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Old 02-06-2017, 08:29 PM   #1
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Default Contract Question, And punishment suggestions?

So, Im just curious. I've had a Sub for a while, who has agreed to this contract. Names, are obviously redacted, for privacy sake.

Contract

This Contract will ensure that the Submissive (REDACTED) will Obey the Rules and Orders of her Master (REDACTED). In accordance with her Behavior and Obedience, she will be rewarded or Punished, based on her actions, and the reasoning for her actions. Both Master and Submissive agree that this contract, electronically signed is binding and both legal and voluntarily entered into, With the full knowledge it can be terminated at either party's discretion.

-Standards by which the Submissive is to uphold; These are static Rules, that will apply at any and all times to the Submissive. These May be added to, upon the agreement of both the Submissive and the Master.
-The Submissive may not enter into any other Relationship of a BDSM manner with any other Parties than described in this Contract. (This Does not include Roleplaying through a character in a story of an erotic fashion.)
-The Submissive will refer to the Master with respect, Calling him Sir, or Master, at least once every three posts. Failure to do so will result in a number of spanks on each cheek, equal to the number of messages after this three message limit.
-Every Morning, When the Submissive wakes up, she is to message the Master about what time it is for her, when she messages him, As well as her schedule, to include the following; (The Master will understand that these plans may change, and be respectful of such changes, However the Submissive must notify the Master of relevant changes as soon as she is aware of them)
+Start and finish of Job times
+Lunch times
+Estimated time to be home at
+Current plans (Family visits, friends, shopping, etc)
-Every night, Before the Submissive goes to sleep, she is to inform the Master she is going to bed.

-Standards by which the Master is to uphold; These are the static Rules that will apply at any and all times to the Master. These May be added to, upon the agreement of both the Submissive and the Master.
-Under No circumstances is the Master to punish the Submissive, while in a foul tempered or angry mood, so as to remain fair in the punishment being dealt out. (The Submissive may respectfully ask the Master if he is angry without fear of repercussion, when he is detailing out the punishment, so as to ensure this rule is being followed)
-The Submissive will be allowed access to a safe word, for tasks she knows are beyond her current capabilities, or directly rival her hard limits. The Master is not allowed to punish for use of the safe word, and must immediately work out whatever facilitated the use of the Safe word. The safe word is ‘Raven”.

-Weekly training schedule- The weekly training cycle will include any of the following genres of training. The schedule may be changed based upon the Masters and the Submissives availability.
Gaming- This is a day designed to allow the submissive to relax, and focus more on being friends with the Master. Most rules will become extremely lax for this day, unless specifically ordered by the Master. The Submissive is to be aware, that the Master does wish to Voice chat while gaming.
Photos- this is not to mean pics are immediately required. This day is a session to train the submissive to not be embarrassed by people seeing her body, by first eliminating her fear of being seen in a sexual light, by getting her to see herself in a sexual light.
Oral- This is a day where the Submissive is to be trained to suck cock, whether it be her dildo, or potentially her Dog, if she has been disobedient and deserving of punishment.
Anal- this is a day designed to focus on prolonged anal play. This is to include prolonged plug wearing, and progressively larger dildo insertions.
Beasty- this is a day designed around teaching the Submissive to indulge in her fantasy of one day being mounted by her hound. This for the time being will be limited to handjobs and blow jobs, with the hound cumming over her legs, chest, or face, and hopefully leading to her swallowing his entire load.
Edging- this is a day designed to teach the Submissive her place, and that her pleasure belongs to her Master. On this day, under no circumstances is the submissive to orgasm without receiving express permission from the Master. Should the Submissive fail and orgasm without permission, she is to immediately report her failure, and resume edging in addition to her punishment.
Spanking- this is a day revolving around training the submissive's ass to receive pleasure, even when being roughly spanked. In the beginning, this will likely result in a bit of pain for the Submissive's ass. Thusly, any and all requests for the Master to stop training her ass will be denied. Repeated requests will result in harsher training.
Hidden public- this day is designed to train the submissive to accept her slutty nature, and derive pleasure from doing sexual tasks under the noses of her peers and those around her while also maintaining her professional nature.
Pleasure- This is a day designed to reward the Submissive, for superb obedience. On this day, the submissive may either request any specific days style of training, or may ask for the Master to pleasure her, with no concern for his own pleasure. The Submissive should be warned though, Once the request is made, How the master goes about it, is up to him.
Vaginal- This is a day designed around training the Submissive to be able to handle prolonged insertions, as well as rougher thrusts. This will eventually lead into forced multiple orgasms, In the attempt to leave the Submissive feeling so good, she can barely move.
BDSM/Kinky- This day is to focus around more sexual things such as bondage, pet play, and Enemas. The Submissive is to understand that these tasks will be far more unusual, and that she needs to be especially obedient and trusting of the Master's Orders.
Randomized- This is a day that will be determined at the beginning of the day, so that both parties may be happily surprised. (This will also allow the Master to reward the Submissive with another item, a One time use re-roll of a Randomized day, should she not like the initial roll. The Submissive Will however be forced to agree with the re-roll, no matter the outcome.)
-In Regards to Pictures- The Master Does Require the Submissive to be open to the eventuality of pictures being a regular request. The Submissive will receive training so as to better prepare herself emotionally and mentally, to sharing these pictures with the Master. At times, the Master will request a picture, usually when a command of a certain outfit has been ordered, however until it is further established, the Submissive maintains the right to deny The Master's request in this regard. The Master will NOT be allowed to threaten any form of punishment, for failure to provide a picture, Nor become angry, and give specifically harder tasks.

