What would you do? (Blackmailed)

Hunterman36 · 08-27-2010, 01:49 AM

I have read a lot of stories on this site and let me say that the majority of them are fueled by blackmail and lost bets. So I ask this to all getdare members,

If you were being blackmailed with nude or embarasing pics being posted online, or in school, or to relatives. What would you do???

Submit to the will of the blackmailer ( Yes, he or she would take full advantage of the blackmail making you do sexually driven atvities and/or do publicly humiliating actions)... OR

Fight and say no, and take the punishment (Yes, the photos would be put online, in school, and given to relatives)...

I would definetly take the punishment, because if they are posted online they could only be done on porn sites. Which would arrest the person for uploading kiddie porn. Also online the photos have litttle to no chance of being seen by someone I care about. If they are posted in school the person would almost certainly get caught and sued by me and the school. If they are given to my relatives then I would simply be in trouble with them for a while and would tell the police about it. In any case the person would be caught and in trouble with police.

Slenderman - Doctor · 08-27-2010, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Hunterman36

I would definetly take the punishment, because if they are posted online they could only be done on porn sites. Which would arrest the person for uploading kiddie porn. Also online the photos have litttle to no chance of being seen by someone I care about. If they are posted in school the person would almost certainly get caught and sued by me and the school. If they are given to my relatives then I would simply be in trouble with them for a while and would tell the police about it. In any case the person would be caught and in trouble with police.

Good question.

But I've highlighted some problems.

It's all well and good saying they'd get in trouble but, if you're underage and the photos are of you naked/performing sexual acts, then surely you're in just as much trouble for being stupid? The only way for people to get the blackmail material in the first place is if you're stupid or breaking the law.

Plus, if they know you and more about you (as you mentioned blackmailing it to a school etc.), then it wouldn't just be porn sites. There's nothing to stop the blackmailer emailing photos to friends, relatives, whoever. Yeah it's child porn but surely the victim would be just as much in the wrong.

My answer is gunna be a bit of a cop-out: I'd never get into this situation because I'm sensible and I always take the time to talk to people to gain their trust.

dragonator · 08-27-2010, 01:44 PM

I'd DEFINATE:Y submit. id even enjoy it! its a fantasy of mine to have a girl blackmail me into doing publicly humiliating and sexual activities.

Kisune Karnon · 08-27-2010, 02:20 PM

What if it was a guy blackmailing you?

warau01 · 08-27-2010, 03:38 PM

I actually was blackmail by a woman. She placed my nude picture address phone number and where I worked on a number of websites. I got them all removed but I had to write the sites and give them a copy of my ID and a statement saying I did not post the pictures to get them to remove it. I have to confess, it did get me really horny knowing the info could be found by someone I may know. I was relieved though when they were removed.

thehypnotoad · 08-27-2010, 03:57 PM

I'd refuse and let them do what want with what they had. Any thing else you do as a result of the blackmail would only give them more "ammunition".

BettyBoop · 12-05-2011, 04:10 AM

This would never happen to me I'm sure but I'd rather they sent the pictures out than do anything for them. They can fuck right of. Perhaps I'd call the police too, if they're going to send them out anyway I may as well get them arrested for distributing child porn.

Luckily I don't send pictures to strangers and if I ever did I wouldn't have my face in them, obviously.

Mina Ukrates · 12-05-2011, 01:32 AM

I don't think I'd be in this position in the first place, seeing as I don't really take nude photos - or haven't - and if I was in this situation then I beliee I'd be able to talk the person out of it. But, choosing from the options, I definitely would not want my family finding out about the pictures, so I'd have to submit. (There goes my virinity ) There you go.

softeyes · 12-05-2011, 01:43 AM

I think I would submit, since I did when it happened before, wasn't as extreme as this is made out to be though, so I don't really know.

SilverScar · 12-05-2011, 03:52 AM

I like the idea of consensual blackmail in s/m, but in case it's not consensual, I'd immediately turn to the police. Blackmailing is illegal. In my work we often cooperate with the local police station so I know where to go.

And it's really bad that none of you guys said you'd turn to the police

That's why there are so much victims of violence out there, because they are afraid to get professional help

If police was not an option, I'd do the same as dragonhunter. Well I'm not super strong and tough, but some equipment can help that :P Beat them until they forget about this whole blackmail stuff!

Never ever submit to a criminal!

Mikkel_123 · 12-05-2011, 03:20 PM

It all depends on the situation doesn't it.

What's the chances of your relatives finding people of you on the internet? but if the blackmailer had any of their emails it would be a whole other scenario.

depravedChattel · 12-05-2011, 05:37 PM

In real life, I would go to the police no matter how embarrassing. In fiction land it's great to fantasize about being blackmailed, but in real life it would be terrifying.

KateyKat · 12-10-2011, 04:05 AM

Meh... I ended up submitting at first hoping they would just keep their word and let it go after... but they didn't and continued to use me and things were just getting out of control and I finally put my foot down and resisted... :-/ it was really hard to deal with at first but.. idk really

08-27-2010, 01:49 AM	#1
Hunterman36 Distinguished Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: the moon Europa Posts: 646 Blog Entries: 2	What would you do? (Blackmailed) I have read a lot of stories on this site and let me say that the majority of them are fueled by blackmail and lost bets. So I ask this to all getdare members, If you were being blackmailed with nude or embarasing pics being posted online, or in school, or to relatives. What would you do??? Submit to the will of the blackmailer ( Yes, he or she would take full advantage of the blackmail making you do sexually driven atvities and/or do publicly humiliating actions)... OR Fight and say no, and take the punishment (Yes, the photos would be put online, in school, and given to relatives)... I would definetly take the punishment, because if they are posted online they could only be done on porn sites. Which would arrest the person for uploading kiddie porn. Also online the photos have litttle to no chance of being seen by someone I care about. If they are posted in school the person would almost certainly get caught and sued by me and the school. If they are given to my relatives then I would simply be in trouble with them for a while and would tell the police about it. In any case the person would be caught and in trouble with police.

