Tease and Denial: (18+)

Lilione · 04-06-2017, 10:56 AM

So I attend counseling every so often, mainly for mental health reasons (anxiety mainly, among other things.)
One thing I mentioned to my counselor was that I often masturbate as a means of helping with my anxiety, but that it hasn't been, well... satisfying lately because my body is too used to my hands and vibrators, and I don't have the funds to buy new toys yet.

My counselor then suggested that my body may have become numb to the stimulation and suggested I go 2-3 weeks without masturbating to get my body... well, unused to it, so masturbation will feel satisfying again.

It makes sense. BUT, that's kinda lame and I'm a glutton for punishment, so while I won't be edging because I give into that shit too easy, I'm going to make touching "minimalistic and what's biologically necessary only", and try to keep myself aroused when possible for that entire 2-3 week period.

I know people on here like to watch people suffer, so your mission - should you choose to accept - is to basically... well, make me suffer. I'm basically looking to be teased and denied from touching to the point of edging until my period of self-inflicted chastity is over. (Like I said, I give into that shit way too easily.)

You can send dares, dirty questions, hypnosis files, or post dirty suggestions on this:
http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=294536
I mean, that's one way to make me suffer: Make me write porn when I can't masturbate. (I've been needing more suggestions for that anyway.)

But yeah, that's how I'm therapeutically dealing with this so if you're in the mood to make someone suffer: I volunteer as tribute.

Shadowice · 04-06-2017, 11:27 AM

I want you to think of your deepest darkest fantasy something you would never ever dream of trying but you have always thought about what it would be like. Now find a porn involving that exact thing and I want you to think of yourself in place of the girl. Make sure to strip down beforehand and if you cant trust yourself to not touch tie your hands to the arms of your chair so you wont touch that needy pussy of yours

Lilione · 04-06-2017, 11:59 AM

Oooo, sounds like a good, fun challenge, I like!

I fancy myself the animation sort and I've already found some good videos to do this with! I'll get right on it.

Tested · 04-06-2017, 02:52 PM

This is a very interesting situation! I like it.

You could try stripping naked and setting/taping your phone or a vibrator to your lower stomach, just above your pussy. Set it to vibrate on at least a medium level. Then you have to read one of the erotic stories on either this site or a different one (Kristen Archives is a good one). Pick something that is one of your biggest fantasies, and it has to be at least 3,000 words long (Not as many as it sounds).

Lilione · 04-06-2017, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Tested

This is a very interesting situation! I like it.

You could try stripping naked and setting/taping your phone or a vibrator to your lower stomach, just above your pussy. Set it to vibrate on at least a medium level. Then you have to read one of the erotic stories on either this site or a different one (Kristen Archives is a good one). Pick something that is one of your biggest fantasies, and it has to be at least 3,000 words long (Not as many as it sounds).

Sounds like fun! I'll give it a try! I just finished the first dare I got, so I'm nice and wet; I'm sure this will make things even worse/better for me. X3

Abhean · 04-06-2017, 03:23 PM

Sorry to be the one who spoils the fun, BUT, considering what your counselor told you, I would seriously consider not going for a period with constant strong arousal, but rather for a real cool-off period. Meaning no touching, but also trying not to arouse yourself all the time.

I have a vague feeling that you are just trying to put into place a different defence mechanism against your anxieties. Is that really the right thing for you? Perhaps it is a good idea to focus on facing your anxieties (which is not 'lame' at all, but is something that will often follow from avoiding hedonistic pleasures and distractions too much), and less or not so much on trying to get other people to "make you suffer". Unless that somehow actually helps with your anxieties.

Don't regard the period as "chastity" in the BDSM sense, regard it as something therapeutic.

Lilione · 04-06-2017, 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Abhean

Sorry to be the one who spoils the fun, BUT, considering what your counselor told you, I would seriously consider not going for a period with constant strong arousal, but rather for a real cool-off period. Meaning no touching, but also trying not to arouse yourself all the time.

