[20/f] Make me earn my orgasms... - Page 25

redcamel · 01-13-2021, 11:58 AM

I just read this amazing thread, and a question arises spontaneously: could the game go so far to give Danielle some form of control on your orgasms?

It could be about where you can have your orgasms, or, since she seems to love it so much, how you have to be dressed while having each of your orgasms? Maybe in your room while she is in her room and can hear you? Or simply telling her when you are about to masturbate? It sounds like both of you could have a *LOT* of fun...

LPV · 01-13-2021, 12:14 PM

3 points for a 5 minute long ice cold shower. Negative 3 if you don't do this at least twice a week.

2 points for kneeling on rice for 15 minutes. 5 if your housemates see you.

Danzy · 01-13-2021, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Daring_Alice

We'll let you off with these ones, but once you have completed the next 20 points for an orgasm, your subsequent one will cost 21, then 22 etc.

We'll re-assess if it gets too much.

Well done on your latest tasks though!

Sounds like you had great fun

I agree with this.

NetNegative · 01-13-2021, 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by redcamel

I just read this amazing thread, and a question arises spontaneously: could the game go so far to give Danielle some form of control on your orgasms?

It could be about where you can have your orgasms, or, since she seems to love it so much, how you have to be dressed while having each of your orgasms? Maybe in your room while she is in her room and can hear you? Or simply telling her when you are about to masturbate? It sounds like both of you could have a *LOT* of fun...

This has actually been discussed previously. While she finds it exciting, I think she wants to build things up a bit more with Danielle before going that far.

Which raises a good point-while Danielle has certainly noticed your surprisingly frequent lack of underwear, Sara, you have yet to start a new bet with her, nor done anything else to actively progress the nascent arrangement that is growing between you two.

I see two ways to remedy this:
1) make a new bet with her involving an even kinkier forfeit.
2) directly ask her to control your clothes for a certain time period.

What do the rest of you think? Got other ideas for how to progress this? Any more specific suggestions for 1) or 2)?

bee9 · 01-13-2021, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by SimplySara

Oh absolutely... no doubt about it...!!!

Told you!

bluedieblub · 01-13-2021, 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by NetNegative

This has actually been discussed previously. While she finds it exciting, I think she wants to build things up a bit more with Danielle before going that far.

Which raises a good point-while Danielle has certainly noticed your surprisingly frequent lack of underwear, Sara, you have yet to start a new bet with her, nor done anything else to actively progress the nascent arrangement that is growing between you two.

I see two ways to remedy this:
1) make a new bet with her involving an even kinkier forfeit.
2) directly ask her to control your clothes for a certain time period.

What do the rest of you think? Got other ideas for how to progress this? Any more specific suggestions for 1) or 2)?

We are waiting for Danielle to finish her last kinky bet. There is still one day of underwear control left. Sara? Why don't you ask her tomorrow if she likes to control your outfit today to pay off your bet? Yes that's outfit, not underwear. I'm sure neither of you will truly mind.

NetNegative · 01-13-2021, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by bluedieblub

We are waiting for Danielle to finish her last kinky bet. There is still one day of underwear control left. Sara? Why don't you ask her tomorrow if she likes to control your outfit today to pay off your bet? Yes that's outfit, not underwear. I'm sure neither of you will truly mind.

Yes, but who said Sara needs to wait till the bet is complete to keep pushing forward? I think she's given Danielle plenty to think about since the last time Sara fulfilled part of their bet, and the opportunity for advancement is ripe.

bee9 · 01-13-2021, 06:42 PM

Since OP mentioned interest in bondage and heavy spanking, it is something we should explore given that Danielle will most likely be keen in doing so.

For starters Sara could ask Danielle to "punish" her, then tie her ankles to the bed corners, followed by wrists. It would be then up to Danielle how hard the spanking would be.

