Buying Your First Panties (Males)

thomasdonnan · 01-03-2019, 04:27 PM

Hi!

I want to get myself my first pair of female panties, but I don't do online shopping, so I will have to buy a pair in-store.

However, I don't want to be seen, so I would like to know how you bought your first pair in a shop discreetly, or any other stories you may have!

Thanks, Tom

person7 · 01-03-2019, 04:42 PM

Truth is you will get seen but its not that bad. Yeah you will have to browse womens underwear and you will feel more embarassed than you ever have in your life but nobody really pays much attention honestly, they probably assume you are buying them for someone else. You will have to talk to a cashier tho and thats the scariest part

Pariahterror · 01-03-2019, 11:52 PM

The first time I had to buy panties from a real store, I had to ask a shop assistant for advice. It was pretty scary and actually the scariest part.

But I could say a friend dared me to get some so that helped a bit.

Cashiers don't really pay attention what you buy, they want to relax and won't find it strange you are buying something for the other gender.

All in all it isn't that scary, it is all in your mind.

Good luck and have fun.

Underpants · 01-04-2019, 02:06 AM

Find what you want online, either the shop you will use or somewhere similar,
don't buy them but write the description on a piece of paper.
When you go into the shop, have the paper in your hand and keep looking
at it when you browse the shelves until you find what you want.
If anybody looks they will think you have been told what to get for somebody
else.

thomasdonnan · 01-04-2019, 10:29 AM

Hi, thank you for the responses so far!

Quote:

Originally Posted by person7

Truth is you will get seen but its not that bad. Yeah you will have to browse womens underwear and you will feel more embarassed than you ever have in your life but nobody really pays much attention honestly, they probably assume you are buying them for someone else. You will have to talk to a cashier tho and thats the scariest part

I'll be able to use a self-service machine hopefully, so I'm hoping that'll help

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pariahterror

The first time I had to buy panties from a real store, I had to ask a shop assistant for advice. It was pretty scary and actually the scariest part.

But I could say a friend dared me to get some so that helped a bit.

Cashiers don't really pay attention what you buy, they want to relax and won't find it strange you are buying something for the other gender.

All in all it isn't that scary, it is all in your mind.

Good luck and have fun.

Thank you for the reassurance

Quote:

Originally Posted by Underpants

Find what you want online, either the shop you will use or somewhere similar,
don't buy them but write the description on a piece of paper.
When you go into the shop, have the paper in your hand and keep looking
at it when you browse the shelves until you find what you want.
If anybody looks they will think you have been told what to get for somebody
else.

That's actually a brilliant idea, thank you!

Many thanks, Tom

jasmine- · 01-04-2019, 11:40 AM

i think i went to a supermarket and just picked some off the shelf, thinking they wouldnt be too expensive and could go to self checkout, and sure enough i did. It was all in my head, nobody seemed to look differently. i need to do it again, but find the right panties and go to a person, i also need to get a bra, but almost drop a hint its for me to get used ti it a bit more.

subDanni · 01-04-2019, 12:29 PM

First time I did it was in a sex store. Bought a few sexy panties and a French maid outfit

I think the people working there assumed it was not for me to wear. But it was

CagedHiruzen · 01-04-2019, 05:18 PM

Hmm well, my first pair I got from an online store. All the rest have been from a local store I frequent and I don't find it hard to go shopping for panties.

tyragon123 · 01-13-2019, 02:37 PM

The advent of automated checkouts and longer opening hours for some stores can make this much easier. If you go to your local K-Mart/Walmart at a low traffic time it can be a lot easier, at least to help you build confidence to start going into smaller places where you will have to deal with a cashier.

Only problem with going around 8PM on a weekday (I have found) is the much larger amount of staff restocking.

rhl · 01-13-2019, 06:30 PM

The first time I bought panties, I had to search the internet to see how I should size them, the best is to go with the hip size.

I then went and bought a few on that size and one smaller and bigger. I also went to a female checker to challange myself.
The truth is that the checkers don't care and simply ring you up.
The one that got me turned on was to pick out a bra, then trying it on in the fitting room, and for the next fifteen minutes carried it in a way that the bra was completely exposed.

Just go for it, you will be surprised at how little anyone will notice. Of course if your wearing leggings, they are so comfy, they will never notice the panties.

