the weather and night mist seemed to encourage a primal feeling and this desire to continue into the next day except we decided not to stay past daybreak..

Before this I was tied with synthetic rope for the aesthetic in the evening after we went out from the time we arrived at the beach and watched the sunset. This was in addition to having already had vibrating underwear that I'd had to wear all that day while out...which intensified during the bondage. So when we finally had our experience I had been waiting for a long time and wanting.

[lotusdriver81]

Sounds like an interesting experience. What size is your waist before and after you put on a corset?

[SubBabyDoll]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

Sounds like an interesting experience. What size is your waist before and after you put on a corset?

24" before, about 20" after depending on the corset if moderately tightened.

[subDanni]

Do you like to give spanking as well as recieve?
Do you like being tied up during a spanking?
Have you ever got a punishment that you really loved?

[SubBabyDoll]

Originally Posted by subDanni

Do you like to give spanking as well as recieve?
Do you like being tied up during a spanking?
Have you ever got a punishment that you really loved?

I love both!

Yes, but only if I'm resisting and there's tension involved. Without it then the bondage doesn't add any excitement.

I'm a masochist so it's hard to explain because I want to dislike it/feel some pain/be humiliated which in such case arouses me at the same time, so spanking I feel the right mix with (with the doms I've chosen).....I think probably one of the best punishments anytime it happens has been slight public like when there's a threat of spanking or some spanking in a place where someone can hear something or notice something (an empty aisle in a store) just happened but right before they arrived so they don't really know or see exactly what it was but the whole time there's a big risk...or if I don't react to something correctly or try to take things off (vibrator, vibrating underwear, certain clothes, chastity belt, etc) in public it can result in much worse than what I described but I'm tempted to test it anyway.

Same thing if it's something else slight public or questionable like someone might hear something that makes them curious, or see something without knowing/seeing the entire thing to make it out but there's still the risk involved that more can happen as a punishment/ or it would be seen and it draws attention to my status and is a good punishment because of the reminder nothing is safe (in a hot way) and I feel a mixture of wanting to test it/push it more while at the same time I'm too humiliated to do/go further and want to get out of there.

[lotusdriver81]

Originally Posted by SubBabyDoll

24" before, about 20" after depending on the corset if moderately tightened.

Is that the smallest you have had it?

[SubBabyDoll]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

Is that the smallest you have had it?

No but I don't always measure every time either