100% Brat
78% Submissive
76% Daddy/Mommy
76% Degradation receiver
60% Pet
59% Switch
58% Experimentalist
55% Dominant
53% girl/boy
47% Primal (Prey)
46% Vanilla
44% Bondage giver
41% Owner
41% Master/Mistress
38% Non-monogamist
37% Brat tamer
35% Bondage receiver
30% Masochist
25% Slave
25% Ageplayer
23% Degradation giver
21% Exhibitionist...

Before I say anything else I want to say:

to our new president: Lola.fox! You and your team ran an excellent campaign and it came right down to the wire. You are amazing and I am so glad that I got to run against you.

When I set out to do this election, I made it clear that I wanted to stay positive and true to myself. I feel like I ran a clean and friendly...

Now, some people will say, "Dominants have all the power in a scene. They are the dominant for a reason. *Cue eye roll*"

Some people will say, "Dominants only have power because the submissive gives it to them. *Cue condescending laugh*"

Reasons can be made for both sides of the argument. The sub can end the scene with a word (because safe words are important!) but then again, so can the dom.

The sub is the one giving control to the dom,...

Limits are the things you will not do. Ever.

Some categorize their limits as Soft Limits and hard limits. Soft limits are things they strongly dislike, but can be persuaded to try or push or even do as a punishment in the right scenario.

Hard limits are things you will not do ever, under any circumstances. Hard limits are where you draw the line.

Now, I personally don't categorize my limits in these two categories, but maybe I should. My 'hates' group would...

And no, I'm not talking about the brief adrenaline rush you have when someone jumps out and scares you. And I'm not talking about the anticipation you feel when you know you're about to be punished.

I mean the fear you have at 3am when you hear something creak in your silent house and you're suddenly very aware of every move you make. The fear that makes you remember every terrifying movie you've ever scene. The fear that stays with you and leaves you unsettled for days.

...

Keep in mind, these are my thoughts, my own opinions. Take what you will from it, disagree, agree, doesn't matter. These are the rambles of me, not you.

So, BDSM can stand for different things, but I have only heard two variations.

Bondage Discipline Sadomasochism

Bondage Dominance Sadomasochism

There are probably more variations, but I'm going to stick with the first one. I read somewhere this great analogy that I've always really liked, but...

PM me "Fun Time!" and I'll fuck my ass for one hour

PM me "Cap it" to sleep naked with a plug in for the entire night

PM me "Write" and I will write what you ask on a covered part of my body only if you add a dare in PM

PM me "oops" and I'll ruin my next two orgasms

PM me "spank" and i will spank myself x times.

PM me "Bruiser" and I'll use my fuck my ass with my largest toy...