I am taking a long, long break from getDare. Don't ask me why. I just am very tired of it. I have been caught by a freind of mine, and I feel embarrassed. I do not know whether or not I will return. I probably will, eventually, but not for a while. I've been on getDare for a long time. So long that it's almost sad. Recently, I've been taking long breaks from getDare. I've decided that, in the long run, I'm just not interested in getDare any more. I can't explain it, I'm simply ready to leave.
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I've noticed that I often click the 'Hottie of the week. - Boyss' album by Betty and rarely if ever the girls one.

Is this odd?

BigAppleGuy:
kneel slave boy

softeyes:
You must not have read my profile, Sir.

BigAppleGuy:
yes slave I did, and I expect you to kneel and greet me reverently

softeyes:
If you did, you'd know I'm not a "slave", and as such I do not submit to just anyone who messages me..

Hi, I'm Kris, you?

BigAppleGuy:
Hooking my finger to your shirt collar, pulling.... I am not just "anyone"...

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So I got this lovely PM yesterday/today. I have not included the users name for privacy reasons.

Here is the first one:

Delete my account?

As you well know, this is simply not possible. It is stated a million times for Gods sake. Anyways I send this smart ass remark:...

Unrealistic expectations: One of the most common mistakes on both sides. A Dom expects a sub to be perfect, meet his every need, and have no limits. A sub expects a Dom to be perfect, understand their every need, avoid all mistakes on the top, and know everything.

Isolation: Tries to cut you off from family and friends; accuses people who are your supporters as “causing trouble”; the abuser may deprive you of a communication and transportation methods.

Extremely...