-Sexual Training Section; This section will detail various aspects of the Submissives training of her sexual capabilities.
Her mouth, vagina and anus will be available for the Master’s use and enjoyment at any time during the training session. Her breasts will always be bare unless otherwise specified by the Master.
She will understand that a specific session may focus on certain areas of her body the Master finds lacking. This may result in a slight decrease in her arousal or enjoyment of the session, but it is to be understood that she is practicing for the Master’s enjoyment and service.
During these sessions, the entirety of her body is at his disposal. The Master reserves the right to incorporate aspects of punishment sessions into these training sessions as he sees fit, to serve as encouragement to maintain submissive nature.
-Rewards for exceptional Behavior; These Forms of rewards may be granted by the Master's will, For exemplary displays of obedience and perseverance.
-Time allowed to freely play with self
-One use denials of Orders (However, these may not be used to deny Punishments)
-One time Request or randomized Day result, to be Re-rolled. (As Stated before, The Submissive is to Understand that the Re-Roll will be the Final Result)

-Deeds Worthy of Punishment; These are the main situations where Punishment will be dealt out, dependent on the Level of Transgression. The Level of Transgression is determined by the Master. The Submissive will understand that any effort to avoid punishment will be met by a punishment of a level greater than what she currently faced. The Submissive will also understand that violation of multiple rules at once, may lead to a more severe than usual punishment, than is typical of single rule Violations. The Master will listen to the Submissives reasoning for situations where the Submissive could not follow orders, without considering it disrespectful.
-Failure to report in In the morning
-Failure to notify Master of schedule and/or changes to schedule
-Vanishing for no apparent reason, without prior notification, or the Master's permission
-Prolonged Absence (of Longer than two days, without prior notice of Absence)
-Disrespect (Such as insulting, or too many messages in sequence, without properly referring to the Submissives Master)
-Disobedience (Such as denying an order or arguing an order, without valid reason to do so)
-Cumming without permission

