Just to be clear about my comment above, I don't actually think wetness is urine. Of course not! I don't think any man thinks so and girls shouldn't feel ashamed at all about the whole thing!

I personally have never heard of this term... quite a disgusting reference if you ask me! I would much rather just call it.... delicious

What she said. ^^
Doesn't smell like pee, taste like pee, or look like pee. Therefore, I claim it isn't pee.
I also think the study in question.. was performed to make squirting illegal in UK made porn.
Hm.

Oh and as far as "grool", ew! I always just say I am leaking.
There SHOULD be a better word.

I just want to mention about the squirting thing: there are a lot of studies that have said it isn't urine. There is now one that says it is. I am a squirter, and I can tell you without any studies that what I squirt is NOT urine. It has no smell or taste, even when there is so much that I leave a puddle it doesn't stain the sheets or mattress (except a slight white ring around the edge of the puddle if I squirt on dark sheets.) I (and other people) have buried our faces in one of my puddles, and there is seriously no smell.
Telling women it is pee only makes an embarrassing thing feel shameful, so please be careful about saying that, especially if you don't really know.

I think grool just joined the top of my list of words that make me squirm and say ewwww. It can take spot number 1 along with moist.

http://cdn2.crushable.com/wp-content...irls-grool.gif If you didnt think of this, you're wrong.

Also, re squirting and urine and stuff - it's do to with the fact that the clitoris (which is more than just the little nubby bit we're all familiar with) connects to urethra so whether stimulated clitorally or vaginally the urethra is stimulated too but this happens less significantly in many women, which is why only around 30% of women squirt regularly. It is urine by chemical composition according to recent studies, but it happens even if you have just peed or whatever. Vaginal lubrication and squirty juice are two different things. *the more you know* *super simplified version*

I do love portmanteaus! This one... not so much. I see where it comes from. Drool is what your mouth generates when you want food. So grool must be what your pussy generates when you want...

Now, it did make me think of gruel too! Not only does it make me think of that cereal... goodness? It also makes me think of the Dutch version. Gruwel, similar in prononciation to gruel. In my country, gruwel is synonymous to being disgusted or appalled. Not a fitting description of this womanly wetness!

It also makes me think of the word grueling. Let's consult the dictionary:
Physically or mentally demanding to the point of exhaustion
Well now! That doesn't accurately fit the lovely liquid either, since it makes the whole job go lots smoother! Nope. I don't think it's a logical portmanteau.

It's hard to come up with an alternative word for... grool... But maybe we can stick with the word combinations! My suggestion would be a combination between slick and liquid. Sliquid! Isn't that catchy?

On a sidenote, DongMyBest mentioned squirting contains urine in the comment up there. Didn't know that, but I think I get it now! Urine is often used by animals to mark territory. 'This belongs to me now', it means. Now, when a girl cums hard enough and she squirts, it must mean that she's marking her partner too! Making him or her because it's a good partner that made her cum hard! All the other girls that pass by and take a sniff will know that the person in question is marked and belongs to this one girl already.
Kind of random, but... doesn't that make sense? :P

Feminine Juice. Get it at your local supermarket today!

@Alexis: Thank you! I try to aim for the second one; the first one isn't fun.

ar·gu·ment
ˈärɡyəmənt/
noun
1.
an exchange of diverging or opposite views, typically a heated or angry one.
"I've had an argument with my father"
synonyms: quarrel, disagreement, squabble, fight, dispute, wrangle, clash, altercation, feud, contretemps, disputation, falling-out; More
2.
a reason or set of reasons given with the aim of persuading others that an action or idea is right or wrong.
"there is a strong argument for submitting a formal appeal"
synonyms: reasoning, justification, explanation, rationalization; More

@DoingMyBest: I disagree. I think that the purpose of argument is to sort things out, to debate, with the ultimate goal of progress, not necessarily victory. If both people aren't listening as well as responding, then it can't be an argument; arguments are interactive, as opposed to "talking to a wall." But of course, our diverging views are probably due to semantics

I'd rather DISCUSS semantics with you. Arguing is wherein one side isn;t listening. That's why people say you're argung semantics - because they've stopped listening or feel you have or both. (Note: that's not a personal you, rather a generic one. Also, it's almost always that they're not listening AND accusing you of not listening.)

Training is practice within a skill or ability.

To use it with regards to personality is ineffective. You can train to surpress a personality trait and train to fake another. You cannot train to learn one and lose another though.

not really sure what more there is to say. Also, saying you're not bratty when you've identified yourself as that is like someone telling me I'm not an actor because they've seen me do lighting-work. I identify as an actor and am one. Not the best analogy, but it's what came to mind immediately and I went with it

However, it's worth noting that discussing the issue allows you to clarify your definition of bratty and for him to clarify his. Let's face it, you and I know what the words we use mean, not only to ourselves, but to each other too. Hence why we tell people we love them, without meaning they're our soulmate etc.

1) I imagined grool was a combination of great and cool.

2) You imagined gruel - I know you know this,, but I had to say it anyway.

3) Wetness and lubricant are both apt as well.

4) Not exactly realted, but a touch - a recent study found that squirting actually IS urine, due to chemical analysis. The levels within each do differ somewhat though and there are now studies going into finding out if kidneys increase in functionality during arousal/sex and, if so, what the purpose is.

5) I want to suggesting besoddenment but only because it amuses me and I know people will find it... ickyeukes.

I just prefer the term 'wet'. It works in almost every sense, and is easily understandable.

Also, cake juice works well.

Oh, I just have it set to email me whenever someone replies to a thread/blog I posted in... I thought everyone had it set up like that o.o

I mean I read all forums and all threads every day I'm watching everything ok

Cake juice? That Sounds fine

Yuck. Yet another turn-off word that will completely ruin erotic writings for me.

I prefer the following words: wetness, arousal, honey, cream, juices, [girl] cum

I wonder if having it on your own blog promotes you more than having a thread. A lot of the time when I think of things I want to talk about, I think "maybe I'll make a blog about it" too. Both go onto the front page for a bit, but I would say you could argue that blogs get more short term interest but less long term potential.

I am seriously cuddleable. Maybe.

I agree with you definition, Lyss. I used to be at best appehensive about the idea of sub training because of the ridiculously unrealistic and at times abusive nature of training as portrayed in erotica. I have a real problem with training that is used to change who the sub is because the dom/me is so immature that they think their fantasy is what the sub 'ought' to be. But when Wardell began establishing my training he did so not to change who I was but to help me expand my abilities and enjoyment of certain aspects of submission. I love getting to do training for my Dom, because I can genuinely please him not by becoming someone else but by being me and giving him more of myself through training.

I love personality in my sub! If I want someone to blindly follow orders without humor, teasing, ironic comments, backtalk, objections, suggestions or anything of the like, I would get a robot for that. A machine that does what it's told. Is it fun to deny a machine pleasure or torturing it a bit? Not at all! I want human interactions! I think the word that local dom meant was brainwashing instead of retraining.

What do you think of when you hear the word training?
Pretty much what you described. Physical acts, like learning how to take position on command, beg properly, edge longer without cumming. Stuff like that. Mental stuff like hypnosis does indeed also come to mind.
You want to get someone ready to do specific task? You train them.

Do you believe in having a training regiment as part of your D/s dynamic?
Not necessarily. Maybe you're both very happy with doing basic stuff. Maybe the submissive already knows how to do all the things the dominant wants.
I do believe that pushing limits and boundaries (all consensual, of course) is a lot of fun. Since you can't do that in one go, training is a good way to accomplish that. Gradually making something work until you get it just right gives such a feeling of accomplishment on both sides!