Submissive feeling lost

Kawaii · 02-03-2022, 10:47 PM

I feel like it's hard to enjoy myself much on getdare or Kik, I usually feel excited about dares and playing the game for a thrill, but I also love obeying dominant men in a totally sexual way.

I'm feeling unable to enjoy following directions, I feel put on the spot or irritated at being talked down to, in a way.

I'm not sure how to sort out and fix my headspace, I was considering erasing my profile and starting another one and seeing if I got treated differently.

Just hoping to get some advice, kinky or not.

I'm thinking about trying new things or going further, but I've gone pretty extreme in the past so it's hard to compare...

subpop · 02-04-2022, 05:03 AM

I'm an 'always on' submissive but even I have times when the drive totally vanishes. I think it's normal for a lot of us. I say take a break when you're not feeling it, and enjoy the times you do feel it. For me, the subby nature and desire to play always return.

Kawaii · 02-04-2022, 07:04 AM

It's a bummer but I did just start a new job so maybe I'm just to tired to enjoy it, more of a mental burn out. In general I want to give it time but I'm also horny with no specific interest in masterbation without getting told what to do but I'm just getting frustrated with trying to communicate what I'm into but still be pushed to do more?

I just feel like, I need to try something new, no pressure on myself but just try and see how I can evolve a bit.

02-03-2022, 10:47 PM	#1
Kawaii Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 162 Blog Entries: 2	Submissive feeling lost I feel like it's hard to enjoy myself much on getdare or Kik, I usually feel excited about dares and playing the game for a thrill, but I also love obeying dominant men in a totally sexual way. I'm feeling unable to enjoy following directions, I feel put on the spot or irritated at being talked down to, in a way. I'm not sure how to sort out and fix my headspace, I was considering erasing my profile and starting another one and seeing if I got treated differently. Just hoping to get some advice, kinky or not. I'm thinking about trying new things or going further, but I've gone pretty extreme in the past so it's hard to compare... __________________ ftm (female to male) he/him Looking to expand my list of fetishes: hidden public, wet and messy, chastity, degradation, and gaping both my cunt and ass Not into heavy pain, extreme scat, or rudeness Pm for kik PM Dares Toy list

02-04-2022, 05:03 AM	#2
subpop Member Join Date: May 2021 Location: Wa State Posts: 24	I'm an 'always on' submissive but even I have times when the drive totally vanishes. I think it's normal for a lot of us. I say take a break when you're not feeling it, and enjoy the times you do feel it. For me, the subby nature and desire to play always return. __________________ kik: subpopboy likes: chastity / stripping / naked on cam / sending pics / dares / public / hidden public / ball slapping / humiliation / cuckolding / etc... not into: messy / scat / extreme pain / family & friends

02-04-2022, 07:04 AM	#3
Kawaii Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 162 Blog Entries: 2	It's a bummer but I did just start a new job so maybe I'm just to tired to enjoy it, more of a mental burn out. In general I want to give it time but I'm also horny with no specific interest in masterbation without getting told what to do but I'm just getting frustrated with trying to communicate what I'm into but still be pushed to do more? I just feel like, I need to try something new, no pressure on myself but just try and see how I can evolve a bit. __________________ ftm (female to male) he/him Looking to expand my list of fetishes: hidden public, wet and messy, chastity, degradation, and gaping both my cunt and ass Not into heavy pain, extreme scat, or rudeness Pm for kik PM Dares Toy list