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Walking Away

Posted 10-02-2018 at 02:19 PM by Butterfly

I need a break.

getDare has always meant so much to me, but lately it has been a source of heartache.

I have been feeling hurt. I have been feeling attacked. I have been feeling so incredibly anxious.

Right now, getDare is not feeling like the happy, safe place it used to be. And so, I need a break.

I am walking away for the rest of the week. I will return on Sunday to help finish the King Election and to "crown" the King. I will make a decision then about whether I need more time away.

I will be receiving PMs as they go to my email, but I will not be responding until I return on Sunday. If you need to contact me, you can do so on Skype, Discord, Kik or Hangouts if you are one of the people who has my contact information there. Otherwise, you can reach me through Mr. Devious if needed.

Good to luck to all.
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    iSpuds's Avatar
    I'm genuinely sorry that this whole thing has been such a pain in the ass for you. I don't think the backlash is totally warranted and I think the contest was taken waaay too seriously. I hope a break will help you feel better! *muah*
    Posted 10-02-2018 at 02:47 PM by iSpuds iSpuds is offline
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    Ly Ph's Avatar
    Take as much time as you need (not that you need my permission for this). You deserve a good subtober.
    Posted 10-02-2018 at 02:53 PM by Ly Ph Ly Ph is offline
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    LitDarkness's Avatar
    I wish you the best, I'll miss you.
    Posted 10-02-2018 at 03:33 PM by LitDarkness LitDarkness is offline
    Updated 10-02-2018 at 05:31 PM by LitDarkness
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    amethyst353's Avatar
    I wish you well and apologize if I in any way contributed to your pain. I think the world of you and hope you can come back refreshed.
    Posted 10-02-2018 at 03:54 PM by amethyst353 amethyst353 is offline
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    Heart's Avatar
    Hope to see you around soon my wonderful friend!
    Posted 10-02-2018 at 05:47 PM by Heart Heart is offline
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    Jaro's Avatar
    I find it very painful that a great idea to make the community more active and get people to just have fun has lead to to this decision.

    But I do understand it.

    I hope this break will help you and you will return refreshed because I can't imagine a getDare without you!
    Posted 10-03-2018 at 08:21 AM by Jaro Jaro is offline
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    Butterfly's Avatar
    Thank you all for the wonderful comments, PMs, messages on other apps and wall posts that I received while I was away. I am not yet fully back but promised to appear to finish the election today.

    Your support means more than you can ever know.
    Posted 10-07-2018 at 08:26 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    IceMaiden's Avatar
    I hope the break is helping and you know where I am when you're ready to be more present <3
    Posted 10-12-2018 at 09:41 AM by IceMaiden IceMaiden is offline
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    Blue Fox's Avatar
    So sorry that things have not been good for you. I've been mostly away, so was unaware of what had been going on. Wishing you all the best and take as much time as you need. You'll be missed, but we understand and know that you need to see to your own needs now. Best wishes go with you. And I hope that when / if you decide to return, you find a happy, safe place here again.
    Posted 10-21-2018 at 07:33 PM by Blue Fox Blue Fox is offline

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