20/female/slave seeks 21+/male/master in (see post)

[PurpleS]

20/female/slave seeks 21+/male/master in (see post)

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Purple
September Edition

Introduction

Female 21 on the 18th
Slave/Brat
Western Canada

Most call me purple as its my favourite color, it was also my kik and skype username.

This is going to be a decently long ad. Hopefully it can keep your interest. I know I'm having a good time writing it.

Requirements

I’m looking for a 21+ MALE Master that is experienced, understanding, strict, and intelligent. A connection/click is a must as without it what is the point?

If above sounds like you then this may stop you. I’m open to time zones depending on when have free time as I enjoy a lot of contact (daily) with said Master. I may add being able to non-sexual skype (voice, I don't do sexual things over voice!) once a week a requirement at one point.

Another aspect that may stop you is that I won't consider someone not into the control aspect. I don't mean the sexual aspects as those are secondary to me.

I must be your only slave, I don't share well. We likely could discuss once relationships established but at first it's required. You must also not have a significant other as I'm simply not comfortable with it.

Ooh, the pictures discussion. I do send pictures but it is only when I want/decide/choose to. Even when I do send them, don't expect them. I don't send them on command and am less likely to if asked. Although if I do start a trial with someone I will normally prove I'm female. After that, goodluck getting anything.

You're still here! Good job! Please read on..

About me

I am a huge family person and they will always take priority over a Master. I visit my Mom for smoke (cigarette) breaks and normally small visits as she works a lot. I also have a little sister that I try to have over at times to get her out of the house. My niece is pretty young and therefore my brother asks me to babysit her a lot so that’s another obstacle.

The biggest family obstacle would likely be my Grandfather as I live right across a field from him now. For over a year now I have been his driver as he doesn’t have a license and I still will be. I used to live with him but decided to move into this house as we can still keep an eye on one another. He has my house keys and is free to walk in although he knocks first but from my room I don’t hear him. So walking around naked 24/7 simply won’t happen. (Yes, I do at times but mostly stay in my room.)

The last part of the introductions! I am currently in GMT -7 time zone which will change to GMT -8 on March 10, 2019. I live in a two bedroom place by myself. I’m an introvert so at this time I don’t have friends over even though I talk to a lot of people at the college (Getting pre-reqs for business diploma then after that degree). Typically I watch netflix mostly although going to try to get into swimming. Yes, I’m a boring person but I like to avoid drama. Been there, done that.

Subby Self

I enjoy the control aspect a lot but I haven’t found the perfect combination of what and how I like to be controlled. Normally I like to have a conversation about it so we both have an idea what would be ideal for us. Every relationship is different it's why I'm not so specific with this as well. It depends on your style of doing it and such. If you’re an ask EVERY SINGLE TIME WITH EVERY LITTLE THING, don't bother please. That has never worked as we both have lives.

At first I have walls up because I have a dominant personality and find it hard to find someone that can effectively dominate me. Once the walls are down though and there's a connection I slowly get more and more submissive. The more so, the more I want to go out of my way to please you!

I'm not a pushover by any means. If I don't think something is safe I will say so. Things that aren't working or could work better with a little tweak I'll suggest and hopefully open up a conversation about it.

I have to warn that I am horrible at orgasm control as I lack the self control. So if this were to be done you would have to have the patience to teach this rather than demand it off the bat… normally I'm fine for a little while as long as I can edge as much as want. Ooh, if you’re going to assign me say, 5 edges in 2 hours without any groundwork then I doubt it'd happen. I have a very time hard edging as is so groundwork is a must.

I have PTSD regarding choking so I have a hard time having anything tightly around my throat. It also affects my sleep so I'm not sure a bedtime is realistic.


My safeword is the light system!
(GREEN, YELLOW, RED)

Kinks and Such

Likes/Kinks

• Giving control/tpe, sexually and not
• Humiliation to a point (I often find the simpler things most humiliating)
• Body writing (Self-explanatory)
• Degrading (ex. Name calling)
• Secretive public. (ex. Toys under clothing)

Dislikes

• Tease and Denial (Will do, just don't LIKE)
• Anal (prolonged)
• Writing Lines
• Pet Play
• Begging
• Corner Time
• Bedtime
• Ginger (ouch)
• Orgasm control (obviously willing to do just not a HUGE fan)
• Wax
• Enemas

Limits

Video, scat, piss, public, self-harm, blood, permanent, illegal, family/friends, foot fetish, blackmail, age play, catheters, fisting, fire, Hair removal(head), ass to mouth, impregnation, water sports, insects, messy, electricity, involving others, or general social suicide, vomit, extreme pain, personal information.

