Is this being a bad friend?
Posted 05-08-2012 at 08:29 PM by lokelake.
A couple of my friends went out somewhere to chill and what not but neither of them wanted to ask me to go out too. That sounds like they are bad friends to me.
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Man, I'd have no friends if I expected them to always remember to invite me to everything. ;DPosted 05-08-2012 at 09:30 PM by sweetsong 
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No. Sometimes its a "just us" thing. Nobody remembers to ivite everyone in a social circle to everythingPosted 05-09-2012 at 01:00 AM by CollaredBlondie
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Well, it wasnt much of remembering thing it was them plain out saying no. One of them asked the other if we should ask me out too and they both said no.Quote:Originally Posted by CollaredBlondie
No. Sometimes its a "just us" thing. Nobody remembers to ivite everyone in a social circle to everythingPosted 05-09-2012 at 05:13 AM by lokelake.
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Maybe they were planning a party for you. Maybe they have had MM fatigue. Maybe they were doing something in which they know you wouldn't enjoy. There could be many reasons for thisPosted 05-09-2012 at 08:43 AM by Manbearpig
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The bold part could be it.Quote:Originally Posted by Manbearpig
Maybe they were planning a party for you. Maybe they have had MM fatigue. Maybe they were doing something in which they know you wouldn't enjoy. There could be many reasons for this
Posted 05-09-2012 at 02:25 PM by lokelake.
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They discussed this and decided not to invite you while you were with them so you could hear their conversation? That does seem odd...Quote:Originally Posted by lokelake.
Well, it wasnt much of remembering thing it was them plain out saying no. One of them asked the other if we should ask me out too and they both said no.Posted 05-10-2012 at 04:13 PM by Jacques
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Quote:Originally Posted by Manbearpig
Maybe they were planning a party for you. Maybe they have had MM fatigue. Maybe they were doing something in which they know you wouldn't enjoy. There could be many reasons for thisQuote:Originally Posted by lokelake.
The bold part could be it.Maybe it was sex.Posted 05-10-2012 at 05:03 PM by Cuffed
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My friend texted me it. She (or me, I forgot who) asked our other friend if she wanted to come too.Quote:Originally Posted by Jacques
They discussed this and decided not to invite you while you were with them so you could hear their conversation? That does seem odd...
Posted 05-10-2012 at 06:40 PM by lokelake.
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Did the friend who text you apologise for them not including you, or was she just texting to let you know they had gone off with out you?Quote:Originally Posted by lokelake.
My friend texted me it. She (or me, I forgot who) asked our other friend if she wanted to come too.
Were both of these friends female? In that case it could be they went off for something that they didn't want a male with them for?Posted 05-10-2012 at 11:21 PM by Jacques
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I think that you may be overreacting a little bit. Two females going off on their own, wanting just female company is quite normal. If you make too big a deal of this situation you may put your friendship with them back a little. You also need to remember that people are not perfect and any friendship relationship needs effort and trust to make it work.Posted 05-11-2012 at 03:46 PM by theone
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It gets worse. That's nothing.Quote:Originally Posted by theone
I think that you may be overreacting a little bit. Two females going off on their own, wanting just female company is quite normal. If you make too big a deal of this situation you may put your friendship with them back a little. You also need to remember that people are not perfect and any friendship relationship needs effort and trust to make it work.
We were at a park one day, I was constantly being ignored and most of the time they could care less (they didnt want me to repeat it) what I said when they missed it. And they were talking among themselves mostly. It could be a minute or more and they would not have said a word to me.Posted 05-11-2012 at 08:53 PM by lokelake.
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Both are female. They came up with lame excuses why they didnt want me to go with them.Quote:Originally Posted by Jacques
Did the friend who text you apologise for them not including you, or was she just texting to let you know they had gone off with out you?
Were both of these friends female? In that case it could be they went off for something that they didn't want a male with them for?Posted 05-11-2012 at 08:54 PM by lokelake.
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To be perfectly honest, I think you should work this one out for yourself. It's fine to ask, of course, and get our opinions but only you know the facts, and only you are there to judge facial expressions and body language.
Posted 05-12-2012 at 10:38 AM by Slenderman - Doctor
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What were the lame excuses? Maybe they were planning a threesome and wanted to surprise you... (This is probably not the right answer)Quote:Originally Posted by lokelake.
Both are female. They came up with lame excuses why they didnt want me to go with them.
Posted 05-12-2012 at 01:22 PM by Jacques
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Going out with them tomorrow and friday. but this time 3 girls will be coming so I will be even worse for me. oh well. I will just accept it lol.Quote:Originally Posted by Jacques
What were the lame excuses? Maybe they were planning a threesome and wanted to surprise you... (This is probably not the right answer)
Their lame excuses were: It would be too late for me (8 PM is not even close and home around midnight, thats not bad since I didnt have class the next day. What do they think I am, a person that cant do anything or a person that cant stay out past 11 PM?)
I will be drinking where we went (which is bull because they were drinking as well and I know how to do ti right, not drink a lot and wait a long time before driving, I am not stupid).
I forgot what else, but there were a couple others which was lame as well.Posted 05-16-2012 at 05:43 PM by lokelake.
