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The fog is lifting

Posted 02-21-2019 at 08:50 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

As I am writing this, I am feeling grumpy, sad, tired, anxious, nervous, frustrated, scared, and just bleh in general. It has been a rough few months ... hell a rough year. I have been trying to push through and remain as positive as I can, but it is hard (Ps. I actually started writing this blog a few days ago, so these emotions aren't actually accurate to how I am feeling right now).

The truth is, I haven't felt like myself in a long time. Even when I am having a good day, I feel like...

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Being Vulnerable

Posted 02-20-2019 at 03:12 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I am a very open person. I talk about my relationships: the good, bad and ugly. I go into details about play sessions, the hot, sexy details as well as the less glamorous side. I openly talk about my feelings, my fears, my abuses, my traumas.

So you might be surprised when I say that I have a hard time being vulnerable. But I do.

I have been hurt so many times, and so while I am open and honest, I don't people see the truly vulnerable side of me. I protect that part of...

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The End

Posted 03-05-2019 at 04:00 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

All good things come to an end. This a very bleak way of looking at things, but it is also true. Even the best things have an end. Holidays end, books end, lives end. We really have no control over things ending. However, we CAN have some control over how some things end: specifically relationships.

D/s relationships are very unique, yet they are also very similar to vanilla, romantic relationships or friendships.

Nobody goes into a relationship thinking that it is going...

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Needles

Posted 03-12-2019 at 08:35 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 03-12-2019 at 09:48 PM by Butterfly

Sorry, this isn't about the kinky use of needles, this is probably a rather boring blog but I really needed to just have a safe place to talk about it this ...

For as long as I can remember, I have been scared of needles. I wasn't one of those kids who would faint or scream at the top of their lungs, but I was the kid who would skip vaccination days at school. My mom would instead make me an appointment at the doctor to have them done privately.

I remember as a child having...

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Back to Kink - Custom Edges Report

Posted 03-16-2019 at 03:44 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

It's been awhile since I wrote a kinky blog so I thought I would post some of the reports from the custom edges that I received in my 6th Anniversary celebration thread.

Post #18:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lemuricon

Soo, 'grins' how about you get something nice to drink. Not really important what, but you may need quite a bit.
Now while you drink you can wait for your bladder to be really really full. Till you almost can't hold it anymore...
And that is the point when you may have a nice edge

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Blushy Butterfly

Posted 03-23-2019 at 10:50 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 04-22-2019 at 01:23 PM by Butterfly

For those that knew me when I first joined getDare, you might remember that I used to be super blushy. It wouldn't take much for me to hide my face with my blanket or hands, or the move that my roomates coined as "turtling" (putting my head inside my shirt).

Just talking on the phone with Mr. Devious would make my voice go high and squeaky. Knowing that somebody...

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Things I learned in chat today

Posted 04-01-2019 at 03:11 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

Today I needed some major cheering up. I got some sad news while I was chatting away in chat. Not only was everybody super supportive, but things turned very silly and it really helped me stop focusing on being overwhelmingly sad. With their help, I was able to get through the rest of my work day.

I wanted to share some of the life lessons that I learned today:

Quote:

Life pro tip, be careful what you insert into holes in your body you may not be able to easily remove.

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