30/female/dom seeks 30-40/male/sub in any place

sexyred92 · 08-19-2023, 10:22 AM

30/female/dom seeks 30-40/male/sub in any place

Who am I as a dominant?

I can be strict when the situation truly requires it, but most of the time I'm not. I love giving teasing and pain tasks. (In addition to others, but those are my top two!) I'm not someone who is super strict, but i can try. I want to be your friend and not just someone telling you what to do.

I haven't been super active on this site in a long time. The last little bit I've been talking to a previous sub, who has now found a rl relationship. So back to being bored af and wanting that fun again

Why do I like being dominant?

I enjoy helping submissives explore their likes, etc. I like teasing you and making you want to be so lucky to cum.... and then most of the time saying no. Maybe once in awhile allowing it. Maybe.

What do I want in a submissive?

I want someone who has at least some experince and a lack of toys is absolutely no issue! As I said I want to be friends, so you should be able to hold a conversation. You should be willing to ask me questions. I'm dominant, I'm not some scary monster. I've met online submissives who have said other dominants do not like them asking questions. That's not me. If I don't want to answer a question I will tell you.

Things You Might Want To Know:

Age: 31 Years Old
Would I ever switch? Respectfully no. I have no interest in switching.
Experience: I have always been curious about being dominant and for the last several years, I have been an online domme. I've had multiple online submissives, although I've never played in real life due to my location.

What do I like giving for tasks?

I'm into giving a lot of pain, teasing and edging tasks mainly. A lot of denial for sure. I'm willing to play with subs who like being girly, but it is not 100 % something I want to do.
What kind of tasks am I hestiant on?

Public! Unsure why but it makes me uncomfortable slightly. If this a like of yours, seriously considering passing, with all respect. I have made one submissive edge at work but anything more crazy is a no go for me.
What will I absolutely never give you?

Blackmail, permanent injuries, bodily fluids (not cum )

I'm pretty flexible, although I will tell you if I'm not comfortable. With my tasks, I try to be pretty creative and detailed and I aim to make them fun if possible. I am willing to send photos after some time. Sometimes due to health problems I may not be able to send a lot of tasks

What do I like to do for fun?

Reading (way too much books, if there is such a thing), photography and snuggling animals! I can promise you will get photos of my baby, Otis (a rabbit).

Important

I also have health issues and there are a few bad days and I ask that you are patient. My memory is half shot right now and I love throwing random words where they don't belong or struggling with what I want to say. I didn't use to be like this! I'm gonna need some patience from you and you might need some luck in understanding me if I don't read what I'm typing first!

Your not healthy, why are you looking for a submissive?
I'm truly bored as fuck. I've been medically off for almost 5 years and unable to have a social life. I'm more than able to come up with tasks for you to do as I literally have nothing to do! I miss having that amazing connection with a submissive that I've had before. Since having my surgery two years ago, I feel a little bit better.

As a small request, if we do chat, please do not comment how nice it is to have nothing to do. It sucks.

What I'm Looking For:

☆ A male between 30 and 40 ish. I'm not interested in someone a lot older than me.
☆ If you wish to send photos and videos, you can; however, this is not a mandatory requirement. You do not have to Skype or webcam. Due to my living situation, this isn't an option for me unfortunately. I may send photos once I trust you, I used to love it.
☆ For your likes, at least not have my limits in them. Anything else I'm flexible with, aside from the notes mentioned above.
☆ I will give you tasks and I'm willing to make rules. I'm flexible to what you would be willing. I'm not demanding one type of relationship.
☆ Your time zone does not matter to me, I'm flexible. If you are in a North American time zone, I would love it! It would be nice to have someone on this side of the ocean.
☆ I prefer submissives with at least some experience.
☆ With my hobby of reading, I ask that you offer detailed reports with your best attempt at good grammar. I will understand though if English is not your first language.
☆ You must be willing to talk kink and to be friends. For the first few days, there will zero kink talk or anything. Just friends and building trust! I find this makes the connection so much better.
☆ We can discuss what chat method we will use, I have several.

Don't reply if you are:

-》If you can Never Chat - I want someone who I am able to talk to, which helps build a connection and trust. I do understand if you are busy, although never being able to talk is difficult for me. I'm close to the Eastern time zone. Not quite but close.
-》 If you are not okay with denial. I love denying guys.
-》Begging is perfectly fine. Being over dramatic isn't. There's a very fine line between the two.
-》If you are not okay with pain.
-》 If you do not have any experience.
-》 If you do not answer all the questions!

Questions
Basic Questions

When answering these, remember you want my reply, put the effort in.
1. Are you male? (Why I ask this, I'm unsure really mostly just to confirm that you are )
2. What is your age?
3. Tell me about yourself!
4. Relationship Status?
5. What are you looking for from me?

Kink Related Questions
1. Likes, Dislikes, Limits?
2. What toys do you have? (Don't just tell me household stuff, what are those items that you use. )
3. What experience do you have?
4. Why or what do you enjoy about being submissive?
5. Describe one of your biggest fantasies to me?
6. Here's a role-playing scenario. You choose how to respond to it. It's been 6 months since I've let you cum, how would you beg for me to let you cum OR to deny you further?

Final Questions
1. What is your preferred chat?

2. Any questions you have for me?

Thank you for replying, if your reply is interesting I'll message you!

And yes, I copy and pasted my previous ad since it worked so well and I had all the formatting saved!

