I live in germany and am interested. I need a slow approach, like you suggested.
I am a bit on the muscular side, but not a bodybuilder, so crossdressing would be welcome - i always had a fantasy like that, but I need someone to teach me how.
I am Hetero, but have some experiences on the Bi-side.
I have cam on my nettop and a remote-controllable cam i never used in my living room.
Otherwise: 183 cm, 84KG, Good looking I guess.

I am currently in a dating site, so if there is a woman I like it can either end or add spice to this, it depends.