Comprehensive spanking truths (long)

[KnottyWolf]

Please write in as much detail as you are comfortable with for each question, the more the better. Even if a question could be answered with one word, if you have a story to tell, that is ideal. Each number is a separate question with the sub-questions (lettered) to expand upon that section. If a question does not apply, feel free to skip the sub-questions. Some of the sub-questions are purposefully repetitive to see similarities and differences in different types of spankings.

1. Do you consider yourself a spanko, a spanking fetishist, or do you have fantasies about spanking?
1A. How long have you been into spanking?
1B. How do you usually indulge your spanking desires?
1C. How do you think your enjoyment of spanking started?
1D. Are there any aspects of spanking you find particularly appealing?
1E. Are there aspects of spanking you prefer to avoid?

2. Do you participate in/enjoy erotic spanking?
2A. What aspect of erotic spanking is the biggest turn on for you?
2B. How do you typically work spanking into your sex life?
2C. Is(are) your partner(s) also into erotic spanking?
2D. Is spanking something that you do during sex or is it a separate event?
2E. Are you typically the spanker or spankee?
2F. How hard is a typical spanking?
2G. How long does a typical spanking last?
2H. Who have you been spanked by?
2I. What is the state of your bottom after a typical spanking?
2J. What implements are used for a typical spanking?
2K. What do you usually wear while spanked?
2L. Do you participate in any type of spanking role-play? If so, what roles and what sort of scenarios?
2M. Have you ever attended a spanking party?
2O. How do you usually react to erotic spanking?

3. Have you used spanking for punishment as an adult?
3A. Do you use spanking more for punishment, "funishment", or both? How do you distinguish between the two if both?
3B. How hard is a typical spanking?
3C. How long does a typical spanking last?
3D. Who have you been spanked by?
3E. What is the state of your bottom after a typical spanking?
3F. What implements are used for a typical spanking?
3G. What do you usually wear while spanked?
3H. Are there any rituals followed when you are spanked (e.g. having to fetch the implement, corner time, lectures, counting...?)
3I. How do you react while being spanked?
3J. Do you have lasting soreness or discomfort from a spanking?
3K. Do you feel spanking can be an effective punishment for an adult, why or why not?

4. Were you spanked for punishment when you were younger?
4A. Do you remember when spanking was first used as a punishment for you?
4B. Do you remember your last spanking, or why you grew out of that punishment?
4C. Who typically spanked you?
4D. Were implements used to spank you?
4E. How hard was a typical spanking?
4F. How long did a typical spanking last?
4G. What were you typically wearing for a spanking?
4H. What was the state of your bottom after a spanking?
4I. Were there any rituals followed when you were spanked (e.g. having to fetch the implement, corner time, lectures, counting...?)
4J. How did you react while being spanked?
4K. Do you remember having lasting soreness or discomfort from a spanking?
4L. What position were you typically in?
4M. Was spanking an effective punishment for you? Do you appreciate or resent it when you look back?
4N. Was spanking used as a punishment when you attended school? If so, how was it handled there?
4O. What are your thoughts on using similar (or different) punishments for/when/if you are a parent?

5. Extremes?
5A. What is your favorite spanking experience?
5B. What is your least favorite spanking experience?
5C. What was your most painful spanking?
5D. What spanking aroused you the most?
5E. What spanking or spanking fantasy do you think about most?
5F. What spanking do you wish you could forget?
5G. Has spanking ever been motivation to change your behavior?
5H. What is the first spanking you remember?
5I. What was your last spanking?

6. Do you have other spanking experiences you'd be willing to share?
6A. Have you ever been spanked as part of an initiation?
6B. Have you ever had a spanking applied to somewhere other than your butt?
6C. Were/are other punishments used along with spanking?
6D. Have you ever had a spanking from (or been) a disciplinarian that was neither a relative nor a romantic interest?
6E. Please feel free to add anything else you'd be willing to share about your feeling or experience with spanking.

Spank you very much for answering my questions!