Hmm, I vote for a lube slip 'n' slide, you could probably get up quite a bit of speed!

What to do with that much lube......
What to do, what to do.....

As hilarious as this is to read, you should post that picture as a review on amazon. I would be horrified to receive a box like that.

Paddling pool, lube, pool party.

OR

Tarpaulin, hill, slde

WOW! Just WOW!

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.

I can be your sub miss on Skype and Kik now if you want try me out

!!!!! Great ideas!!

Both lists have amazing ideas, thanks for share!!!

I agree a lot of kink isn't just one sided

Such good ideas i hope you you get to try some of these.

Meanie *hug* <3
Phew...

See how we achieved consensus in a polite manner. If everybody did it there would be no flaming and we would restore WORLD PEACE

yes, if it is just for the sake of a notion that someone refrains from pleasure then it is illogical. For me it intervenes in my dominant mindset.

It is safe to conclude then, that it is not the reaction that is dumb but the reasoning you mention behind the reaction is 'dumb', as I have the same reaction albeit for different reasons.

@Joanna.. don't worry.. just playing with your mind <3<3

I understand what you said and agree with it too. It was an old post I made years ago in an old book club that I dug up. I don't want to bottom you from the top

I would beg to differ here due to my personal experience. I agree it is wrong to generalise that if you are a D type then you can't do/receive tasks whether as a bottom even for others or even as a Dom instructing their sub to do it and being a dominant does not necessarily cause one to not do tasks or freak at it. There is no cause and effect relationship between dominance and not doing tasks.

However, coming to the point of disagreement in generalising if you are a Dom and freak out with mentioning of being spanked is dumb universally for all dominants, from my experience I have found that there definitely is a correlation between having a dominant mindset and refraining from doing tasks (or freaking out at mention), and while I can't generalise for all the dominants it holds good at least for me. In the last few months that I was exploring domination, because of having a dominant mindset towards my last sub, I had been completely out of touch from doing tasks since I am not capable of both mindsets even towards two separate individuals or bottoming with many intense kinks/receiving tasks (with an exception of light game forfeits) in the same time period as practising domination, so when I posted in Cass's PM party thread, I started freaking out within receiving the first 5 PM dares and later realised it was because I wasn't in the bottoming mood those days and it was related to me domming someone else.

So, I respect your views, however I do believe that at least for some dominants, being a dominant to someone is related to having a reluctant (in absence of a better word) attitude (or even freaking out) towards receiving/doing tasks in general though the reasoning that you project for it as they doing so to protect their image of being a 'big strong dom' and refraining from potential pleasure may seem misguided. I have the same reaction to tasks when in a dominant mindset like it is alright for me to spank myself if I wish so voluntarily but there is a chance I may freak out if someone says *spanks you* (as it is more mainstream power play than something like *pokes you* imo) out of the blue and it may be related to me exploring domination at the time, however my reasoning is different as explained in my second paragraph above.

Summary - there is no cause affect relationship between the two but there definitely is some correlation at least for some individuals with intelligent reasoning behind (albeit different reason from the one mentioned in the blog) in my opinion
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PS: Sorry Joanna to pop your bubble, but you ain't bottoming me from the top..lol, even as a sub for my pleasure, or even in your imagination as it would lead to dissonance in my illogically challenged mind. I have other ways of deriving pleasure

I agree with you and yeah, I've had that fantasy too. In the older book club here, we read a story that had a similar instance and I wrote this ~

"I liked how considerate Miss Lark when she allowed for a rare and temporary 'switch'. It made sure Abby's injury had minimal disturbance, but as a submissive also allowed her to have the rare experience of expressing a rare part of herself. For Miss Lark to allow her to do that speaks volumes. And it was nice to see how open and loving she was.

In a similar vein (but not quite), I have also imagined scenarios before in which a submissive was in a dominant position (and the Dominant in a submissive one) while retaining their essence. So the Dominant would still be dominant in submissive position, and the submissive would still be submissive in the dominant position. It would still be apparent even in silence. The eye contact and touch, the aura... All of it in a relaxed/natural manner ~ even when it gets faster and rough. Can you imagine that?"

I agree everything you said in your post. I generally don't like being on top/take the lead during sex. But I've always had the fantasy that my Master will make me dominate him, just for his own pleasure, because he enjoys it. And in the meantime, even though I get to be on top, I'm still his submissive and his pleasure still stands before mine. I mean, that's quite sexy isn't it! It doesn't matter who spanks who, it's the submissive being under controlled no matter what they do, and their pleasure remains second place under every circumstances.