My likes/dislikes/limits do change and vary a lot.

Toys

My pussy is currently too tight for my toys and I'm not used to anal too much anymore. (Longer use anyways)
• 8 inch dildo (Pink)
• 7 inch suction cup dildo (Light Purple)
• Anal 3 Beaded plug (not sure of size/dark purple)
• Enema/douche kit (It's blue)
• Kegel balls (Light purple)
• Kegel balls (Pink)
• Wand (Not sure what kind/3 speeds + different patterns)
• Dildo/plug 6.25 inches (15.75 cm) (Green)
• Dildo/plug 4.75 inches (12 cm) (Orange)
• Dildo/plug 3.5 inches (9 cm) (Red)
Green, Orange, and red have 1.4" girth (3.6 cm).
• Nipple chain (piercing used) (Have to get nipples repierced for this one)
• Breathable ball gag (black)
• Bit/ball/soft interchangeable
• Penis gag (black)
• Breathable ball gag (purple)
• O ring gag (silver?)
• Three way clamps
• Regular clamps (don't know name)
• Hogtie bondage thing
• Arousal gel (tingle, warm, intensify)
• Studded paddle
• Flogger (Pathetic purple one)
• Flogger (Bigger black one)
• Riding crop
• Ben wa balls?
• 8ish inch dildo (blue)
• Rabbit vibe (pink)
• Remote controlled corded bullet (black)
• C shaped vibe thing (purple)
• 7 inch vibe? (Purple)
• Wrist cuffs and ankle as well as matching collar. (Purple)
• Large anal bead (black)
• 3 black dildos that I will never use
• 3 jeweled buttplugs (small, medium,large.)
• What may be a violet wand

Tips for contacting me

Don't call me degrading words as we aren't at this point.
Mention something interesting. (vanilla and kink)
Put effort into the message you send me, I put a lot of effort in. Please show the same.

Hope to hear from you soon

[MichaelAtlas]

Deserves a bump, lovely girl unfortunately our schedules didn't match.

If you want someone who cares a lot don't miss out.

[PurpleS]

Ill bump this as why not!!!

[Redsilkyrope]

Interesting but something is contradictory. You need someone who takes control but don’t like to give him real control. You would like a strict Master but say things like “after that good luck getting anything”. Saying you are a brat is not coherent with your sub desire. A different presentation could have been more coherent, for example saying you do not submit easily and need time and confidence before giving full control. As it is your description let me think would be better to pass.

[fromo]

Originally Posted by Redsilkyrope

Interesting but something is contradictory. You need someone who takes control but don’t like to give him real control. You would like a strict Master but say things like “after that good luck getting anything”. Saying you are a brat is not coherent with your sub desire. A different presentation could have been more coherent, for example saying you do not submit easily and need time and confidence before giving full control. As it is your description let me think would be better to pass.

Tbh, i would completely disagree. You'll find there are very few genuine subs/slaves who offer everything up on a silver platter. Allot of people don't trust easy, given the role of a dom is to earn that trust it should be common sense that said trust is earned, her words give the right sort of impression for a dom, not to go in expected to get everything but go in with realistic expectations. Someone constantly requesting pictures for instance may seem like its the only thing they're interested in rather then the person serving them.
The being a brat doesn't impact anything what so ever, it just means she's likely to challenge rather then roll over, meaning the domination is earned.

[2bchew]

This girl is still one of my favorites. You do have to work for it and you do need to be firm.If my life wasnt the way it is she would not be looking. Get her while you can guys.

