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Very understandable, I feel that there is a fine line between fun and punishment, finding and walking that line can be part of the fun. I understand the wanting to punish for actual real reasons, it does make it less play and more real.

Yes i do tend to have a different mindset when i know i am being punished. I tend to be more serious when i know i am being punished... but it is still fun in some ways too

Yes figuring out what is fun/ punishment is a rather fun game in and of it self. Maybe this whole scene is just fun to me lol

That is one of my struggles as well, most punishments i have had, have been fun. But can that be called punishment? lol

That is also the fun part of being a sub, not knowing what the dom will think up..

That is the point of being a dom, correct?? hehe

Ended up with a cold and slept for 2 days then went crazy finishing my upstairs. Now know where every little thing is. Now can break my fever next couple days. Do laundry when up to it

Though if i remember correctly, you never had an issue thinking up punishments in the past.. lol

I suppose that is a valid point..

Yes, which I'm glad for