How do I get the wife involved????

Scs90 · 07-12-2017, 02:49 PM

Hi, I have been a cam slave for around 9/10 years now and have recently got married. My wife doesn't know about this side of me and I would love to get her involved. Maybe as a mistress or for us both to be slaves for a master?

Any ideas how to let her know or get her involved??

Thanks in advance 😀

IceMaiden · 07-12-2017, 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Scs90

Hi, I have been a cam slave for around 9/10 years now and have recently got married. My wife doesn't know about this side of me and I would love to get her involved. Maybe as a mistress or for us both to be slaves for a master?

Any ideas how to let her know or get her involved??

Thanks in advance 😀

Communicate with her. That's the only thing you can do, because nothing else will happen without it. She might not want to be involved, but you wont know if there is even a possibility if you don't talk to her about it.

I understand some things can be difficult to discuss but you're married now. There shouldn't be secrets.

RiskyFlame · 07-13-2017, 09:45 AM

Communication is great but it's not 'just' communication. Don't blurt out all your secrets at once or start the topic at random: this will probably uncomfortable for the both of you. Furthermore, she can be a bit overwhelmed by it. It's also best not to get caughty by her while doing the naughty things you love but instead, pick out a perfect moment to start the topic. Maybe something that is related to the things that you want to discuss. For example, tell each other about what turns you on and maybe start about things that you would love to try for once. Work towards camming, exposure of what your other naughty self is into and drop that you love doing it and that you've done it before or regularly.

Or at the very least, this is how I would handle it.

angelaporter11 · 08-10-2017, 06:42 PM

The challenge here is you got married and had this ~10 year secret... she's not going to be pleased if you talk about the history.

I'd suggest just saying you like when she takes control and build on that.

Maybe you surprise her after a hard day with a foot massage and oral to completion without asking for anything in return, and then talk about how hot it was pleasing her? (most women will be ok with that

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Scs90 · 08-10-2017, 09:36 PM

Thank you for all your answers 😀

do3in · 03-28-2018, 03:54 AM

just begin to serve her. Help her in any activity. Make her to come first. Lick her. Serve her as a Queen. And... do not ask her anyhing. In time, will become your Mistress.

RiskyFlame · 03-28-2018, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by do3in

just begin to serve her. Help her in any activity. Make her to come first. Lick her. Serve her as a Queen. And... do not ask her anyhing. In time, will become your Mistress.

This seems more like a fantasy of yours. And don't necropost.

If the OP wants to reopen the thread, please PM me or post a new thread.

07-12-2017, 02:49 PM	#1
Scs90 Member Join Date: Apr 2017 Posts: 74	How do I get the wife involved???? Hi, I have been a cam slave for around 9/10 years now and have recently got married. My wife doesn't know about this side of me and I would love to get her involved. Maybe as a mistress or for us both to be slaves for a master? Any ideas how to let her know or get her involved?? Thanks in advance 😀

07-13-2017, 09:45 AM	#3
RiskyFlame Longtime User Join Date: Mar 2014 Posts: 3,292 Blog Entries: 17	Communication is great but it's not 'just' communication. Don't blurt out all your secrets at once or start the topic at random: this will probably uncomfortable for the both of you. Furthermore, she can be a bit overwhelmed by it. It's also best not to get caughty by her while doing the naughty things you love but instead, pick out a perfect moment to start the topic. Maybe something that is related to the things that you want to discuss. For example, tell each other about what turns you on and maybe start about things that you would love to try for once. Work towards camming, exposure of what your other naughty self is into and drop that you love doing it and that you've done it before or regularly. Or at the very least, this is how I would handle it. __________________ Still responsive to DMs here I've only really liked a handful of people in my life, and you've been two of them. —Hans Axgil—

08-10-2017, 06:42 PM	#4
angelaporter11 Member Join Date: Aug 2017 Posts: 86	The challenge here is you got married and had this ~10 year secret... she's not going to be pleased if you talk about the history. I'd suggest just saying you like when she takes control and build on that. Maybe you surprise her after a hard day with a foot massage and oral to completion without asking for anything in return, and then talk about how hot it was pleasing her? (most women will be ok with that ) Last edited by angelaporter11; 08-10-2017 at 06:44 PM.

08-10-2017, 09:36 PM	#5
Scs90 Member Join Date: Apr 2017 Posts: 74	Thank you for all your answers 😀

03-28-2018, 03:54 AM	#6
do3in Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2018 Posts: 2	just begin to serve her. Help her in any activity. Make her to come first. Lick her. Serve her as a Queen. And... do not ask her anyhing. In time, will become your Mistress.