We are two weeks away! Oh my goodness I cannot believe it. I think I am handling the stress pretty well considering!

I pick up my dress from the alterations today and bring it to be steamed, where it will stay until the Friday night before the wedding.

The seating chart is done, printed, laminated and planted.]

All of the centrepieces are done and we have done...

In the hustle and bustle of planning a wedding and working extra hours to pay for the wedding, we have not had very much time to play lately. When I am stressed, I have a hard time getting and staying horny, and I have been a bit stressed lately, which I think is normal.

However, I had a conversation with Bluetooth earlier that has stuck with me all day. We were talking about all the yummy things that one could do to nipples. Although ive been busy all day, I haven't been able to get...

March 15 marks 4 years on getdare.

It really has been one hell of a ride. There have been some really incredible ups and some lows as well. I honestly feel like I am a completely different person than the one who signed up on getDare on March 15, 2013.

I know it is kind of cheesy, but I do credit some of those changes to getDare. The community and the support have helped me to grow as a person. I have learned so many things about myself. Things like:
- I am stronger...

As a sub I am always seeking reassurance that I am pleasing my Dom in a suitable way. I want to make sure he is happy with me. I want to know that I make him proud. He is very good at reassuring me.

You make me so proud!

Such a good girl!

Good job Sweetie!

Hearing those words doesn't just make me happy, they make me swell with pride. It feels so good to know that i have pleased my dom and that he is happy with me. It is one of the biggest reasons...

My pet recently suggested that I post a blog on my views and feelings surrounding punishments, both giving and receiving.


First of all, I want to stress that there is a huge different between a punishment and a funishment.


Punishment
I believe that punishments are something that should be avoided. A punishment should be something that is a consequence for breaking a rule, or being “bad”. It should consist of something that the punishee doesn’t like,...

Figging is always something I have wanted to try, but it is something that has always scared the crap out of me! Which I think also turned me on more ….


After reading a blog by Sub Lucy about figging, I wanted to try it even more. Asslvr and I haven’t had much time to play lately, so I decided I would use my sub as a guinea pig.


I had Jaroface purchase some ginger on his way home and then we had a play session with the ginger. I will let him share further...

Asslvr and I have been so busy these past few months, that we have barely had time to play. And any and all rules and consequences were pitched out of the window. I am not really complaining. Life has been great. I love making and eating dinner together at night, and our nightime snuggles while we watch tv in bed. I love shopping together on the weekends, and planning our wedding and life together. I wouldn't change any of that! It is what a relationship, kinky or not, is supposed to be.
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