Cheerleaders and Emotional Intelligence


It's been a couple of months since I posted to my blog and that's because I've been going through a rough time of things, losing animals is tough at any time but losing two of them in a short space of time is truly awful, especially with a demanding stressful job constantly piling on the pressure.

I'm doing ok with things, finding my happy face again and had a couple of thoughts last week whilst on a leadership course last...

That is all

(If you think this post is directed at you..cough, Loke..cough...it isn't. It is just something a few of my friends have done recently as well)

Okay starting off. I love video games, don't get me wrong. Guitar Hero, Madden, Fifa, NBA Live and even the Sims and some sports simulation games. They are really fun to play. However, what I don't get whatsoever is the obsession with online games. Why the hell would you want to play 16 hours a day against people you don't know doing odd...

LIFE IS GOOD finally. Finally a happy blog.

I bought a car today and can finally say the car I have been driving for 10 years is MINE.

School has started again and even though I don't know anyone in my class and I have to get used to taking tests again, I am excited because it is my last semester of school EVER (until I start teaching again). I also started work again. I started a week late due to circumstances beyond my control and I am finally caught up.
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[23:00:16] ???: hands on the table
[23:00:21] nakedhelen: Devious...
[23:00:32] ???: do it
[23:00:38] nakedhelen: OK!
[23:00:44] ???: i want you to edge like that
[23:00:48] ???: can you?
[23:01:00] nakedhelen: I'll try...
[23:02:37] nakedhelen: Mmm.. this is silly but good! I wonder if people notice me wiggle around like an idiot...
[23:02:54] ???: that's the point ;D
[23:03:57] ???: are there people right in your row?
[23:04:08]...

Introduction

It’s been months since my last blog. Not quite a year, but close to 9 months. The reason for this, is because I quit doing online D/s stuff in general.

However, I still talk to several friends, and the only exception to quitting all D/s, is my friendship with frosty and 1pupil. I occasionally give them tasks… and every so often, although rare, I let Frosty have some type of …. I wouldn’t really say dominance, but something like that over me, for very short...

I have seen so much of this lately.

• I do my kink in this way, or that way, does that make me wrong?
• I keep my personality and don't just smush to my doms whims, is that wrong?
• I have a life and personality and don't always want to do this, does that mean I'm not really submissive?
• I only feel like domming sometimes, I don't know if that means I am not really a dom?
• I really only feel like being kinky in the bedroom, is there something wrong with me?
• I sometimes don't feel very obedient or

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