I have a vague feeling that you are just trying to put into place a different defence mechanism against your anxieties. Is that really the right thing for you? Perhaps it is a good idea to focus on facing your anxieties (which is not 'lame' at all, but is something that will often follow from avoiding hedonistic pleasures and distractions too much), and less or not so much on trying to get other people to "make you suffer". Unless that somehow actually helps with your anxieties.

Don't regard the period as "chastity" in the BDSM sense, regard it as something therapeutic.

Mm...

You do have a point. In my mind, I figured the idea was the anticipation of sex/masturbation, so arousal wasn't really a factor. But putting it that way... yeah, you have a point. I suppose the entire point behind it is holding off on the whole thing entirely for a while.

Don't worry, you're not spoiling the fun, I appreciate someone coming in and looking out for someone who's going about it all wrong. I respect that.
You're absolutely right. I think it may be best I hold off on the whole thing entirely.

I will allow posts and suggestions to be sent to this thread, but will not take them until May.

Lilione · 05-02-2017, 11:31 PM

Bumping this up because it's May and I'm back!

NaughtyDaddy · 05-03-2017, 12:12 AM

Good to have you back sweetie.
How did this chastity period went?
Do your need of being tormented has also made its come back?

Lilione · 05-19-2017, 10:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NaughtyDaddy

Good to have you back sweetie.
How did this chastity period went?
Do your need of being tormented has also made its come back?

Very well and yes, it absolutey has~

NaughtyDaddy · 05-19-2017, 10:26 PM

What a wonderful news! How receptive to the pleasure are you now?

Lilione · 05-20-2017, 02:04 PM

I'm very receptive right now, VERY Open. x3

04-06-2017, 10:56 AM	#1
Lilione Member Join Date: Oct 2016 Location: USA, Eastern Coast Posts: 88 Blog Entries: 4	Tease and Denial: (18+) So I attend counseling every so often, mainly for mental health reasons (anxiety mainly, among other things.) One thing I mentioned to my counselor was that I often masturbate as a means of helping with my anxiety, but that it hasn't been, well... satisfying lately because my body is too used to my hands and vibrators, and I don't have the funds to buy new toys yet. My counselor then suggested that my body may have become numb to the stimulation and suggested I go 2-3 weeks without masturbating to get my body... well, unused to it, so masturbation will feel satisfying again. It makes sense. BUT, that's kinda lame and I'm a glutton for punishment, so while I won't be edging because I give into that shit too easy, I'm going to make touching "minimalistic and what's biologically necessary only", and try to keep myself aroused when possible for that entire 2-3 week period. I know people on here like to watch people suffer, so your mission - should you choose to accept - is to basically... well, make me suffer. I'm basically looking to be teased and denied from touching to the point of edging until my period of self-inflicted chastity is over. (Like I said, I give into that shit way too easily.) You can send dares, dirty questions, hypnosis files, or post dirty suggestions on this: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=294536 I mean, that's one way to make me suffer: Make me write porn when I can't masturbate. (I've been needing more suggestions for that anyway.) But yeah, that's how I'm therapeutically dealing with this so if you're in the mood to make someone suffer: I volunteer as tribute. __________________ I am now in a committed relationship and will be leaving GetDare to respect our relationship. I will no longer be checking this site or accepting dares/tasks. Thank you for the memories, GetDare. Last edited by Lilione; 04-06-2017 at 11:20 AM.

04-06-2017, 11:27 AM	#2
Shadowice getDare Addict Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: USA Posts: 2,307 Blog Entries: 4	I want you to think of your deepest darkest fantasy something you would never ever dream of trying but you have always thought about what it would be like. Now find a porn involving that exact thing and I want you to think of yourself in place of the girl. Make sure to strip down beforehand and if you cant trust yourself to not touch tie your hands to the arms of your chair so you wont touch that needy pussy of yours __________________ Curious to know about me? Visit my AMA Ladies if you are feeling brave please try my Hell Tease I love detailed reports

04-06-2017, 11:59 AM	#3
Lilione Member Join Date: Oct 2016 Location: USA, Eastern Coast Posts: 88 Blog Entries: 4	Oooo, sounds like a good, fun challenge, I like! I fancy myself the animation sort and I've already found some good videos to do this with! I'll get right on it. __________________ I am now in a committed relationship and will be leaving GetDare to respect our relationship. I will no longer be checking this site or accepting dares/tasks. Thank you for the memories, GetDare.

