Do not think yourself as silly, its not.
Do not do anything you do not feel comfortable with. Keep your curiousity and try out what you like and what you do not like.
Do not think it about how to do, just relax and do what is most pleasurable and lustfull to you. It will come all naturally.
I bet you do not think that much when you masturbate. you just do what feels best. thats how you should deal with sex anyway.
Dont feel bad letting the guy work on you. Many guys like...