Hey there….I'm new to BDSM (Help?)

K K · 12-05-2013, 05:13 PM

Hey, I'm K (don't really wanna give out my full name, so just have some initials!).
I'm new to the BDSM community but I can tell I am DEFINITELY meant to be a part of it, so yay

Basic info about me:

I live in Germany (support the military), but am American, born in North Carolina (though I wanna live in Europe for the rest of my life).
I just turned 19 like… a week ago.
I am a masochistic submissive who's never had a real master (up until now, hopefully?)

Okay so now that you know all that, I'll just say, I've been a masochistic sub for like….as long as I can remember. I LOVE being dominated and everything that comes with it, but I've never had a real master (or mistress) before maybe tonight…
There's this guy (for anonymity's sake, I'll just refer to him as J) who I had a very pleasant, albeit brief time with tonight. He's quite dominant - though I don't know to what extent just yet, but I DEFINITELY intend to find out as soon as possible.

I desperately want to be trained to be a good sub (and, if I may say, punished for my misdoings and mistakes, ehehe).

So my question to you, good sirs and madams - is there anything basic a sub/slave should know or do for their dom? If he's interested in getting full-on BDSM with me (Oh Gods I hope he is), is there any place we should start? I think he's new to it too, but not as new as I am.

Thanks in advance

-K

12-05-2013, 05:13 PM	#1
K K Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Germany Posts: 2	Hey there….I'm new to BDSM (Help?) Hey, I'm K (don't really wanna give out my full name, so just have some initials!). I'm new to the BDSM community but I can tell I am DEFINITELY meant to be a part of it, so yay Basic info about me: I live in Germany (support the military), but am American, born in North Carolina (though I wanna live in Europe for the rest of my life). I just turned 19 like… a week ago. I am a masochistic submissive who's never had a real master (up until now, hopefully?) Okay so now that you know all that, I'll just say, I've been a masochistic sub for like….as long as I can remember. I LOVE being dominated and everything that comes with it, but I've never had a real master (or mistress) before maybe tonight… There's this guy (for anonymity's sake, I'll just refer to him as J) who I had a very pleasant, albeit brief time with tonight. He's quite dominant - though I don't know to what extent just yet, but I DEFINITELY intend to find out as soon as possible. I desperately want to be trained to be a good sub (and, if I may say, punished for my misdoings and mistakes, ehehe). So my question to you, good sirs and madams - is there anything basic a sub/slave should know or do for their dom? If he's interested in getting full-on BDSM with me (Oh Gods I hope he is), is there any place we should start? I think he's new to it too, but not as new as I am. Thanks in advance -K