04-06-2017, 02:52 PM	#4
Tested Member Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: United States Posts: 82	This is a very interesting situation! I like it. You could try stripping naked and setting/taping your phone or a vibrator to your lower stomach, just above your pussy. Set it to vibrate on at least a medium level. Then you have to read one of the erotic stories on either this site or a different one (Kristen Archives is a good one). Pick something that is one of your biggest fantasies, and it has to be at least 3,000 words long (Not as many as it sounds). __________________ Male/23/Straight/Dom/US My ad for a sub/slave Likes: Pleasure control, Clothing control, Denial, Insertion, Anal, Bondage, Rules, Public hidden, Body writing, Mild pain Limits: Scat, Blood, Intense pain, Friends/Family, Permanent

04-06-2017, 03:23 PM	#6
Abhean Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2015 Posts: 144 Blog Entries: 2	Sorry to be the one who spoils the fun, BUT, considering what your counselor told you, I would seriously consider not going for a period with constant strong arousal, but rather for a real cool-off period. Meaning no touching, but also trying not to arouse yourself all the time. I have a vague feeling that you are just trying to put into place a different defence mechanism against your anxieties. Is that really the right thing for you? Perhaps it is a good idea to focus on facing your anxieties (which is not 'lame' at all, but is something that will often follow from avoiding hedonistic pleasures and distractions too much), and less or not so much on trying to get other people to "make you suffer". Unless that somehow actually helps with your anxieties. Don't regard the period as "chastity" in the BDSM sense, regard it as something therapeutic. __________________ 44 / m / Netherlands skype: abhean.abhean Into edging and cum control, switch! Last edited by Abhean; 04-06-2017 at 03:27 PM.

05-02-2017, 11:31 PM	#8
Lilione Member Join Date: Oct 2016 Location: USA, Eastern Coast Posts: 88 Blog Entries: 4	Bumping this up because it's May and I'm back! __________________ I am now in a committed relationship and will be leaving GetDare to respect our relationship. I will no longer be checking this site or accepting dares/tasks. Thank you for the memories, GetDare.

05-03-2017, 12:12 AM	#9
NaughtyDaddy Distinguished Member Join Date: Jan 2017 Location: Switzerland Posts: 937	Good to have you back sweetie. How did this chastity period went? Do your need of being tormented has also made its come back? __________________ 36/M/Switzerland Likes: Girls that are submissive, obedient, slave-minded, bratty, selfish, daring, slutty, messy, showoff, pissers, who crave to wet for their daddy and if I have forgotten something you'va thoughts on, just say it to me baby girl. Hates: Rap music, fake profiles, not being answered! Find me at FetLife: D0mDaddyVS KiK: NaughtyDaddyVS007 My tumblr: dom-daddy-sluttrainer.tumblr.com My BDSM test: https://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=3777857 Last edited by NaughtyDaddy; 05-03-2017 at 12:18 AM.

05-19-2017, 10:26 PM	#11
NaughtyDaddy Distinguished Member Join Date: Jan 2017 Location: Switzerland Posts: 937	What a wonderful news! How receptive to the pleasure are you now? __________________ 36/M/Switzerland Likes: Girls that are submissive, obedient, slave-minded, bratty, selfish, daring, slutty, messy, showoff, pissers, who crave to wet for their daddy and if I have forgotten something you'va thoughts on, just say it to me baby girl. Hates: Rap music, fake profiles, not being answered! Find me at FetLife: D0mDaddyVS KiK: NaughtyDaddyVS007 My tumblr: dom-daddy-sluttrainer.tumblr.com My BDSM test: https://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=3777857

05-20-2017, 02:04 PM	#12
Lilione Member Join Date: Oct 2016 Location: USA, Eastern Coast Posts: 88 Blog Entries: 4	I'm very receptive right now, VERY Open. x3 __________________ I am now in a committed relationship and will be leaving GetDare to respect our relationship. I will no longer be checking this site or accepting dares/tasks. Thank you for the memories, GetDare.