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Hands-free orgasm
Maybe it does and you just don't know yet. If you asked me one year ago I would have said lots of the things that I experienced were impossible. I can barely believe where I'm at with orgasms now. Used to be a clit only believer. I was so convinced that I even thought the women who say they have vaginal orgasms were mislead or faking, this only, already seemed that impossible to me 😆Posted 03-14-2024 at 03:18 PM by pluky -
Hands-free orgasm
No clit orgasm isn't new for me, I already get that in a few ways, anal, vaginal, and external ass stimulation.Posted 03-14-2024 at 07:44 AM by pluky -
Hands-free orgasm
Quote:I don't know about that, but I have also been achieving orgasm from vaginal stimulation only in a matter of a minute or two without prior edging or anything, so I've come a long way. That used to be something that would take me an hour of "work" if it would happen at all, and was more like an Eclipse that you don't really see often.Posted 03-14-2024 at 07:10 AM by FrostbittenSoul -
Hands-free orgasm
That's why I tend to say the brain is the biggest human sex organ. So much more can happen there besides or despite the remaining physicals.
On a side note, I once got drunk just by talking and gaming with a friend online who was getting drunk (rum related to a pirates game). Just audio. The brain can do amazing things.Posted 03-14-2024 at 03:08 AM by CSasha -
Hands-free orgasm
Wow! I'm so happy for you I'm almost jealous! (In a friendly way, I mean! I wish my body, too, would hold good secret features to unlock!)Posted 03-14-2024 at 01:26 AM by Cstelle -
Posted 03-13-2024 at 10:12 PM by Blue Fox -
Hands-free orgasm
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I don't know about that, but I have also been achieving orgasm from vaginal stimulation only in a matter of a minute or two without prior edging or anything, so I've come a long way. That used to be something that would take me an hour of "work" if it would happen at all, and was more like an Eclipse that you don't really see often.Posted 03-13-2024 at 11:55 AM by pluky -
Hands-free orgasm
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My Dom was ok with it. I think a huge factor for why this happened to me is the bisexuality control stuff. You see for a decade or so this kind of lesbian porn has been my go to orgasm porn, that or gay stuff. And then suddenly we agreed about focusing on my heterosexuality and then for around 7 months I haven't been watching them or cumming to them except for maybe one time I broke the rules. So when Sir made me watch them over and over today, I think my brain not only was very excited about it after so much craving, but probably also remembered that it was my orgasm porn, so kind of expected me to cum to them even if the stimulation was lacking. Cause like I must have came hundreds of times to that type porn in the past before my restrictions. Well that's my theory. Hope it doesn't happen to you.Posted 03-13-2024 at 10:39 AM by pluky -
Posted 03-13-2024 at 09:58 AM by Pet Ra -
Hands-free orgasm
If you had an orgasm without permission, and you need permission to do so, then yes, you broke a rule. But there would be leeway there because it was not intentional, at least in my play book.
Congrats on the mental orgasm. You are now on the road to cumming on demand.Posted 03-13-2024 at 07:16 AM by FrostbittenSoul -
Posted 03-13-2024 at 06:05 AM by pluky -
Rules [update]
Thank you Sir, for allowing Pluky to share your pictures/video of it occasionally with everyone.
Interesting to hear you doing bisexuality control, sounds like a bit of double denial paired with the more traditional denial! Must be driving you a little crazy XD Looks like a fun rules contract (esp the ownership tokens/collar)
Wishing you the best Pluky! Always enjoyed seeing/hearing about your adventures from time to time.Posted 02-27-2024 at 11:55 AM by Beline -
Regressing
Also just want to reassure you on this.
This is not regressing. You just figured out what you like and don't like. That's a wonderful thing. It is also a great thing that you acknowledged it and expressed it instead of try to make yourself go back.
Keep in mind that you should always have the final say in what you do and not do. You can always expand on the things you aren't comfortable with.Posted 02-17-2024 at 04:16 PM by Garry0993 -
Regressing
Just to add to this... people's preferences fluctuate due to various factors, like mood, external pressures, hormones, etc. and so what you're willing to do one day may not be the same on another day. Limits implies permanence and that may not be the case here.
