What do girls want to see?

MikeDyson · 01-05-2014, 06:10 PM

The albums on here and KinkTalk are full of cocks and cross dressing, but most girls seem dissinterested in those albums. So a question for the girls. . . what would you like to see guys doing in their pics?

minimarshmellow · 01-05-2014, 07:48 PM

I would most like a head-shot of a man with prominent features, with a beard. Not one of those "I think birds live in there" but one of those beards that is only about 1/2 inch long. I know that is probably not what you are looking for, but it's what I like.

MikeDyson · 01-06-2014, 02:25 AM

Not at all, I'm interested in hearing whatever you'd want to see (though I'll admit I wasn't expecting anyone to reply asking for a photo of something 1/2 inch long). My ability to give you that album may be limitted by my lack of beard & features, sadly.

Red · 01-06-2014, 03:07 AM

I would like to see pictures of them having fun with friends (but not with a bunch of alcohol or smoking, just not into that), or out at the beach (or somewhere else) just enjoying themselves.

I don't understand why guys think that we want to see their cocks.

Sjak · 01-06-2014, 04:08 AM

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Originally Posted by redhead18

I would like to see pictures of them having fun with friends (but not with a bunch of alcohol or smoking, just not into that), or out at the beach (or somewhere else) just enjoying themselves.

I don't understand why guys think that we want to see their cocks.

Exactly, if we wanted to see that we would most likely ask for it just like guys keep begging sometimes for pictures...

Pictures with people enjoying themselves/daily activities are much more interesting in my opinion

switch-dude · 01-06-2014, 04:15 AM

Oh my GOOOOOD! I would never dream that girl who are into BDSM would like to see guys enjoying themselfs.
I would expect something more fetish,I don't understand girl at all!
Do you masturbate to a pic of a guy walking his dog????
Or some BDSM fetish pics????

MikeDyson · 01-06-2014, 12:49 PM

Thanks for your answers, really interesting.

I'm with @switch-dude in surprise that you'd want that on GetDare, rather than using Facebook for your fix of holiday snaps...

But thinking about it, it does make sense; when I PM people on here I try to get to know them, since there's an intimacy in that / that's what makes GetDare more interesting than some generic porn site (if we were only here for pics, there are better places on the net, apparantly); you're talking with real people, so pics from their life satisfies your curiousity around anonymous strangers.
I definitely prefer pictures where I can see the other person's face and something to show it's them and not a random pic from the internet; and that's more exciting than whatever flesh may be on show; but if it's just a facebook photo I can see that sort of thing anywhere, so would want something more on this site.

Is it about intimacy/a connection with a stranger? If not, how come you're interested in seeing those pics on here* when similar stuff's available elsewhere?

[* whilst my question wasn't "what do you fap to", I was thinking of this site when asking; though didn't make that clear originally].

01-05-2014, 06:10 PM	#1
MikeDyson Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: UK Posts: 168 Blog Entries: 2	What do girls want to see? The albums on here and KinkTalk are full of cocks and cross dressing, but most girls seem dissinterested in those albums. So a question for the girls. . . what would you like to see guys doing in their pics? __________________ 28 / m / straight / uk More PM me TEA and I'll have a cup of tea. Random PMs welcome.

01-05-2014, 07:48 PM	#2
minimarshmellow Distinguished Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: USA Posts: 773 Blog Entries: 26	I would most like a head-shot of a man with prominent features, with a beard. Not one of those "I think birds live in there" but one of those beards that is only about 1/2 inch long. I know that is probably not what you are looking for, but it's what I like. __________________ [COLOR="Blue"] Mini. 30. She/Her. Married. Asexual. Certified Professional Hypnotist. Wholesomely Evil. Neurodivergent. Official Snack Professional. Ask me all of your hypnosis questions HERE!

01-06-2014, 02:25 AM	#3
MikeDyson Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: UK Posts: 168 Blog Entries: 2	Not at all, I'm interested in hearing whatever you'd want to see (though I'll admit I wasn't expecting anyone to reply asking for a photo of something 1/2 inch long). My ability to give you that album may be limitted by my lack of beard & features, sadly. __________________ 28 / m / straight / uk More PM me TEA and I'll have a cup of tea. Random PMs welcome.

01-06-2014, 04:15 AM	#6
switch-dude Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Serbia Posts: 193	Oh my GOOOOOD! I would never dream that girl who are into BDSM would like to see guys enjoying themselfs. I would expect something more fetish,I don't understand girl at all! Do you masturbate to a pic of a guy walking his dog???? Or some BDSM fetish pics???? __________________ Hey I'm a switch PM me self-bondage I will send reports and pics. Likes\| bondage,CBT,nipple torture,orgasm control,humiliation,JOI,semi-public Dislikes\| time out,lines,ice Limits\| poop family public enema Like to try" soap,pee KINK EVER ON!!!!

01-06-2014, 12:49 PM	#7
MikeDyson Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: UK Posts: 168 Blog Entries: 2	Thanks for your answers, really interesting. I'm with @switch-dude in surprise that you'd want that on GetDare, rather than using Facebook for your fix of holiday snaps... But thinking about it, it does make sense; when I PM people on here I try to get to know them, since there's an intimacy in that / that's what makes GetDare more interesting than some generic porn site (if we were only here for pics, there are better places on the net, apparantly); you're talking with real people, so pics from their life satisfies your curiousity around anonymous strangers. I definitely prefer pictures where I can see the other person's face and something to show it's them and not a random pic from the internet; and that's more exciting than whatever flesh may be on show; but if it's just a facebook photo I can see that sort of thing anywhere, so would want something more on this site. Is it about intimacy/a connection with a stranger? If not, how come you're interested in seeing those pics on here* when similar stuff's available elsewhere? [* whilst my question wasn't "what do you fap to", I was thinking of this site when asking; though didn't make that clear originally]. __________________ 28 / m / straight / uk More PM me TEA and I'll have a cup of tea. Random PMs welcome.

01-06-2014, 03:07 AM	#4
Red Sona Forever Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 2,146	I would like to see pictures of them having fun with friends (but not with a bunch of alcohol or smoking, just not into that), or out at the beach (or somewhere else) just enjoying themselves. I don't understand why guys think that we want to see their cocks.