Updated Likes/Dislikes/Limits and Toys

It's been a couple of years since my last list and life has changed me a bit since then...so I thought I would create a new list.

As I am a Switch things are a little more complicated so I will split this list into the following categories:

1. A little about me
2. What I like to do as a Dom
3. What my likes/dislikes and limits are as a sub
4. List of toys

A Little about me

- In general I prefer to bet and game with women to determine who gets punished and what level of punishment will be dished out
- I enjoy some random daring (i.e. PM Dares) though I prefer to get to know a person first
- connection on some level is important to me, as most engagements are without pictures I prefer to have some idea of a persons character/personality before I properly engage
- I am more dominant, though it can still excite me when being submissive after losing a game/bet
- I love to be creative and meet creative girls, I will go to a lot of effort with dares if I find the right chemistry with someone

As a Dom

The following are the kinds of fetishes I enjoy dishing out on others:

Likes:

- Clothing related: Clothing control, stripping clothing destruction
- Pain: Mild Spanking and nipple play
- Wet/Messy: Clothed showers and food play forfeits
- Body writing: discretely of course haha
- Sensation play: Stimulation, temperature play
- Orgasm control: Forced orgasms, edging (I'm not so much into denial play)
- Exposure: Private exposure via pictures or Cam (I am not into blackmail or public exposure)
- Exercise: Jumping Jacks, Sit ups, etc...
- Hidden public
- Bondage
- Line Writing
- Reports
- random punishment: Dice dares, wheel spins, etc...

Open to:

- pet play
- roleplay

Not open to:

- Blackmail/Public exposure dares
- Scat/Piss play
- Diaper play (unless really required)

As a sub

Likes:

- Clothing related: Clothing control, stripping
- Pain: Mild Spanking
- Sensation play: Stimulation, temperature play
- Exposure: Private exposure via pictures or Cam (I am not into blackmail or public exposure)
- Exercise: Jumping Jacks, Sit ups, etc...
- Hidden public
- random punishment: Dice dares, wheel spins, etc...
- Reports
- Teasing: Verbal taunting which is light hearted and playful

Dislikes:

- Wet/Messy: Clothed showers and food play forfeits (Although this is fun for me, I prefer it is used rarely due to prep time, clean up and cost)
- CBT/Nipple pain- cumplay
- Edging
- Body writing: discretely of course haha

Limits:

- Public
- Anything with friends/family
- Scat/Piss related
- Blackmail
- Anal
- cross dressing
- Denial

Toys

Rope cuffs: red and fun to use
Blindfold: should be in everyone’s collection
Flog: have a nice tasseled suede, black and red flog...very handy (note hard to use on self and get any real power behind it, due to angle of impact)
Paddle: Soft leather one, leaves a bit of a sting
Riding Crop: Fairly brutal
Bondage tape: Roll of black bondage tape
Candle: For wax dares (would rather save for a special occasion)
Rope: Black Nylon, long...still learning proper rope tying, but do have a book with illustrations
Pegs: Wooden clothes pegs, standard design
Massage Oil/Lube: sometimes it’s just good to have slippery fun

Disclaimer: If there is a fetish of yours not listed above you are free to ask me what my stance is on it, I will let you know and add it to my list for future reference