The easy and simple answer is, of course, "What the sub and their owner allows." But since when do alot of people on here go for the simple answer? Not often. So I am going to break it down a little for you.

Let's say you are interested in a sub but you know they have a Dom/me. Now, if they do not play with others whatsoever this is what you do: Back.The.Hell.Away.Do.Not.Bother.Them.

But some people do play with others as well as their partners too. What if you...

Do you know what the title of this blog is? It is absolute bullshit in all shape and forms. A sub/slave should never feel that they can't question something their Dom/me has told them to do. And they definitely shouldn't be scared to do so. If you are scared to question your Dom/me, then something is wrong. It is not healthy and you either need to rectify the situation or leave them.

And it doesn't matter if you are a sub or a slave or have given a little control or a lot of control or...

Whenever I see threads where people state "I have no limits" or threads such as person above and someone says you have no limits, my automatic response is to roll my eyes. Which could be considered a little odd or hypocritical given I do not have limits with AM.

But.

That is the big difference. I choose not to have limits with someone I have been in a relationship with for almost two years, (Jeez, where did the time go?!) someone I trust unconditionally to look...

I'm a huge brat. I like to irritate AM, to bug him, to drive him insane. Just today I responded with a "Mr Butthead." instead of "Sir." In the middle of a quick play scene. Even though when I did so I was fairly sure the pain on my nipples would become even worse than it already was. I hate nipple pain, but that didn't stop me. And it did get worse, but I still giggled.

So when AM suddenly told me something along the lines of he knows what I can and can not do, what...

I recently read that blackmail requires little or no trust at all and I disagree entirely. That wasn't the exact quote but close enough and I'm too lazy to go hunting for the exact one.

It may seem an odd dynamic to need trust but I personally think it requires a lot of trust. Without it, it wouldn't even be able to get started. Take for instance the fact you need some starting materials for it to even begin. Are you going to recieve those materials be it pictures, audio, videos, personal...

Today was a busy day for Icy. We had a very humiliating task scheduled, which I may post about later. She had a huge list of tasks for gD threads and bets we make while playing scrabble. And to top it all off, her new electric zappy toy arrived over the weekend, and today was the first time we had the chance to play with it.

I have recieved pictures and videos by the dozen today, task reports and live conversations. We have revised her day to day rules, a work in progress.
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Each week I am to write AM a weekly report on my thoughts of the things we have done the prior week. If we haven't played much due to r/l interfering he will give me a topic he wants me to write about. This was the last topic he gave me and he wanted me to post it here so...here it is.

Sometimes Sir asks me to do things I am not fond of. Sometimes it is things that not only am I not fond of, but I actively dislike or even hate them as well. The first example that comes to mind is wearing...