04-13-2016, 09:00 AM | #16 |
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Really the car is too far if everyone is telling you it is too far you should stop and listen to them, take some time to sit with your boyfriend and have talk with him to work out things that would be going too far like taking his car through blackmail which is extortion and you could get in a lot of trouble for this. Remember he is your boyfriend not your husband, the car is something a married couple that enjoys this stuff would consider.
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04-13-2016, 09:01 AM | #17 | |
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The way i see it is that if that is too far then he should have said so as gave him plenty chances to |
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04-13-2016, 09:09 AM | #18 |
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i am aware but he's excited probably thinking nothing like getting forced to sign his car over to you, i don't think there is anything wrong with any of the other suggestions but you should reconsider even doing the car at all or go to him and be like "so what if as a result of all the blackmail i get i want you to sign an expensive belonging of yours over to me, how would you feel about that?" it's better to make sure you're both ok with everything happening than getting in a lot of trouble because you took it too far
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Ok ok i am listening, i may pretend about the car just to see his reaction at first and take it from there how about that? Are there any other issues with the rest of the ideas i had above or are they all good? |
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04-13-2016, 01:29 PM | #21 |
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Thank you. That is a reasonable way to approach this. As long as you give him an out if he is really really extremely uncomfortable, then it is fine. Maybe having a code word set up for things that are too out of hand, that way you could still hear him beg, but he has a way out if he really needs/wants one. Other than that, there is nothing wrong with blackmail as long as you two trust each other and have a strong relationship.
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If he does not say that's too far though then i will most likely say "ok just remember that you asked for this" and go ahead with that though Does that sound ok? Any other suggestions? |
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04-13-2016, 01:32 PM | #23 |
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Also, just as a dominant would not give a submissive something that is in their hard limits, make sure you do not pass into his. Otherwise have fun and make sure everything is consensual.
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Not necessarily saying you shouldn't do it, but I think you need to know how it will affect him first.
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04-13-2016, 01:39 PM | #26 |
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Well he sounds like he did not think this through at all. Personally, I like the idea of ice plugs and clothespin dares. If you look online there are tutorials for how to make an ice plug out of a condom and toilet paper tube. You can also use it as a timer so you can put a key on a string in it and then he can't be released until the plug melts.
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I suggest if you do the blackmail thing, have a way to prove this was consensual. Otherwise, you could get into serious trouble later on. Even then, that's no guarantee you won't get in trouble (worst case scenario, with the law.)
I also suggest, insisting on him having a safe word whether he likes it or not. There's no guarantee, he won't want one later on. And this way, you don't have to stop at every no. Because consent is only consent when one consents. The safe word is for both your benifits. Everyone else said everything else I wanted to say.
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We made up a contract thing today and he signed this, i am really excited as this starts soon.
I asked him if there was any limits or anything and he said no so the idea involving other guys/girls will 100% be happening and i will see by his reaction how he copes with it, it will be interesting anyway I love the idea with the key in the ice plug, not sure how sore that would be for someone though? I am going to go out for the day with him but ban him from using the toilet and if he cant hold it then well he will just have to let it go in public |
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It has a section where he has requested not to know all of my ideas and that he consents, trust me everything has been covered and has been checked etc
Do not worry as i am not Trying to think of much more ideas for this though, could do with some help? Anyone got a list for me? |
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