you checked?

Then fromo is a she.

Depends. If he's a transvestite, I can tell you first hand that we like to be called "he." If she's transexual, definitely a she. It hurts like a bitch when you say he >.<;; They have some amount of force behind those slaps...

no, i do but hes a trans. so do i call him a him or her?

You don't even know? XD Oh, Kate. I really worry about you some times.

Hmmmm. . . . i need to go talk with him/her

It sounds cruel but, I would never have gotten involved in something like that. =/ I told you I'm with Stelly now, right? I honestly couldn't make her share me with someone else.

Oh. Crap. Well.... .... What would you's do?

Be carefull, Kate. I know I'll sound like a nag but it sounds like you're setting yourself up for heartache. Just remember to end the whole D/S thing if your lover starts to change her mind...

yes, i asked her about a week ago. Shes okay with at if its only online. Shes a bit of a domme herself.

O_o Don't you have a girlfriend?