One thing I've discovered about myself is that I view any sort of a authority figure as being higher up than I am.

This can include:

• Parents
• Teachers
• Boss
• gD Staff
• Coaches
• Doms
• Anyone with more experience than me (especially if they are older)

And I have learned that believing I have disappointed, upset, or angered anyone I view as an authority figure truly upsets me.

I know some of you might say that no one likes upsetting an authority figure, and not to make...

Safe words are phrases or a single word decided upon in a D/s relationship before a scene starts or any kinky activity is engaged in.

The most typical safe words you might here are Green, Yellow, Red. These are actually the safe words I use. Usually, the usage of these words are universal.
Green: Everything is fine. I'm okay. More.
Yellow: Slow down. Change what we're doing.
Red: Stop. I'm scared. I'm hurt. No more. End the scene. No.

Why not just say...