My first chastity

[Sex Speed Runner]

Hello to the people of getdare,

Recently me and my gf have discussed the possibility of a chastity for me, she would obviously have the key. As it will be my first time I don't really know what to look for. I would like a metal one, no urethra extras and not a built in lock. As we don't yet live together the risk of needing to take it off and her not being there is too much. Instead we would use either lock tags or a combination lock, with the possibility of a key lock when were together.

From what I've read, sizing is the main thing to get right. Too small and it causes pain, too big and you can slip out. Im a little over six inches hard, and around 3 to 4 inches soft. Advice on what sort of sizing or types would be helpful.

I also read they ideally need to be removed once a day to clean, and that sleeping in them can be an issue. Any advice on day to day wearing would be nice. I would hope to wear it under clothes, and aim to work up to potentially weeks being locked up. Starting with maybe a few hours to a day etc.

This is the cage I have in mind. With us both being students were on a strict budget so wouldn't really want to be paying full price.

If anyone could share opinions on the cage, recommend things to look for or consider, and just what its like and what you have to do when wearing a cage for long periods of time I would appreciate it!