Need help from a strict dom

PixieEmmie · 03-22-2013, 04:27 PM

Here's my problem:
I act as the dominant partner in my rather vanilla relationship, sadly, as a switch this doesn't fulfill some of my most pressing needs. As such, I am looking to you lovely doms out there to help me out.

What I need is this:
A schedule of sorts, building in study hours, exercise hours and/or routines, when I am or am not allowed to masturbate (try to keep sex out of this, I don't want to interfere with my original relationship), hygine practices (such as when, how often, and how to shave my pussy) and times, that sort of thing. I know there are some very strict doms out there who would make me a very happy girl. I'm just looking for a bit of structure though, not to become anyone else's slut (I'm already taken in that capacity

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And then because I'm rather naughty when I want to be, I need punishments that will help me stick to my schedule. Please, be creative
Things that have worked in the past as punishment (to give you a good idea where to start) are orgasm denial, edging, pussy spanking, nipple clamps, and ice.

What I refuse to do however is anything public, scat, family, illegal, ass to mouth, bestiality, and any form of picture sharing or video chat, for personal reasons I simply cannot.

If you can help me with this you will be my hero. I love my partner and really want to keep this working, so in a way, you're saving my relationship.

Thanks so much guys,
Emmie

BamaSwitch · 03-22-2013, 04:36 PM

Glad to meet you.

I am a Switch as well and I have to admit it is tiring to be in a vanilla relationship! I am about in the middle on my time as a top and bottom but certainly love to have a willing sub.

Some of the things I enjoy are tease, denial, nipple torture, pussy torture, forced orgasms and masturbation. I really have a fondness for predicament bondage - screwed one way or another!

I am a little older than most here but I think that helps with a bit of reality of what is possible and acceptable.

If interested, drop me a note and we can talk.

TheDevilishCavalier · 03-23-2013, 01:39 PM

I'd also be happy to help, if you're still interested...

PM me if you are, but no hard feelings if I don't hear from you.

maiten · 03-25-2013, 06:50 AM

I found this one day and now I'm passing it along
http://tantalism.org/node/2868
I think it may help

03-22-2013, 04:27 PM	#1
PixieEmmie Baby Member Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Lyon Posts: 1	Need help from a strict dom Here's my problem: I act as the dominant partner in my rather vanilla relationship, sadly, as a switch this doesn't fulfill some of my most pressing needs. As such, I am looking to you lovely doms out there to help me out. What I need is this: A schedule of sorts, building in study hours, exercise hours and/or routines, when I am or am not allowed to masturbate (try to keep sex out of this, I don't want to interfere with my original relationship), hygine practices (such as when, how often, and how to shave my pussy) and times, that sort of thing. I know there are some very strict doms out there who would make me a very happy girl. I'm just looking for a bit of structure though, not to become anyone else's slut (I'm already taken in that capacity ) And then because I'm rather naughty when I want to be, I need punishments that will help me stick to my schedule. Please, be creative Things that have worked in the past as punishment (to give you a good idea where to start) are orgasm denial, edging, pussy spanking, nipple clamps, and ice. What I refuse to do however is anything public, scat, family, illegal, ass to mouth, bestiality, and any form of picture sharing or video chat, for personal reasons I simply cannot. If you can help me with this you will be my hero. I love my partner and really want to keep this working, so in a way, you're saving my relationship. Thanks so much guys, Emmie Last edited by PixieEmmie; 03-23-2013 at 04:11 PM. Reason: to add to my limits

03-23-2013, 01:39 PM	#3
TheDevilishCavalier Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Posts: 34	I'd also be happy to help, if you're still interested... PM me if you are, but no hard feelings if I don't hear from you. __________________ The Devilish Cavalier The one and only, extremely pretentious, Devilish Cavalier. I enjoy daring people, but not so much doing dares. Enjoys: Masturbating, porn, bondage Soft limits: Chastity, pee drinking, mild pain Hard limits: Extreme, public, friends/family, scat If you're not sure about something in my limits, PM me.

03-22-2013, 04:36 PM	#2
BamaSwitch getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 488	Glad to meet you. I am a Switch as well and I have to admit it is tiring to be in a vanilla relationship! I am about in the middle on my time as a top and bottom but certainly love to have a willing sub. Some of the things I enjoy are tease, denial, nipple torture, pussy torture, forced orgasms and masturbation. I really have a fondness for predicament bondage - screwed one way or another! I am a little older than most here but I think that helps with a bit of reality of what is possible and acceptable. If interested, drop me a note and we can talk.

03-25-2013, 06:50 AM	#4
maiten Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: The Internet Posts: 151	I found this one day and now I'm passing it along http://tantalism.org/node/2868 I think it may help