True, I was mainly kidding though

Not really. Might be the case, but anyone could. Thing is, you won't get the exposure a thread would, coz hardly anyone uses/reads the blogs for S/M stuff.

its a kind of dedication that he should post it here, lol anybody who reads his blog looking for a match has got to be serious.

Try posting here http://www.getdare.com/bbs/forumdisplay.php?f=10

Thats a dedicated section of the site for this kind of thing, you'll get more views there, but, i fear without a greater amount of detail you'll not get any responces.

But good luck anyway