Eventually the door might not even get closed... who knows

linearizationcannon · 01-13-2021, 07:27 PM

+5 points: when getting ready to purchase an orgasm with points, flip a coin or (use some other random generator with 50/50 odds and pre-define which results are heads and tails). Don't look at the results until you're about to orgasm. If it's tails you can orgasm. If it's heads, you don't get to orgasm, nor do you get your points back.

Daring_Alice · 01-13-2021, 09:15 PM

Let Sara establish how far and when she moves forward with Danielle. She knows her & noone here does. Tying up/ controlling imply a level of trust beyond just friendship, this isn't something to rush into and definitely not a dynamic someone should be forced/ pressured into...

NetNegative · 01-13-2021, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Daring_Alice

Let Sara establish how far and when she moves forward with Danielle. She knows her & noone here does. Tying up/ controlling imply a level of trust beyond just friendship, this isn't something to rush into and definitely not a dynamic someone should be forced/ pressured into...

Thanks for your perspective on this. After considering it some more, I think you're correct.

bee9 · 01-13-2021, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Daring_Alice

Let Sara establish how far and when she moves forward with Danielle. She knows her & noone here does. Tying up/ controlling imply a level of trust beyond just friendship, this isn't something to rush into and definitely not a dynamic someone should be forced/ pressured into...

All of that is subject to Sara's vetting. 100%

Daring_Alice · 01-14-2021, 02:07 AM

Thanks both, glad we agree.

On a lighter note for us, unless I am mistaken, Sata missed updating her total yestersay.. So -1 point.

SimplySara · 01-14-2021, 05:31 AM

Thanks all for the interesting discussion... and thanks for agreeing that I am best positioned to decide when the dynamic between me and Danielle is ready for the next step and how far I want to take it... I do want to progress the dynamic further there is no question about that... but I don't want to rush it... having said that suggestions from all of you will always be welcome...!! An occasional push from you all doesn't hurt...

Danielle and I had a nice talk last night over a large glass of wine after dinner... we actually didn't talk about the bet and all the kinky stuff that has led to... but I feel that was the driver for us spending time trying to get to know each other even more yesterday... I felt like I got to know her a lot better... and funnily enough I feel closer to her and more comfortable relinquishing further control to her now... provided she wants it if course...

So I am going to consider NetNegative and bluedieblub's suggestions of letting her control all my clothes for a day (maybe more than a day) instead of just my underwear... and see what that leads to... for starters I'll have to show her my entire wardrobe... including all my underwear... that thought alone excites me for some reason... and hopefully that'll also be a show of trust from my side...

SimplySara · 01-14-2021, 05:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Daring_Alice

Thanks both, glad we agree.

On a lighter note for us, unless I am mistaken, Sata missed updating her total yestersay.. So -1 point.

I blame the large glass of wine for missing updating my total... I fully intended to but fell asleep before I could...

I have a busy day today so I'll only be able to get around to it later...

01-13-2021, 11:58 AM	#361
redcamel getDare Addict Join Date: Nov 2018 Location: Italy Posts: 2,106	I just read this amazing thread, and a question arises spontaneously: could the game go so far to give Danielle some form of control on your orgasms? It could be about where you can have your orgasms, or, since she seems to love it so much, how you have to be dressed while having each of your orgasms? Maybe in your room while she is in her room and can hear you? Or simply telling her when you are about to masturbate? It sounds like both of you could have a LOT of fun... __________________ M, Straight, Dom. My suggestion for humiliation lovers and/or exhibitionists.

01-13-2021, 12:14 PM	#362
LPV getDare Saint Join Date: Dec 2014 Location: Earth Posts: 3,594 Blog Entries: 13	3 points for a 5 minute long ice cold shower. Negative 3 if you don't do this at least twice a week. 2 points for kneeling on rice for 15 minutes. 5 if your housemates see you. __________________ Denied by Triangle until at least June 8, 2024. Triangle is also requiring lpv to do 25 DAILY edges during this denial time. Last orgasm--October 18, 2023 About me: My likes, dislikes and limits Sam, RIP!

