I've been on gD infrequently recently and just caught these reports. Looks like you have been having lots of fun. Thanks for sharing here and pictures to accompany reports are always greatly appreciated. Enjoy your extension!

Lovely report and pics to go with it. Nice to see you enjoying the control.

Sounds like a fun month for you, enjoying your pics on kinktalk also!

It sounds like you had quite an interesting learning experience. Getting the anal done first was a good idea.

It's always great when a request thread is followed up with a good report. Even better with pictures! Thank you for sharing.

Azyliux

Not dealt with this ???
That's naff scene Etticate is a must even for small ones

I have not dealt with the issue directly as you described since I’m a Dom. But I completely agree you need to stick to your limits and don’t accept anyone that tries to push you past them.

Just keep doing what your doing and ignore those that try to tell you otherwise.

I think you should try with conditioning again

If you try to distract yourself, you might end up conditioning yourself, wanting it or not, so better to go straight for it, but conditioning yourself to have a bad reaction every time you have a cigarette in your hands (or even see one?).

You might use something from your dislikes, like anal + temperature play... Just an example Keep us posted!

That's a great success! I'll have to give it a try

Glad to hear it was a success!

Can't wait to know more! Enjoy!

Enjoy the concert looking forward to your report!

I like the idea of switching it to someone you are unattractive to. I think that will be much more difficult though.

Would you share your sexuality with us? I just wonder could you try (if you are not bi), someone of the opposite sex.

I'm glad to hear your experiment is looking to be a success in the timeframe you had to conduct it. Well done!

I'd say as long as you tried to condition yourself makes sense.

If you can't get aroused by the singer, an appropriate punishment seems to be that, for a time at least, you have to NOT cum whenever you come across him. So everything that leads to you making yourself orgasm during your conditioning phase would be one edge if you fail.

About what will happen if you don't succed: you'll have to insert one of your lushes and leave it turned on for the whole concert or until the battery goes down.

Agree with the comment above. Full orgasm all the way!

This is progress! Keep working on it, I would suggest a full orgasm whenever / wherever you see or hear them.

Very enjoyable of a read, and terrific photos on KT!

I actually did see your post looking to do this on KT earlier (and was a little tempted to reach out) so it’s great to see this update that it went so incredibly well

Interesting idea I don’t claim to be an expert but some food for thought from someone who never uses her psychology degree…

Classical conditioning is really about our ability to predict outcomes through our experiences.

The basis for classical conditioning is that it's a learning mechanism to increase our chances of survival. A simple example: if we eat something and then feel unwell, we make that connection to avoid it because of what will happen, which evolutionary speaking, would increase our chances of survival. We predict the negative outcome, and we take measures to avoid it.

If you know the famous study Pavlov's dogs, the dog learns to predict the arrival of the food when the bell is rung. The bell rings, the dog knows what's about to happen, and it salivates.

So... rather than pairing the two activities together, classical conditioning often works best when the pleasurable activity comes afterwards (i.e. it is the consequence).

In your case, you should play the music (etc.) and then afterwards pleasure yourself. Your body will start to anticipate the future pleasure when you play the music. Music becomes the signal for what’s to cum and it will hopefully start to become aroused even without the pleasure following it.

Classical conditioning also works when they are paired together or when in the opposite order (pleasure first and then music), but neither are quite as effective.

Good luck with your idea xxx