The following represents my own thoughts and feelings only. Naturally I am 100% correct in everything I think, do and say, but differing opinions may exist.

I am not a masochist, not even slightly. In fact, I am an utter wimp when it comes to any sort of pain. But I sort of understand the why of masochism. I am aware of the neurochemical responses which can lead to a natural high. I am cognisant of the release of emotional tension through controlled and safe pain. I get that there...

A reference for people doing RL scenes and play and things they might want to negotiate. Inspired by a list taught at a negotiation and communication class at my local dungeon.

Before you negotiate a scene with someone, check yourself.

• Are you in a positive frame of mind?
• H.A.L.T. Am I hungry, angry, lonely, tired?
• Is my judgement impaired somehow be it from alcohol, drugs, or simply lack of sleep?

People:

• Does anyone else need to consent to this negotiation? (Another partner,

...

Life has been a hectic and stressful lately.

I feel like I have been doing too much adulting lately and it is draining. I just want to crawl into my bed and be little forever. Of course, that isn't really an option.

I was recently in a car accident. My brand new car had $9000 in damage and I have whiplash. Things could have been a LOT worse, so I am just trying to remain positive and remember that I am lucky.

I turned 3 this year! (I really turned 28,...

The time is running so fast, I am with my friends and we are having our sweet ice cream and cookies and we are talking and talking...
Today is Friday and my master has a free day. He has been working hard till now and he decided to surprise me and stayed at home...but I did not know about his idea so I went with my friends after work out and I did not care about the time and my chores at home before the weekend is here.
Usually I arrive home around 5pm but now I came home at 7pm. The...

Recently I made a bet with AM and ended up losing and got landed with two days of high protocol. I hate high protocol. I tend to only use titles in play or when I am asking for something, as if I do it all the time it loses its meaning for me and I'm using titles just to use them instead of feeling them. And as for immediate obedience and no brattiness? Bah! That's so not me. So I wasn't too impressed with this high protocol I had coming to me.

I didn't know when they would be happening...

Trust.
Heads she won, tails lost,
Pain or pleasure on one coin,
I don't need to check.

Bimbo.
Suppression of mind,
right to think given away,
total surrender.

Submission.
Privilege, not right,
what others take for granted,
gifted to her love.

Hey everyone,

Bad news! It is my time of the month which means... well lets just say play becomes
a) more difficult
b) less enjoyable

Basically I end up spending the next seven days curled up in my bed with a hot water bottle just about managing to haul myself to university everyday before falling back into bed and curling up again. Basically it's a vicious circle. A vicious circle which has unfortunately brought these to a stop.

I've had a...