01-13-2021, 06:42 PM	#368
bee9 getDare Succubus Join Date: May 2010 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 1,797	Since OP mentioned interest in bondage and heavy spanking, it is something we should explore given that Danielle will most likely be keen in doing so. For starters Sara could ask Danielle to "punish" her, then tie her ankles to the bed corners, followed by wrists. It would be then up to Danielle how hard the spanking would be. Eventually the door might not even get closed... who knows __________________ Taking subs into life/goal mentoring with extreme sexual motivation. Details here.

01-13-2021, 07:27 PM	#369
linearizationcannon Account Banned Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 2,090	+5 points: when getting ready to purchase an orgasm with points, flip a coin or (use some other random generator with 50/50 odds and pre-define which results are heads and tails). Don't look at the results until you're about to orgasm. If it's tails you can orgasm. If it's heads, you don't get to orgasm, nor do you get your points back. __________________ Evil sadistic dare giver and proud inventor of "cumulative hot potato". People who flake or don't write detailed dare reports piss me off

01-13-2021, 09:15 PM	#370
Daring_Alice getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Nov 2020 Posts: 426	Warning Let Sara establish how far and when she moves forward with Danielle. She knows her & noone here does. Tying up/ controlling imply a level of trust beyond just friendship, this isn't something to rush into and definitely not a dynamic someone should be forced/ pressured into... __________________ Lesbian Domme Interests: Exhibitionism, Control, Bondage, Pain, Degredation, Edging/ Denial, Good Reports, Fun. Limits: Family, Social Suicide, scat, permanent, anything else I say. Sometimes willing to take on dares/tasks... If you are interesting enough Likes: Exhibitionism, exposure risk, edging, Anal, Masturbation. Limits: Long term denial, pics, social suicide, pee, messy.

01-14-2021, 02:07 AM	#373
Daring_Alice getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Nov 2020 Posts: 426	Thanks both, glad we agree. On a lighter note for us, unless I am mistaken, Sata missed updating her total yestersay.. So -1 point. __________________ Lesbian Domme Interests: Exhibitionism, Control, Bondage, Pain, Degredation, Edging/ Denial, Good Reports, Fun. Limits: Family, Social Suicide, scat, permanent, anything else I say. Sometimes willing to take on dares/tasks... If you are interesting enough Likes: Exhibitionism, exposure risk, edging, Anal, Masturbation. Limits: Long term denial, pics, social suicide, pee, messy.

01-14-2021, 05:31 AM	#374
SimplySara Distinguished Member Join Date: Apr 2020 Location: UK Posts: 547 Blog Entries: 3	Thanks all for the interesting discussion... and thanks for agreeing that I am best positioned to decide when the dynamic between me and Danielle is ready for the next step and how far I want to take it... I do want to progress the dynamic further there is no question about that... but I don't want to rush it... having said that suggestions from all of you will always be welcome...!! An occasional push from you all doesn't hurt... Danielle and I had a nice talk last night over a large glass of wine after dinner... we actually didn't talk about the bet and all the kinky stuff that has led to... but I feel that was the driver for us spending time trying to get to know each other even more yesterday... I felt like I got to know her a lot better... and funnily enough I feel closer to her and more comfortable relinquishing further control to her now... provided she wants it if course... So I am going to consider NetNegative and bluedieblub's suggestions of letting her control all my clothes for a day (maybe more than a day) instead of just my underwear... and see what that leads to... for starters I'll have to show her my entire wardrobe... including all my underwear... that thought alone excites me for some reason... and hopefully that'll also be a show of trust from my side... __________________ 20 female. Mostly straight. Likes - risky dares, embarrassing situations, masturbating, orgasms, breast pain, light butt spanking Want to explore - being controlled, staged accidental, humiliation, heavier spanking, bondage Limits - pics, anal, scat, anything that could get me arrested Toys - dildo, blindfold, furry handcuffs, remote vibrator, nipple clamps, nipple suckers, ball gag Living arrangements - house share with 3 guys and another girl. *Orgasm Points - Daily Summary!*