For me, there are things that are generally fine always and others where I need more "ideal conditions" (i.e. to be happy, healthy, relaxed, turned on, feeling submissive, etc.).
It may be that some of the things you describe fall into the category of limits and others you might enjoy only if the conditions are right.Posted 02-17-2024 at 03:51 PM by LimeNLemonade -
Posted 02-17-2024 at 01:57 AM by pluky -
Regressing
I agree with the two other comments. That's clearly not regressing. Putting more limits just shows you know yourself better. Enjoy evolvingPosted 02-16-2024 at 05:34 PM by GivingWantingDares -
Regressing
That's not regressing ... you're evolving. Limits, kinks, and likes are always changing as you gain experience. It's normal.Posted 02-16-2024 at 11:58 AM by FrostbittenSoul -
Regressing
Nothing wrong with becoming reluctant to do things that you used to be willing to do. You do what's best for you. You have to watch out for your health and safety. Random strangers (online) usually aren't watching out for your safety. So, fully understandable.
Stay true to you.Posted 02-16-2024 at 07:40 AM by Blue Fox -
Punishments
Sir's toy was allowed to cum after suggesting a couple of ideas that she could do to earn it, Sir settled with her idea to cum while peeing both at the same time, and a preset punishment in case she failed. Sir's toy tried her best, she had some water for every edge and edged a couple of times and held her pee, but when it was time and she felt close to doing both her massage gun which wasn't charged stopped working. Sir's horny doll had to wait for it to recharge a bit, holding her pee a bit longer, but she thinks she missed the moment her body was capable of doing it. When she was able to start again, Sir's toy came very quickly and her pee was refusing to leak, her pussy was too tense this time, so she failed at her task. Now Sir's toy is punished for 3 days, she is only allowed to use toilets at work, at home she will have to pee differently. She will probably use a bottle and the bathtub when she showers. Sir's toy feels very pathetic and dirty after all this, but she really wanted to cum and that was the price.Posted 01-23-2024 at 04:23 AM by pluky -
Temporary rules while Sir is away for a couple of days
Additional clothespins rule :
- If Sir's toy exceeds 10 mn per "set", not only the whole "set" doesn't count but she also has to substract the excess time from her total, example : set ends up being 15 mn, Sir's toy loses 20 mn of the time she did (15+5)
Posted 12-29-2023 at 01:53 AM by pluky
Updated 12-29-2023 at 01:55 AM by pluky -
Curbing my bisexuality
Well done for achieving a goal you worked hard to obtain. Keep up the good workPosted 12-19-2023 at 10:01 PM by Lionsan -
Curbing my bisexuality
Impressive focus and dedication to re programming your own fantasies. I'm not surprised you burst into tears after that much concentration.Posted 12-19-2023 at 05:43 PM by fieldman -
Punishments
I'm really not feeling good about waking up and having a punishment to do in mind every day. Even if the punishment itself is not much to do and in no way overwhelming, the every day part is not feeling right for me at the moment at all. I really feel sometimes a bit torn between being a good girl and taking discomfort because punishment was never supposed to be pleasurable, and looking after myself. Are my concerns and feelings valid or if I am just being a baby about it. I don't want to be weak, or unfair by only taking whatever suits me and safe wording out of anything that I don't like. I really try.Posted 12-02-2023 at 08:39 PM by pluky -
Clumsy at work after night of BDSM
The thing is I wasn't thinking of anything else than work when I made those mistakes. Hence why I compare it to when I have my PMS or period, it's a specific type of clumsiness where it just seems my brain misses things, even tho I'm totally focused on what I'm doing.Posted 12-02-2023 at 07:56 PM by pluky -
Clumsy at work after night of BDSM
The day after the night before can be a struggle, your mind might be distracted with thoughts and feelings from over-stimulation and your body's release of the "feel-good" chemicals dopamine, serotonin, and endorphins that can make it difficult to concentrate on work.
The desire to have more BDSM can be distracting too, thinking about when you might get to experience it again, can be very much like an addiction - when can get my next fix?
Getting a good night's sleep is important and trying to find a good life balance, like limiting intense BDSM sessions to Friday/Saturdays so they don't impact your work and you don't get too addicted to the rush.Posted 12-02-2023 at 06:20 PM by SilverBlue