yep It was very frustrating...

I deleted it because I realized that it really does not fit with my posts and can cause more confusion about my position. I truly believe that women are naturally submissive (at least most of them), but that does not mean that I am misogynistic. On the contrary, I truly love women! ....like my pets.

Maybe you read TOO much between the lines....

Everyone chooses for themselves.

I don't have kik or any other fancy schmancy messengers you kids have these days. If you wish to message me you can do so via PM or my E-mail [email protected]. If I I shall consider that you are interesting to me, maybe I'll give you my Skype.

So it’s kinda weird how you interpreting my words. I'm not saying that you should expose your obedience for show or necessarily combine sexual submission and social passivity. I only said you have the right to choose to be submissive...
If you want to be a stay at home mom, there is nothing wrong with that even though feminists are telling you that its oppressive (it's not btw). Same goes for your sexuality. If you want to be like a stereotypical women and be dominated by your man, there is nothing wrong with that.

Our current culture is more or less (for lack of a better analogy) telling women to act like men, and when they don't, they are alienated and painted as a sad excuse for a women, when this could be further from the truth. She quite literally can become an enemy of her gender.
It's probably because you've had it drilled into you all of your life that women need to be "strong and independent", and in many aspects of your life, that's a good thing. But your sex life is allowed to be whatever you want it to be, independently of your life outside the bedroom. You're having trouble separating the two, and you're having trouble moving beyond the simplified lessons you were taught by your parents (or whoever raised you) into adult life, where you are allowed to use your own brain to determine when it's appropriate to follow your teachings, and when it's okay to think for yourself.
That is also a common situation. Ideas that we are taught as children are VERY powerful, and even though they are frequently simplified so that we can understand them as young children, we often take those lessons literally, even into adulthood. Parents and teachers often teach young kids simplified rules, and then fail to revisit the issue with a more complicated and realistic version of the rules later on. For example, many little kids are taught "touching THERE is BAD!", and then NOT taught as a young teen that "touching there is something you do when you're in a relationship with someone who really cares about you, and anyone ELSE touching there is bad." Many people have massive guilt about expressing their sexuality as a result, which is often seen as a good thing by parents when their kid is still a teen, but who don't realize the long-term damage they are causing.

You need to understand and truly ACCEPT that the moral guidelines and expectations you were taught growing up were really only intended to be a framework and a starting point, and that as an adult, you are not only allowed, but EXPECTED to make your own decisions and set your own rules based on your own personal needs and desires. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
As for my preference, then you're right, I love serious and outgoing slaves, because I myself used to treat serious relationship and my obligations in them. So I enter only those relationships that have a chance of long term. I accept the newbies, although I find it hard to interact with a very shy girl. But the choice of partner and the type of relationship - is a private matter and extraneous are not affected.