well, I never had a gf, but I still know what to do for you. Just give it time. Eventually, she will want to kiss. If you really like her, then don't break up with her just becuase she doesn't want any kissing.

You could just talk to her about it and tell her your feelings. I'm sure she will listen to how you feel and you can likely make adjustments. Worth a shot ain't it?

Awww. Well, kudos for you because you were just happy with a hug

I thought a lot a while back about moving to a java based chat but after looking at what was out there never found anything that was both affordable and full-featured. I want something I can tie into the getDare database, supports sending images, and is highly customizable. It's been a while since I looked at chat solutions but there is really not much out there. IRC is great but I have disliked all the Java and Flash clients I have seen.

The chat we have now does 80% of what I want so I'm going to stick with it until I find something substantially better.

Yeah but the chat is a flash application so it would be difficult to make a phone version of it.

ya the chat should go mobile!

Get Opera Mobile or Opera Mini
Opera is the best phone browser around.

Anyways, the forums are going to get a major upgrade soon so after that I may look into a more phone friendly (crappy browser) solution.

works just fine on my iphone

it was brought doqn by the passengers.

you confuse me A

I'm an American, and damn it, I make jokes about this country all the time, there is just way to many things not to joke about. And when I do that, people usually know that I'm joking. It takes a lot to offend me. I think people need to get a more open mind sometimes and really think about that its just a joke. If you don't like it, laugh it off and walk away. And really, as long as they aren't doing it in a hateful way, is it really that big of a deal?

Of course I'm down to earth, Great British thinking!

And yep, Al Murray is pure awesome, went to see him live and he had the entire audience standing and pointing to two guys with long hair in the front row, who he had decided were gay for no reason other than long hair, and we were chanting "Shame on you, you filthy bastards!"

I think what so many people forget is half the time the joke isn't so much on the people it's seemingly directed at, but more the type of people who believe in that view, especially with him as he makes it pretty obvious he's just being a "typical british" character, so how anyone can really get offended by any of it is beyond me.

I also type too much at half three in the morning...

Urgh, don't get me started on Americans who hate anyone making a joke about their country... I've had a few friends over the years who are more than happy to have jokes thrown at the French, Germans, English, Canadians, but the second it's about America it becomes "I find that highly offensive!"

Case in point, I showed a few of them this - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUdaPNXC_68 and they all seemed to claim it was offensive to Americans. Ignoring the fact this is a small piece of his entire show, and he laid into even our own country even a few times during that clip as it was.

I guess the fact I love his style of humour though not only makes me partially racist in that sense, but also sexist and pretty much everything else... as he puts down everyone and everything in essence.

But you're right, too many people get hung up over unimportant issues, it's not like the joke or comment is affecting them personally, so what's the big issue?

In one of my classes, we had a discussion about this. My professor is a lesbian and she talked about how she makes lesbian jokes all the time and she jokes about it with her friends but when someone she doesn't know says it, she takes offense to it. Another example is the "N" word. Black people say it all the time but when a white person says it, the black person or everyone around them gets offended. So I think people need to be careful when they make jokes about other people.

*ahem*

Really?!? Where and what are they? Are you an Alien?!?
OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG
AAAAAAAAAAAAAhhhhhhhjhhhh
Please don't steal my soul or whatever little alien I promise i'll feed you and give you an allowance.


...American here...


Oh, and its "theirs"

>>If your confused... Don't worry it just means your American.<<

*ahem*

UK here

Happy Thanksgiving!

Aww. (Definately a good thing I didn't try to help xd)