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Mine!
Posted 02-28-2020 at 08:35 PM by Butterfly
Hearing the word "mine" from the right person has always given me butterflies. It isn't about ownership so much (sometimes it can be) as it is knowing that you have captured a piece of that person and it belongs to you. It's magical.
As a sub, nothing can make me melt faster than to be reffered to as "MY good girl" or "MY little princess". It takes a word that already has good feelings attached and elevates it 100%.
For that reason, as Domme I conciously make an effort to add "my" in front of a name: "My worm", "My butt slut", or "My pee guzzling whore". I know how it feels to hear those words from a Dom or partner and so I want to share that feeling with MY subs.
Part of it is also about ownership. It's like peeing on them to mark my territory. I need to let the world know that they are MINE! I may have to share them with others, but at least a small part of them is all MINE!
But I guess I hadn't really thought about how special those words can be to hear as a Domme as well.
When Gerbil recently asked to be MINE, I was overjoyed but I had one condition ... I wanted to be HIS as well. It feels a little silly because we talk about the sub being owned, and Dom(me)s are the owners ...
But when one of my subs says "MY owner", "MY Princess Scary Butterfly", or "MY Domme", it just feels so special. It is almost enough for me to be nice to them ... almost ...
As a sub, nothing can make me melt faster than to be reffered to as "MY good girl" or "MY little princess". It takes a word that already has good feelings attached and elevates it 100%.
For that reason, as Domme I conciously make an effort to add "my" in front of a name: "My worm", "My butt slut", or "My pee guzzling whore". I know how it feels to hear those words from a Dom or partner and so I want to share that feeling with MY subs.
Part of it is also about ownership. It's like peeing on them to mark my territory. I need to let the world know that they are MINE! I may have to share them with others, but at least a small part of them is all MINE!
But I guess I hadn't really thought about how special those words can be to hear as a Domme as well.
When Gerbil recently asked to be MINE, I was overjoyed but I had one condition ... I wanted to be HIS as well. It feels a little silly because we talk about the sub being owned, and Dom(me)s are the owners ...
But when one of my subs says "MY owner", "MY Princess Scary Butterfly", or "MY Domme", it just feels so special. It is almost enough for me to be nice to them ... almost ...
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Comments
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I totally get what you mean! I love it too!
In most forms, even MY bestie ♡ xPosted 03-01-2020 at 09:39 AM by LittleMissSass 
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It does feel a little weird to call you mine because YOU own me.
But you are certainly MY best friend MY evil Miss Butterfly!!!Posted 03-01-2020 at 10:48 AM by Jaro
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I think there is something to this...
MY nemesis - Yeah that feels great and like it fits
Posted 03-01-2020 at 04:34 PM by Tease
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I like it because it gives me a sense of belonging. Like yes, someone cares enough to want me to be theirs; whether that's a part of their life, being a good friend or just knowing I am wanted... It feels awesome to be called "My kitten" or "This is Lyra, my best friend" even things that are normally degrading then turn into something special and personal.Posted 03-01-2020 at 04:38 PM by SilvertongueLyra