-Forms of Punishment; These are the main ways that Transgressions will be Punished with, adjustable to the Level of the Transgression by the Masters will.
-Spanking (once comfortable, if video is not present, before and after pictures will be mandatory.)
+Implements to be used:
-Hand (To be used on the buttocks, breasts, vaginal area, and thighs.)
-Hairbrush (To be used on the buttocks, breasts, vaginal area, and thighs.)
-Wooden paddle (To be used on the buttocks and thighs.)
-Timed use of Vibrators in pussy (Time and sized to be determined by Master, based off of Transgression. Orgasm will not be allowed, and punished if not given permission.)
-Leotard wearing (Time to be worn to be determined by the Master. Once comfortable, pictures must be provided) Leotard may also be ordered to have the crotch pulled tighter so as to make wearing the leotard more uncomfortable.
-Breast Torture; This is to involve inflicting pain and discomfort, whether for a short burst, or for a prolonged duration, through any of the following methods.
+Nipple clamps
+Breast Spanking
-Self Bondage
-Anal training (lube will be allowed)
+Devices to be used (device will be inserted at a slow, but steady and insistent pace.):
-Small butt plug
-Small set of 3 anal beads
-Medium sized vibrating dildo
-Enemas; This is to be used for mainly harsher punishments, unless the Master deems the Submissive needs some stricter training. The Submissive may or may not be allowed a plug based on the Masters wishes, However the Submissive may not let the enema out until she is given Express permission by the Master.
-Beastiality Training (Slow Progression, once comfortable)
Submissive will agree to be exposed to the kink of beastiality. Limited to, for the time being, touching, stroking, playing with the dog’s member, rubbing against her breasts and buttocks, and all manner of proper oral servicing, to include sucking and licking. The Submissive will also indulge in the dog's tongue, on and in the Submissives Vagina at the Master's Order.

-Terms to End the Contract; These are the situations in which this contract may be null and voided, thus ending the Terms of this Contract. Should the relationship end, both Parties will agree that any Photos shared with the other will never be shown nor uploaded in any fashion to public eyes. Nor, will either party directly identify the other individual for others, in the sense of trying to hook them up with someone else, publicly humiliate or Etc., without the others direct permission. One weeks notice must be given prior to the end of the contract, to allow either party to reconsider fully ending this contract.
-Either Party Wishes for the Relationship to end.

(REDACTED) (Master Signature)

(REDACTED) (Submissive Signature)

11/21/2016 (Date)


So, Now, My question, Involves an explanation. So, After this contract had been signed, On multiple occasions, the Submissive would vanish, for prolonged periods of time, Upwards of weeks, to even as far as a month. Let it be known as well, that the Submissive in question, Had assisted me, in making this contract, to cover as many aspects as we could both imagine. Now, She has yet AGAIN, Vanished, the day after she specifically told me, she would try her hardest, to make sure she checked in daily, as per the contract. And despite several attempts to contact her, She SEEMS (At least from my perspective) That she is blatantly ignoring me.

So, My question, is two fold. The first Part, Is there anyone here, who thinks this contract, Made by myself and the submissive in question, is unfair in any regards, so as to Warrant the submissive being blatantly disobedient of it?

And, If its not unfair, What punishment, as per the contract, do you think she warrants, based on the sole fact of her having vanished for (As of the day of this post) 8 days, Having gotten on the two places I have her contact info and (I assume at least) Having seen my messages to her, and STILL refused to respond, in any way shape or form, Not even to attempt to work out whatever issue there is, or to ask out of the contract?
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Old 02-07-2017, 02:37 AM   #2
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My first thoughts, without reading the contract, would be that it doesn't matter whether the contract is fair or unfair because she read it and signed it. If she thought it was unfair, then she can just tell you that and discuss the unfair sections together.

Maybe she isn't ready for a contract and wants to stick to casual play. Or maybe, with her permission of course, you could introduce the consensual non-consensual aspect to the contract. For instance, breaking (multiple) rules will result in actions that might affect her daily life. But thisidea she must completely agree upon beforehand when knowing all the risks before you try something.

The last thin, and I don't like to say it, but maybe you should re-consider the sort of relationship you two have if any at all. Currently master and slave, but if she keeps disappearing without the possibility to keep her in line, then there isn't much of M/s going on, I think.

After reading your post (not contract) a second time, I feel like your slave only contacts you again when she needs something. She makes promises and such when she's horny then, but orgasms after and loses interest. Then my question, have you seen her before in a video, meaning you know she's a girl without question? Sorry if my doubts are misplaced, but it's a gut feeling mostly caused by not knowing all the details, thus replacing details with possibilities (= doubts).
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Old 02-07-2017, 01:40 PM   #3
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I find it kinda difficult to believe that you found someone who would be willing to do what's included in this, so called, contract.
From what you wrote it seems that both of you have different views on this relationship. For you it seems like it's more or less serious(but really, how can this even come close to being serious?) and the other party is rather immature and treats this whole thing as cum and go.

Answering your questions, this contract doesn't seem unfair but simply ludicrous.
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