01-03-2019, 04:27 PM	#1
thomasdonnan Member Join Date: Aug 2018 Posts: 43 Blog Entries: 1	Buying Your First Panties (Males) Hi! I want to get myself my first pair of female panties, but I don't do online shopping, so I will have to buy a pair in-store. However, I don't want to be seen, so I would like to know how you bought your first pair in a shop discreetly, or any other stories you may have! Thanks, Tom __________________ I am a Male, and a closeted Bisexual I am a sub/slave - Feet, tape gags, Spanking, Humiliation, Socks, Gags, Ballbusting, Food (some) - anal, public (unless very hidden), friends/family (I will masturbate over good-looking friends though ), scat, cum eating PM Dares: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88022 My BDSM Test results: http://bdsmtest.org/r/vWL3TSbB

01-03-2019, 04:42 PM	#2
person7 Member Join Date: Jan 2016 Posts: 97	Truth is you will get seen but its not that bad. Yeah you will have to browse womens underwear and you will feel more embarassed than you ever have in your life but nobody really pays much attention honestly, they probably assume you are buying them for someone else. You will have to talk to a cashier tho and thats the scariest part __________________ 21/m/cross-dresser/wanna be sissy england likes : crossdressing, public/semi public, humiliation, bondage, orgasm control, sissy shopping limits : gross things, family and friends, pain, illegal kik me at: assertedplane8 My Sissy name is Josie!

01-03-2019, 11:52 PM	#3
Pariahterror Prodigy Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: Netherlands Posts: 4,401 Blog Entries: 21	The first time I had to buy panties from a real store, I had to ask a shop assistant for advice. It was pretty scary and actually the scariest part. But I could say a friend dared me to get some so that helped a bit. Cashiers don't really pay attention what you buy, they want to relax and won't find it strange you are buying something for the other gender. All in all it isn't that scary, it is all in your mind. Good luck and have fun. __________________ Male, 28, Dutch, puppy Likes: Denial / Spanking / Petplay / body writing / Sensory Deprivation / Crossdressing / Hidden public / Hypnosis Neutral: Diapers / Messy / Cornertime / Bladder control / Pee / pictures Curious: Humiliation / Self-bondage / hidden public outing Dislikes: Linewriting Limits: Permanent / Family / Face / Video/Cam / Illegal For more: Likes / toys PM dares Progress of 1000 thread KIK: Pariahterror

01-04-2019, 02:06 AM	#4
Underpants getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: UK Posts: 336 Blog Entries: 2	Find what you want online, either the shop you will use or somewhere similar, don't buy them but write the description on a piece of paper. When you go into the shop, have the paper in your hand and keep looking at it when you browse the shelves until you find what you want. If anybody looks they will think you have been told what to get for somebody else. __________________ ********************** *** Underpants *** **********************

01-04-2019, 11:40 AM	#6
jasmine- Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2017 Posts: 130	panties i think i went to a supermarket and just picked some off the shelf, thinking they wouldnt be too expensive and could go to self checkout, and sure enough i did. It was all in my head, nobody seemed to look differently. i need to do it again, but find the right panties and go to a person, i also need to get a bra, but almost drop a hint its for me to get used ti it a bit more. __________________ ____________________________________________ Likes: Age Play (10-16), Diapers, Cross dressing, hidden public. Limits: camera, illegal, CBT exposure, blood, overtly public, friends, family.

01-04-2019, 12:29 PM	#7
subDanni Senior Member Join Date: May 2013 Location: Norway Posts: 242	First time I did it was in a sex store. Bought a few sexy panties and a French maid outfit I think the people working there assumed it was not for me to wear. But it was

01-04-2019, 05:18 PM	#8
CagedHiruzen Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: United States Posts: 106 Blog Entries: 8	Hmm well, my first pair I got from an online store. All the rest have been from a local store I frequent and I don't find it hard to go shopping for panties. __________________ Male but prefers to be called female pro/nouns etc. Formally hiruzen_takaski KIK: Gmodman1994 PM Dares Overstimulation: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=89043 Deepthroat: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=89042 Non-sexual: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=89041 Anal: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=89040 Basic: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=89039 Come join me and Kila here: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=358981

01-13-2019, 02:37 PM	#9
tyragon123 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: Australia Posts: 269 Blog Entries: 53	The advent of automated checkouts and longer opening hours for some stores can make this much easier. If you go to your local K-Mart/Walmart at a low traffic time it can be a lot easier, at least to help you build confidence to start going into smaller places where you will have to deal with a cashier. Only problem with going around 8PM on a weekday (I have found) is the much larger amount of staff restocking. __________________ “I have made this longer than usual because I have not had time to make it shorter.“ - Blaise Pascal, Mark Twain et. al. Likes, Dislikes & Otherwise Here Clothing & Items Here PM me questions! PM Dares

01-13-2019, 06:30 PM	#10
rhl getDare Succubus Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: The Planet Earth Posts: 1,701 Blog Entries: 7	The first time I bought panties, I had to search the internet to see how I should size them, the best is to go with the hip size. I then went and bought a few on that size and one smaller and bigger. I also went to a female checker to challange myself. The truth is that the checkers don't care and simply ring you up. The one that got me turned on was to pick out a bra, then trying it on in the fitting room, and for the next fifteen minutes carried it in a way that the bra was completely exposed. Just go for it, you will be surprised at how little anyone will notice. Of course if your wearing leggings, they are so comfy, they will never notice the panties. __________________ My PM Dares and Likes my Kik to give or ask for a dare. I might not respond for a day or 2