08-27-2010, 01:44 PM	#3
dragonator getDare Devil Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,477	I'd DEFINATE:Y submit. id even enjoy it! its a fantasy of mine to have a girl blackmail me into doing publicly humiliating and sexual activities. __________________ male likes: sexual public humiliation, sexual, public, and humiliation i also like anal as long as its safe. limits: family, and illegal to the point il get caught i must do any dare that i get as long as this is a part of my signiture I was dared to post my full erect length. my full erect penis length is 3 inches.

08-27-2010, 02:20 PM	#4
Kisune Karnon GetDare Ninja Join Date: May 2010 Location: Imagination Land Posts: 12,827 Blog Entries: 7	What if it was a guy blackmailing you? __________________ Male/Married/Straight/Switch/32/190 lbs Likes and Limits Toys (So Far) PM Dares Utilizing Keywords Version 3 Kik: Kisune22 My goal is to give good dares and receive them because that is how I enjoy the game. I will send reports when I choose to or if I am asked. If you give me a repeated dare or a "do your own dare," I will be very disappointed because I like to be surprised and challenged.

08-27-2010, 03:57 PM	#6
thehypnotoad Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: UK Posts: 24	I'd refuse and let them do what want with what they had. Any thing else you do as a result of the blackmail would only give them more "ammunition". __________________ 30/m/uk Straight Hard Limits: Bodily fluids etc, Anal, Crossdressing, Friends/Family Limits: Messy, Anything likey to get me arrested, Pain. Likes: I'm game for anything not listed above. Kik: thehypontoad

12-05-2011, 04:10 AM	#7
BettyBoop Angel of Dare Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: England. Posts: 8,249 Blog Entries: 105	This would never happen to me I'm sure but I'd rather they sent the pictures out than do anything for them. They can fuck right of. Perhaps I'd call the police too, if they're going to send them out anyway I may as well get them arrested for distributing child porn. Luckily I don't send pictures to strangers and if I ever did I wouldn't have my face in them, obviously. __________________ ★Boop Boop de Boop.★ female, engurrland. Ask me anything, click. My tumblr. 18+ ▼

08-27-2010, 03:38 PM	#5
warau01 Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Pacific Northwest Posts: 59	I actually was blackmail by a woman. She placed my nude picture address phone number and where I worked on a number of websites. I got them all removed but I had to write the sites and give them a copy of my ID and a statement saying I did not post the pictures to get them to remove it. I have to confess, it did get me really horny knowing the info could be found by someone I may know. I was relieved though when they were removed.

12-05-2011, 01:32 AM	#8
Mina Ukrates Baby Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: U.S.A Posts: 1	I don't think I'd be in this position in the first place, seeing as I don't really take nude photos - or haven't - and if I was in this situation then I beliee I'd be able to talk the person out of it. But, choosing from the options, I definitely would not want my family finding out about the pictures, so I'd have to submit. (There goes my virinity ) There you go.

12-05-2011, 01:43 AM	#9
softeyes Account Banned Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: In a land far, far, away.. Posts: 1,930 Blog Entries: 44	I think I would submit, since I did when it happened before, wasn't as extreme as this is made out to be though, so I don't really know. __________________ \| 22 \| Clueless sub \| Owned \| Ask a monster \| Tumblr \| Dedicated and Honored kitty/internet mall security officer. =^,.,^=!! =): fingerless gloves, biting, pain, collars, Bulbasaur and SKITTLES. [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] A vampire, it's like a walrus, but awesome. I am NOT a fairy \| I'm a kitty, yo \|

12-05-2011, 03:52 AM	#10
SilverScar Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Eastern Europe Posts: 179	I like the idea of consensual blackmail in s/m, but in case it's not consensual, I'd immediately turn to the police. Blackmailing is illegal. In my work we often cooperate with the local police station so I know where to go. And it's really bad that none of you guys said you'd turn to the police That's why there are so much victims of violence out there, because they are afraid to get professional help If police was not an option, I'd do the same as dragonhunter. Well I'm not super strong and tough, but some equipment can help that :P Beat them until they forget about this whole blackmail stuff! Never ever submit to a criminal! __________________ Likes: control, humiliation (but everything is OK what not's in my limits Maybe: anal, bondage, messy Limits: illegal, family, permanent, diapers, crossdressing, feminization I'm a 24 years old gay male. Sorry for my english, I know it's not perfect.

12-05-2011, 03:20 PM	#11
Mikkel_123 Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Denmark Posts: 70	It all depends on the situation doesn't it. What's the chances of your relatives finding people of you on the internet? but if the blackmailer had any of their emails it would be a whole other scenario.

12-05-2011, 05:37 PM	#12
depravedChattel Senior Member Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 223	In real life, I would go to the police no matter how embarrassing. In fiction land it's great to fantasize about being blackmailed, but in real life it would be terrifying. __________________ 20/M Submissive Likes: Masturbation, porn, light anal, nipple clamps, edging, spanking, feet, name-calling, teasing, body-writing, orgasm control Kind of wants to try: cum play, pee, wedgie, role playing Limits: public, extreme pain, poop, crossdressing, messy

12-10-2011, 04:05 AM	#13
KateyKat Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: U.S. Posts: 46	Meh... I ended up submitting at first hoping they would just keep their word and let it go after... but they didn't and continued to use me and things were just getting out of control and I finally put my foot down and resisted... :-/ it was really hard to deal with at first but.. idk really