This might seem counter productive on a site where control is abundant what with master/slave relationships all over the place, but while it's all good for the short term (even a few months) if you have zero free time and are with your partner all the time without any alone time, it will harm the relationship.

So, take time for yourself, doesn't matter what it is. Read a book, play a game, browse this place, or reddit, or any other number of websites, or go for a walk... even better if...

Well, it has been a few months since I have posted anything. Life has kept me busy along with my job and working on four projects. Life, can take a toll on anyone who puts there life first and then puts Getdare second. Each person must adjust to what is best for them. Experience members have gone through that phase. Inexperienced members must learn to adjust what best fits them. As a four year member, that excitement is not there like it was. You get that high at first but then it will wear off. That...

For some time this puppy has had a lot of fantasies. They have been written down, but never been gone public. From the following list I would like to make some of them reality.

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Since my co-dom, Dr. Dom (formerly Dominantbritmale), is leaving getDare for a little while, I have decided that I need to recruit somebody to fill his tutu in his absence.

Luckily, MastersVoice, has volunteered as tribute.

After he ran over to welshland to pick up the tutu from DBM, I added a whole jar full of glitter and the tutu was ready for its interim wearer.

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For some reason people don't seem to believe that I am scary and mean. They always think I am this sweet, cute, adorable little Butterfly. But I am big, and mean and scary!!!!

To prove that, I need to introduce you to my alter ego, Deathmoth!

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Originally Posted by IHeartFun

im not sure how Jaro handles being Butterfly's sub. After 3 weeks I'd quit cause she's so scary. I can't believe they're on years.

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