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Love the life you live

Posted 02-26-2019 at 08:03 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 02-26-2019 at 09:35 PM by Butterfly

This past weekend I went to the mountains with my two best friends. The mountains are my happy place! Look at this view from the airbnb we stayed at:


We spent Friday at a Nordic Spa: saunas, steam rooms, hot and cold pools. All outdoors with a crisp (it was about -4c) mountain view. Afterwards we played Drunken Jenga and got totally trashed.

Saturday we spent the day crafting,
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Discovering New Limits

Posted 03-18-2019 at 08:51 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I have had the opportunity to try a bunch of kinky things during the last 10 years of my life. I have had multiple Doms over the years and have really enjoyed experiencing many different kinks, toys, sensations and sexual acts.

I have always allowed my list of likes/dislikes/limits to be fluid and ever changing. I like to push my limits and sometimes find myself moving a hard limit into my likes or loves. I am a huge advocate for trying almost everything once. The only way to know if
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6th Anniversary Spanking Report (and wax play)

Posted 03-17-2019 at 05:33 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

To celebrate my 6th Anniversary on getDare, I created a thread where people were able to give me spankings.

The final tally was as follows:

Hand - 69
With hand across both cheeks - 1
Cane - 11
Paddle - 17
Heart crop - 16
Chain o pain - 9
Wet spatula - 9
Flip flop - 37
Slipper - 1
Favorite toy - 1
Say "Thank you, Brat" - 1
Ruler - 1
Bouquet of flowers - 1

There were
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More Custom Edges

Posted 03-18-2019 at 07:00 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

This afternoon, after my spankings (read about them here), Mr. Devious and I completed some of the custom edges that I received in my 6th Anniversary celebration thread.

Post #18:
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You have to edge without touching yourself - that is, you can't. You can have help, you can let someone else hold the wand or toys, but you can't be the one doing it. So, for this edge you may wish to be blindfolded and then let someone (or something) else do the work, you must only react.
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The Effects of Edging and Denial

Posted 03-24-2019 at 04:58 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I created a thread awhile ago asking for topic ideas for blogs. One of the suggestions that came from sissyBrittx was to discuss the the effects that edging and orgasm denial has in subs physically, mentally and emotionally.

I felt like this is something that I couldn't really comment on alone, and so I sent out some PMs asking fellow getdarians to help me give a wider view on this subject. In this blog I will share my own thoughts and feelings, but will also be providing quotes from
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Suicide Prevention

Posted 03-26-2019 at 11:53 AM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)


I have struggled throughout my life with mental illness: depression and anxiety mostly. I have used self harm as a coping mechanism since the age of 14. Although I have never had thoughts about wanting to no longer be here, or wanting to end my life, I know plenty of people who have.

When I was 15 I had to call my best friends parents to tell them that she was
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The versatility of orgasm control

Posted 12-01-2020 at 07:03 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

Orgasm control is one of my favorite kinks as both a Domme and sub. Controlling somebody's pleasure can be so powerful and just plain HOT!

Usually when people think of orgasm control, they automatically think of denial. That seems to be one of the most popular kinks. Most of people are actually really surprised when I tell them that denial is a limit of mine.

But wait! How can I love orgasm control but not do denial? Because there is so much more to orgasm control than
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