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Shame in BDSM

Posted 09-18-2018 at 03:58 AM by lilith_ (Ramblings of a Nymphet)

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Shame is a feeling that I struggle with a lot. I might be open here about my thoughts and all that but that's because I'm anonymous and it feels good to blog about these things without my real name appearing next to it. In real life things are a little different.

Generally I feel ashamed for a lot of things. I'm ashamed of the fact that I can't sleep with other
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I want to be submissive

Posted 08-26-2018 at 10:51 AM by lilith_ (Ramblings of a Nymphet)

I was about to write an ad about finding a Dom, but I had to erase it 4 times because it didn't feel right. I have tried this before and it never worked, so I decided to rant about it in a blog (where less horny clueless "Masters" will read it). THIS IS NOT AN AD.

I miss being submissive so much. I really crave being controlled, having to ask permission even for the simplest thing like using furniture, I miss having rules and having structure. I miss being bratty and then getting
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Sluts Likes, Dislikes etc and BDSM Test Result

Posted 07-15-2018 at 09:41 AM by Mona (Additional information about slut)
Updated 07-19-2018 at 04:46 AM by Mona
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💥Likes - pain, punishment, BDSM, tasks, all involving tits/nipples

💥Dislikes - Ice on or in any part of the body, cold water (anything cold especially on tits/nipples), humiliation

💥Hard Limits - pics/cam, kik (or similar), blood, needles, permanent marking/maiming, scat, pee, diapers, fluffies,

💥Available - most BDSM equipment including, clamps (various, clover is a favourite), canes, rulers, pegs, crops, misery stick, tower...
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Ideal BDSM relationship

Posted 06-22-2018 at 01:08 AM by lilith_ (Ramblings of a Nymphet)
Updated 06-22-2018 at 03:56 AM by lilith_
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Ever since I was little child I was running to my imagination to escape reality. I have a very active imagination so it wasn't really difficult to achieve it. So, ever since I can remember myself, I was lost into my fantasies and hours were passing without me noticing.

At first I was fantasizing of being adopted by my favorite teacher. She was making cakes and was taking me to the park. She was buying me all the toys I wanted and she was reading me bedtime stories before falling asleep
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Minors in BDSM

Posted 03-20-2018 at 08:07 AM by lilith_ (Ramblings of a Nymphet)
Updated 10-04-2018 at 02:01 AM by lilith_

A topic that brings a lot of controversy in BDSM is the participation of minors in BDSM.

To begin with myself, I got into BDSM when I was 20. Before that the only contact I had with BDSM was porn and to be honest, it had created a very distorted image of what BDSM is. Before that I had a lot of sexual experiences, beginning from a very young age. I've been sexually active since the age of 14, something that nowadays I regret . For a long period I thought that sex was only supposed to
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DDlg and ageplay ARE NOT pedophilia!!!!!

Posted 03-20-2018 at 05:17 AM by lilith_ (Ramblings of a Nymphet)

First of all, I would like to point out that personally I am not an ageplayer. However I have many close friends who are, may that be littles, ABDLs or Daddies/Mommies. In fact all of my partners are involved in ageplay, hence I have direct contact with it. So even if I don't personally age regress, I am in a (partly) DDlg relationship since my girlfriend is a little and my Dom is her Daddy.

Now, lets read ageplay's definition:
Usually sexual roleplaying involving Daddy/daughter,
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Re: What's a good domme/dom?

Posted 12-23-2017 at 07:45 AM by Cassandra (Mad prophecies from ancient greece)
Updated 12-23-2017 at 08:13 AM by Cassandra

Disclaimer: This is no request for PMs or visitor messages by slaves desperately looking for a dominant. I am nevertheless aware that I attract those with any blog post and action, especially with such a topic as this.

So alias wrote about his opinion on what makes a good dominant and inspired me to do the same here.


1. Responsible and reasonable. We are all too eager, emotional and aroused to take up tasks and p/funishments and get off. That's alright. But the subs...
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