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The Effects of Edging and Denial

Posted Yesterday at 04:58 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I created a thread awhile ago asking for topic ideas for blogs. One of the suggestions that came from sissyBrittx was to discuss the the effects that edging and orgasm denial has in subs physically, mentally and emotionally.

I felt like this is something that I couldn't really comment on alone, and so I sent out some PMs asking fellow getdarians to help me give a wider view on this subject. In this blog I will share my own thoughts and feelings, but will also be providing quotes from
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Exploring new (and cold) waters

Posted Yesterday at 01:59 PM by Pariahterror

Today the sun would shine and I finally had the courage built up to go for it. it is about sunbathing on a beach in public in my bikini. And I succeeded.

First i rode to the beach on my bicycle. had my coat on. My underwear existed out of my bikini. I felt it hanging aroung my neck the whole time. First i scouted around. Waited for some time to get to the beach and walked around a bit. It was a nude beach I went to, but if noone is there, can be in bikini.

eventually i went...
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Blushy Butterfly

Posted 03-23-2019 at 10:50 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

For those that knew me when I first joined getDare, you might remember that I used to be super blushy. It wouldn't take much for me to hide my face with my blanket or hands, or the move that my roomates coined as "turtling" (putting my head inside my shirt).


Just talking on the phone with Mr. Devious would make my voice go high and squeaky. Knowing that somebody
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On pain

Posted 03-23-2019 at 07:35 PM by KittenRose (Kitten's Submissive and Slutty Blog)

Pain can be a huge turn on for me. In fact, I find the easiest way for me to be pushed into deep subspace is to be spanked, whipped, clothespins put my nipples, or even my face slapped. Of course, I would not take this from any random stranger (although that does make for a hot fantasy!) but from a Dom I love and respect, it would feel so ... delicious!

Once I get to a certain point then I really crave more and more pain. I want to be spanked even harder, I want my face to sting from a
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The Lonely Butterfly

Posted 03-22-2019 at 04:43 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I want to preface this blog by stating that I have the most amazing group of play partners (casual and more than casual) and friends that I value so so much. This blog is in now way a jab at any of them and none of them have done anything specifically that has triggered this feeling or the things I will discuss in this blog. You are all phenomenal and I adore you all.

Now ... the point of this blog ...

I am feeling lonely

I am sure you are thinking: "But
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Free(from a)dom

Posted 03-22-2019 at 04:41 PM by PrincessJessica (Jessica's Blog)
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Free(from a)dom

Freedom sucks. We fight wars to get it yet the only thing I now long for is to have it taken away. I hate it. As I regain my right to orgasm I also lose my Mistress; Sexyred. Itís hit me quite hard as itís the longest relationship Iíve had (no girlfriends or boyfriends) and it feels like losing a piece of myself. It hurts. So much.

18 months ago I excitedly replied to Sexyredís advertisement. I was nervous as my first sub/dom relationship was a disaster and...
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An unhappy sub is a disobedient sub.

Posted 03-22-2019 at 02:47 PM by IceMaiden (IceMaiden's Blog of Awesome)

I read a lot of d/s type books. I came across the title as a line in one of the books I was reading recently and it got me thinking as to how true it is.

For me personally, it isn't true in the slightest. If I am unhappy then I tell AM I am unhappy and why and then we figure it out together. I would also advise anyone who is unhappy to communicate with their partner because a d/s relationship should involve BOTH parties being happy. I know there are 'dominant's' who believe a sub/slave's
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