08-19-2023, 10:22 AM	#1
sexyred92 Distinguished Member Join Date: Nov 2016 Location: Somewhere Posts: 773 Blog Entries: 8	30/female/dom seeks 30-40/male/sub in any place 30/female/dom seeks 30-40/male/sub in any place Who am I as a dominant? I can be strict when the situation truly requires it, but most of the time I'm not. I love giving teasing and pain tasks. (In addition to others, but those are my top two!) I'm not someone who is super strict, but i can try. I want to be your friend and not just someone telling you what to do. I haven't been super active on this site in a long time. The last little bit I've been talking to a previous sub, who has now found a rl relationship. So back to being bored af and wanting that fun again Why do I like being dominant? I enjoy helping submissives explore their likes, etc. I like teasing you and making you want to be so lucky to cum.... and then most of the time saying no. Maybe once in awhile allowing it. Maybe. What do I want in a submissive? I want someone who has at least some experince and a lack of toys is absolutely no issue! As I said I want to be friends, so you should be able to hold a conversation. You should be willing to ask me questions. I'm dominant, I'm not some scary monster. I've met online submissives who have said other dominants do not like them asking questions. That's not me. If I don't want to answer a question I will tell you. Things You Might Want To Know: Age: 31 Years Old Would I ever switch? Respectfully no. I have no interest in switching. Experience: I have always been curious about being dominant and for the last several years, I have been an online domme. I've had multiple online submissives, although I've never played in real life due to my location. What do I like giving for tasks? I'm into giving a lot of pain, teasing and edging tasks mainly. A lot of denial for sure. I'm willing to play with subs who like being girly, but it is not 100 % something I want to do. What kind of tasks am I hestiant on? Public! Unsure why but it makes me uncomfortable slightly. If this a like of yours, seriously considering passing, with all respect. I have made one submissive edge at work but anything more crazy is a no go for me. What will I absolutely never give you? Blackmail, permanent injuries, bodily fluids (not cum ) I'm pretty flexible, although I will tell you if I'm not comfortable. With my tasks, I try to be pretty creative and detailed and I aim to make them fun if possible. I am willing to send photos after some time. Sometimes due to health problems I may not be able to send a lot of tasks What do I like to do for fun? Reading (way too much books, if there is such a thing), photography and snuggling animals! I can promise you will get photos of my baby, Otis (a rabbit). Important I also have health issues and there are a few bad days and I ask that you are patient. My memory is half shot right now and I love throwing random words where they don't belong or struggling with what I want to say. I didn't use to be like this! I'm gonna need some patience from you and you might need some luck in understanding me if I don't read what I'm typing first! Your not healthy, why are you looking for a submissive? I'm truly bored as fuck. I've been medically off for almost 5 years and unable to have a social life. I'm more than able to come up with tasks for you to do as I literally have nothing to do! I miss having that amazing connection with a submissive that I've had before. Since having my surgery two years ago, I feel a little bit better. As a small request, if we do chat, please do not comment how nice it is to have nothing to do. It sucks. What I'm Looking For: ☆ A male between 30 and 40 ish. I'm not interested in someone a lot older than me. ☆ If you wish to send photos and videos, you can; however, this is not a mandatory requirement. You do not have to Skype or webcam. Due to my living situation, this isn't an option for me unfortunately. I may send photos once I trust you, I used to love it. ☆ For your likes, at least not have my limits in them. Anything else I'm flexible with, aside from the notes mentioned above. ☆ I will give you tasks and I'm willing to make rules. I'm flexible to what you would be willing. I'm not demanding one type of relationship. ☆ Your time zone does not matter to me, I'm flexible. If you are in a North American time zone, I would love it! It would be nice to have someone on this side of the ocean. ☆ I prefer submissives with at least some experience. ☆ With my hobby of reading, I ask that you offer detailed reports with your best attempt at good grammar. I will understand though if English is not your first language. ☆ You must be willing to talk kink and to be friends. For the first few days, there will zero kink talk or anything. Just friends and building trust! I find this makes the connection so much better. ☆ We can discuss what chat method we will use, I have several. Don't reply if you are: -》If you can Never Chat - I want someone who I am able to talk to, which helps build a connection and trust. I do understand if you are busy, although never being able to talk is difficult for me. I'm close to the Eastern time zone. Not quite but close. -》 If you are not okay with denial. I love denying guys. -》Begging is perfectly fine. Being over dramatic isn't. There's a very fine line between the two. -》If you are not okay with pain. -》 If you do not have any experience. -》 If you do not answer all the questions! Questions Basic Questions When answering these, remember you want my reply, put the effort in. 1. Are you male? (Why I ask this, I'm unsure really mostly just to confirm that you are ) 2. What is your age? 3. Tell me about yourself! 4. Relationship Status? 5. What are you looking for from me? Kink Related Questions 1. Likes, Dislikes, Limits? 2. What toys do you have? (Don't just tell me household stuff, what are those items that you use. ) 3. What experience do you have? 4. Why or what do you enjoy about being submissive? 5. Describe one of your biggest fantasies to me? 6. Here's a role-playing scenario. You choose how to respond to it. It's been 6 months since I've let you cum, how would you beg for me to let you cum OR to deny you further? Final Questions 1. What is your preferred chat? 2. Any questions you have for me? Thank you for replying, if your reply is interesting I'll message you! And yes, I copy and pasted my previous ad since it worked so well and I had all the formatting saved!