I was very flattered to get a mention in wedgibondagebabe's well written blog here - http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=85470 and wanted to comment. But I didn't want to hijack her blog when I added a few comments, I can go on a bit. Did you notice? I thought I noticed you noticing.

But one of her key points is one I actually want to echo. It is also touched on in Butterflies denial blog. Just because something works for one person, doesnt mean it is safe for you to do.
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I don't do denial!

I will let that settle in for a second .......

recovered? Ok, let me explain ...

Denial seems to be a hot topic around here. I think 90% of people have orgasm control as a like or love or curiosity (I am making that statistic up, but I wouldn't be surprised if it was pretty close). I too love orgasm control, but denial for me is a LIMIT!

I know it sounds crazy! I am a sub and I don't do denial? How can I still call myself...

So I got bored, and was a little curious as to how the "core personality" would score on the BDSM test. Me and him are the 2 most dominate personalities of all 7, and so I spoke to him (more so we conversed in our head) and he took over to take the test. his results are linked below.

Core personality BDSM results

In comparison to my results, this was a really interesting thing to see! I was intrigued to see the differences between him and me, and what the each...

I would have liked to have shared a picture here but didn't find it. Someone was telling his therapist: "I give so much but I don't get anything back". It was the Santa Claus.

When you give dares or do anything public, you get asked by complete strangers, something like: "Hey, how are you? What are you up to? Could you make an add denial thread for me, too?" And then I sigh a little because it's so difficult for me to say no. He took the first obstacle by choosing an...

Gonzalez and Cassandra made another bet, giving him the benefit of counting one complete hour in chastity for 3 hours of denial instead of just 2 within the denial time he does for Cassandra due to this thread, and she may not post the keyphrase DEEPTHROAT anymore (and when she does, it is ignored without substitute or compensation). The keyphrase had been chosen by Gonzalez in the thread after consent on the bet.

If the thread reaches 5,000 posts by the end of Sunday in GMT+1, Gonzalez...

OK! o I got a really fun dare from Blue Griffon in the person above ABC dare thread, and I decided that i'd post a report on it! So her's the dare...
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Cassandra bets the thread won't get 1,750 posts by 16.01.2018 midnight (end of that day, same day as this blog post) GMT+1 in that thread. If Cassandra is wrong because the thread got 1,750 posts or more by that time, Gonzalez got to choose 1 keyphrase Cassandra is not allowed to use anymore in this thread (and if she does, her bad, Gonzalez just ignores it). If Cassandra wins because it is less than 1,750 posts, then she sends Gonzalez a hypno file to listen to at least once a day for 7 days plus after...