Newbie needs guidance! 40 yo/fit male

Greetings and salutations to my fellow freaky peeps! I just found this forum and am excited yet apprehensive at what it could bring. I have a dark side (don't WE all!?!) that needs to be let out of its cage from time to time. Those in my personal life now don't get it, so it looks like I could use your help. I have no idea what to do next on here and am asking for your help. What do I do now?
Thank you all and have a wonderful day!