I too have gone through a separation from my Sub. She and her husband started a family, and I decided to remove myself as a distraction. She is married and I was her Dom (with her husband's consent). Her experiences with me allowed her to grow by exploring her limits, and in turn enhanced her experiences with her partner.
I have not committed to another D/S relationship since... it has now been 3 years.
After reading your post, I felt the need to reach out to you.
Let's chat first, and see where our chemistry leads us.