[PurpleS]

Originally Posted by fromo

Tbh, i would completely disagree. You'll find there are very few genuine subs/slaves who offer everything up on a silver platter. Allot of people don't trust easy, given the role of a dom is to earn that trust it should be common sense that said trust is earned, her words give the right sort of impression for a dom, not to go in expected to get everything but go in with realistic expectations. Someone constantly requesting pictures for instance may seem like its the only thing they're interested in rather then the person serving them.
The being a brat doesn't impact anything what so ever, it just means she's likely to challenge rather then roll over, meaning the domination is earned.

Dont think I could've said it better myself, thank you!

Originally Posted by 2bchew

This girl is still one of my favorites. You do have to work for it and you do need to be firm.If my life wasnt the way it is she would not be looking. Get her while you can guys.

You'll always hold a special place in my heart! You really got me used to sending pics more often as the trust we have is very high! Thank you for never pressuring me to take pics and such.

[hoemaster]

if you are still looking for a master pm me. we will start of of a week of talking before we actually start tasks

[Sissymills]

Just like to say great add, and bet your granddad would have a heartattack if he found your draw or closet (as it looks like) of toys

[Shadowice]

amazing ad! Best of luck finding the guy you are looking for, your ad was like word porn! I am not currently looking or I would send you a reply but in my eyes you can always tell what kind of sub you get based on their ad. If its short and sweet I always think they aren't going to be to serious its just a quick thrill and whoever replies will get a play session or 2 before she ghosts. But when someone writes up a detailed ad and is picky you know they are going to be pretty special and worth chasing and getting to know better.

[lilith_]

No idea why this great ad is voted so low!!! I gave you my 5 stars and my wish to find what you're looking for!

[nina@]

Great collection of toys, nice ad, good luck in your search gave it my 5 stars too.

[PurpleS]

Originally Posted by Sissymills

Just like to say great add, and bet your granddad would have a heartattack if he found your draw or closet (as it looks like) of toys

Thank you and no one cares if you have toys anymore. Also my gramps has heart problems so that was kinda rude!

Originally Posted by Shadowice

amazing ad! Best of luck finding the guy you are looking for, your ad was like word porn! I am not currently looking or I would send you a reply but in my eyes you can always tell what kind of sub you get based on their ad. If its short and sweet I always think they aren't going to be to serious its just a quick thrill and whoever replies will get a play session or 2 before she ghosts. But when someone writes up a detailed ad and is picky you know they are going to be pretty special and worth chasing and getting to know better.

Thank you, I did put a lot of effort into this ad here.

Originally Posted by lilith_

No idea why this great ad is voted so low!!! I gave you my 5 stars and my wish to find what you're looking for!

Thank you and you too. I didnt even know could rate ads before this one

Originally Posted by nina@

Great collection of toys, nice ad, good luck in your search gave it my 5 stars too.

Thank you and you too!

[Ryan Vasvan]

So I'll begin with a confession , i literally made my Getdare account when i saw your ad. It's that good.

So, about me

25, Male, Dom
GMT+5.00. Time zone flexible
Been into kink for quite sometime now. Had a longterm dom sub relationship with my ex girlfriend until we had to break up a couple of years back. I've been in a couple few online d/s relationships on fetlife too and a couple on tinder.

I don't do pictures online, at least not unless there's a lot of trust developed.
I'm a doctor btw, which means i get quite busy and probably not someone who'd be able to have long conversations throughout the day. On the flip side i know how human body works and reacts better *wink* and i stay up most nights so different. time zones have never been an issue.

I live with my family unless I'm at the hospital. So yup, family gets priority and comes with its own set of restrictions.


My kinks:
Writing on body
Ropes and restraints
Orgasm control and restrictions
Dirty talk and roleplay
Chores
Spanks and stimulative pain
Blog
Collars

Want to explore:
Discreet public
Food play (not anything gross)
EStim


Things i do not do:
Blood, poop, scat
Public
Personal identity
Tattoo or permanent marks
Heavy pain /sadism


Safewords are important. Subspace is real. Period.

I would like it if my submissive partner can hold deeper conversations with me. Extra Perks if she is into art, writing and music.

I play the piano btw.


I understand that every submissive are in a different stage of learning and knowledge of bdsm, so after we get to know each other well, i like to have a few training sessions before we get in the game


Here's my kik:Ryanvasvan94
If you're on fetlife, it's RyanVa
And on Gmail: [email protected]

[PurpleS]

Ill bump this yet again