Boyfriend lives an hour away. That doesn't sound like much, but driving an hour there and then an hour back is exhausting and my car is ancient and doesn't like doing that drive very often. Boyfriend doesn't do that drive well and doesn't like coming to my town at all because it's a college town and he has an aggressive personality that doesn't play well with stupid college kids, so I usually drive to him to keep him happy. Add to that the hectic schedule I'm keeping in addition to Boyfriend's schedule...