I have taken a long break from this site, several months. When I left I was overwhelmed and confused, not knowing how to feel about a newly discovered apparently dominant tendency … And there was work and study and a short love affair. But all that is really not important right now.

Last week I remembered … How much fun I had with my "Rules" thread last August. (You can read it here: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=318857) I had not only fun when I was adhering to...