If you told me three months ago that I was addicted to a BDSM Dare webpage and that not only have I been exploring my submissive side, but have been playing around as an online dominatrix, I would have laughed in your face.

So why the change? I'm not fully sure, but in this post I'm going to try to ponder the background of this new (rediscovered?) fetish of mine.

My first kink goes way back to my early childhood. I have always had a very competitive side, which developed...

Though T-Mobile's commercial is now my favorite, I still love the old Centrum Silver commercial. The script and casting are very sexy, and the ending is just adorable.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wjPfJ8LH0B4

T-Mobile's BDSM themed commercial with Kristen Schaal makes me laugh every time I watch it. It does make me a bit nervous, however, that it might be hitting a bit too close to home.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pNCG9fHGXB0

This site continues to amazing me.

Most people on here have been very pleasant, despite my uniformed assumptions when I joined. I have had many pleasant conversations and have made it a practice to accept any request for private chat.

But there is always that one guy, let us call him “the Oaf,” who lives up to every crass stereotype. Crude, uneducated and offensive he is the master of the monosyllabic text: “how r u?” “im horny, u skype?” “show me r tits.” His nicknames...

At first I resisted putting likes & dislikes on my profile thinking I was just going to creep around a bit. Now that I am mostly into this kink, I realize it's helpful. So, here I am in all my kinky detail:

Likes
A friendly chat.
...(This is actually my favorite thing.)
Creative wagers/dares/games/challenges
...(This is my second favorite thing.)
Words (i.e. creative writing)
A well filled out and decorated profile.
Exploring the psychology...

Why did I join getdare.com?

It began as a mistake.

I was home one evening (Dec 7, 2016 to be exact) bored and fighting a cold. In the mood for some sort of online gambling I searched for a “dice game” and was brought to this site. Amused by the cheekiness of what I found I decided to investigate and then eventually joined.

To be blunt, I was surprised that there were so many nice people on a pornographic BDSM site. I have always had a gambling fetish, and...